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Looking for highly effective, fast and lasting results? I have worked with and helped clients release trauma, lift depression, prevent anger, reduce stress, overwhelm, anxiety and unhappiness. They quickly learn how to change how they feel, how to self-regulate moods and negative emotions to be their best in all situations.

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16 January 2026

Therapist

I reached a breaking point in my relationship with my son, who was close to being diagnosed with anxiety—largely influenced by my own helicopter parenting and constant worry.

It took just one session with Paula for me to clearly see where things had gone wrong. What stood out immediately was how she explained everything through a biological and nervous-system-based lens, rather than vague concepts. That approach genuinely fascinated me and helped me understand the situation at a much deeper level.

To be honest, I was never someone who meditated or believed in therapy. If my back hadn’t been against the wall, I probably wouldn’t have reached out at all. But from the beginning, I trusted Paula completely.

I practiced exactly what she taught me, and the results were undeniable. What she explained made sense, and more importantly, it worked. I felt better after every single session—and the changes showed not just in me, but in the dynamic with my son.

I’m deeply grateful for her work and her approach.
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25 November 2025

Therapist

I don’t normally leave reviews but on this occasion I feel compelled to do so.

I reached out to Paula a few months ago when I was in a bit of a rut. Without going into too much detail, I hadn’t been myself in months, possibly even years. After a few sessions with Paula I had a completely different outlook on things and it’s all down to her.

I would highly recommend Paula to anyone struggling with issues such as anxiety and depression.

Thank you once again Paula x
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thank you Jonny, what a great thing to read first thing and it was a great pleasure working with you - many congratulations on all your achievement and future successes

18 November 2025

Paula is amazing & I could not recommend her services enough.
She helped me get through the toughest time in my life, got me up and about & feeling genuine happiness in a way I’d never felt before. I now have tools I will use for life because of Paula, and I will be forever grateful we found her!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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it was an absolute pleasure working with you Shannon - really great to hear that you achieved so much.

12 September 2025

Since starting sessions with Paula, my mental health has improved drastically. She has a calm and understanding way of explaining things that makes me look forward to every session. Her knowledge and approach have also helped ease my IBS, something I never thought would improve this much. I truly can’t wait for each session with her, as the progress I’ve made has been life-changing. More...

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many thanks for this Adriano - really lovely review and so pleased that you found the approach so helpful with IBS

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5 September 2025

Therapist

Process was not what I expected, piqued my curiosity from the outset, each session was different but equally fascinating. No nonsense approach, kept me in my place and 100% focused on the future, not the past . “Change you and everything around you will change”, words I will remember forever. Highly recommended. More...

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Excellent thank you Mark and the bonus is that it is equally enjoyable and satisfying for me as well - looking forward to the next one

19 August 2025

Paula is a very special lady who puts you at ease straight away. She has made me feel very positive and more relaxed than I have been in a long time. She explains everything clearly. I would recommend her to anyone who needs a bit of extra help in dealing with emotional stress. More...

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Many thanks for this Ann, and it was an absolute pleasure working with you as well and seeing how quickly you turned things around.

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19 July 2025

Therapist

My sessions with Paula were very effective and empowering. Her warm nature and understanding definitely made it easier for me to commit to improving myself. Her approach and practical techniques that she taught me made me feel empowered and more capable of making my vision of my life a reality. It was incredible how more confident and capable I feel after just 4 sessions. More...

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17 July 2025

Therapist

Paula is wonderful. She explains how the brain works and makes sense of why you think in a certain way and offers strategies to change them that really work. I feel transformed in a way that I didn't think was possible. I have the confidence to be myself and not let anxiety and rumination control my life leading to better sleep and more social opportunities. More...

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2 July 2025

Life Coaching

I had the pleasure of working with Paula as my coach, and I can't recommend her enough. From the very beginning, her warm and approachable demeanor helped me feel comfortable and supported. Paula has a unique ability to create a safe space where I felt free to explore my thoughts and emotions.

The methods she used were incredibly practical and effective in helping me understand and manage my emotions, which was a game changer for me. I’ve gained a newfound ability to stay grounded, motivated and appreciate the simple joys in life. It’s amazing how much clarity and peace of mind I’ve found through our sessions and by practicing her techniques.

If you're looking for someone who genuinely cares and can guide you on your journey, Paula is the perfect choice. I'm so grateful for the positive impact she’s had on my life!
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7 June 2025

I reached out to Paula when I was going through a really sticky period in my life. The sessions I have had have helped me to focus on the good and positive things. I've also learned some really useful techniques I can use when I experience stressful situations. I would highly recommend Paula to anyone. More...

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thank you so much for this lovely review Kat - it was an absolute pleasure working with you and seeing the great results you achieved.

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2 June 2025

Therapist

Paula is absolutley superb, I can't thank her enough for all she did for me in a very short space of time. I found her approach to be transformational.

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Thank you so much for this Malcolm, really appreciated and so pleased that you achieved the results you wanted.

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29 May 2025

Depression Counselling

Paula helped restore my confidence and motivation and regain appreciation of my life. She gave me the tools to build my old self again.
I highly recommend Paula to anyone seeking help and I can’t thank her enough for helping me.
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really good to work with you Sylvia and thank you for the lovely review.

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16 May 2025

Therapist

I’ve had a great experience working with Paula, her sessions are well structured whilst still giving me the flexibility to discuss anything I feel is relevant. I’ve learnt coping mechanisms, the science behind what’s happening in my brain and the benefit of a positive mindset. Paula has helped massively with my difficulty with sleep and I couldn’t recommend her enough! More...

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thanks for this review and especially for mentioning the sleep aspect, this is such a major part of recovery, thank you Lauren

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16 May 2025

Therapist

In our first session Paula was so interesting explaining the brain and how it functions and our primitive past (cavemen etc) on the second meeting I woke up earlier, ready, logged on and looking forward to the session which I enjoyed so much, Paula's use of furry animals to explain complicated issues is a joy to behold. I cant wait to see her again and in fact "I can and I will " see her again. More...

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thanks for this Mark, really appreciated and look forward to the next time

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16 May 2025

Therapist

In our first session Paula was so interesting explaining the brain and how it functions and our primitive past (cavemen etc) on the second meeting I woke up earlier, ready, logged on and looking forward to the session which I enjoyed so much, Paula's use of furry animals to explain complicated issues is a joy to behold. I cant wait to see her again and in fact "I can and I will " see her again. More...

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5 April 2025

Therapist

I wanted to take a moment to share my experience with Paula. She has been incredibly supportive throughout my journey. I've been practicing heart math techniques that she introduced me to, which have been invaluable, especially in challenging situations at work.

Thanks to her guidance, I received the all-clear from my doctor and was able to obtain my provisional license. I've even started my driving lessons! Her encouragement and expertise have made a significant difference in my progress. I can't thank her enough for her time and support. Highly recommend!
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you have been a brilliant student of the process and it is wonderful to see the real you emerge. Congratulations on the driving lessons - really wonderful news

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25 March 2025

Cognitive Behaviour Therapy

I’ve seen therapists before, but Paula is totally different. She helped me get to the root cause of my stress and anxiety on the very first session. I’ve also had a number of ‘lightbulb’ moments in subsequent sessions that have been totally unexpected. As a result, I’ve been able to make tough decisions in a calm and focused manner and, at the same time, maintaining or improving relationships with the people around me. I now see things from a different angle, which has actually been life changing. Paula’s solution focussed approach works so well and so quickly and with such a lovely manner. I would certainly recommend Paula to anyone. More...

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Reply from Paula Ruane stress, anger anxiety and depression specialist

thank you for this lovely review Carole, it is so helpful and it is a great pleasure working with you.

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14 March 2025

Therapist

I knew from the first session that Paula would help me manage my anxiety and anger management issues.
She helped me how to fiilter out the negatives and see how much more positivity there is in my life.
Her advice will always guide me through my issues.
Paula is a wonderful and patient person and I highly recommend for anyone to get in touch with Paula for help.
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sorry for the late response but just to say how enjoyable our sessions were and so pleased that you achieved the results you wanted

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7 February 2025

Therapist

Paula is a genius! I worked with her for 3 sessions before I saw transformational change in my life. It sounds incredible that it can happen that fast, but it was like that for me. When I came to Paula I was at the end of my rope, unable to make a decision about how to move forward in my life. Working with Paula "unstuck" me from the past and really helped me to move forward. I can't recommend her highly enough. Solution Focused Therapy, was not something I had done before, but it worked wonders for me. If you're reading this, I really encourage you to try working with Paula. More...

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Many thanks for this lovely review Manish. I very much enjoyed our few sessions together.

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2 December 2024

Therapist

Paula is a true professional, patient understanding and made me feel instantly at ease and able to express myself. Her help is greatly appreciated.

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Many thanks for this Darren,much appreciated - all I do is help unlock the huge potential already there.

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11 November 2024

Counselling

Paula has been a Wonderful help & continues to help me navigate my way through stress & anxiety, giving me practical tips & coping mechanism. . life is hectic & Paula has brought calmness back into my life! I can’t thank her enough .. I’m finally getting my sparkle back More...

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Many thanks for this Lou,it is really great working with you and seeing the great things you are achieving

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20 September 2024

Counselling

Paula was fantastic. I went to her angry at the world, after an incedent. what she did was teach me how I was reacting and why. after identifying some basic things the impact was massive. 4 months ago my relationship with my daughter was at risk. now I am that little girls safe place. can't thank her enough life saving result for me. thank you More...

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thanks for much for this Mike, it was an absolute pleasure working with you and seeing the real you re-emerge. You were brilliant throughout.

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21 August 2024

Counselling

Friendly, very knowledgeable, reassuring

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many thanks Mark, you covered a lot in a short time with really great results

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6 July 2024

Counselling

Paula is the most loving person I no. my wife was at her lowest I thought I was going to lose her until we met Paula we had about 6 to 7 sessions and now I got my wife Christine back. I think Paula is an angel sent from up above. Thank you so much. Xxxx More...

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Thank you so much Mike, I am so pleased that things are back to normal - there is nothing more attractive than a good marriage and you certainly have this.

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8 June 2024

Bereavement Counselling

I was at my lowest point when I reached out to Paula for help within 6 or 7 sessions I feel equipped to deal with anything life throws my way.
I cannot thank this lady enough and if I ever felt at a low point again Paula would be the first person I would call.
Thank you 🙏 again Paula.
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thank you for this lovely review Mark, much appreciated, and it was a pleasure working with you.

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21 May 2024

Therapist

I made contact with Paula regarding my son . And Paula was professional polite understanding through the whole process .
I can see a real difference in my son he's been given the technique to take him forward .
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Many thanks for this Gabby, it is much appreciated and can see him going from strength to strength.

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4 May 2024

Therapist

Paula has been so helpful in helping me gain control of my panic attacks and she is very knowledgeable on the science of anxiety which has helped to understand and control my anxiety. Paula is lovely friendly and has helped me immensely to feel like myself again. Thank you Paula. More...

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It was a great pleasure working with you Sean - and know you have a great life ahead

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25 April 2024

Therapist

Really knowledgeable about the science behind why we react the way we do.

So informative, very much my interests!

Paula is incredibly calming and humourous which play a big role in my level of comfort!

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thanks Soph, I enjoyed our time together and so pleased with the benefits you achieved, Paula

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9 April 2024

Therapist

I cannot praise Paula enough! Their compassionate approach, deep understanding, and insightful guidance have been instrumental in my journey towards healing and self-discovery. Highly recommended for anyone seeking a supportive and cathartic therapeutic experience. More...

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Thank you Andrew for taking the time and giving this lovely review - it was an absolute pleasure working with you

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1 April 2024

Counselling

I found these sessions extremely helpful in allowing me to get back to being me. They allowed me to reflect on where I was and own my feelings. What I had to expect and how to deal with a range of feelings and emotions and how to move forward and become stronger and be more like my normal self but with additional skills to be able to deal with things moving forward without falling back into a dark place. Thank you More...

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Thank you for taking the time to write this Samira and so pleased you feel back in control as well as calm and balanced.

6 March 2024

After 2 weeks working with Paula I have found that sleep patterns have become much more regular. I am able to sleep well with the meditation mp3.
I have also used the heart math techniques to help calm my anxiety and promote healthier responses to negative feelings. Thank you Paula, I look forward to our continued sessions.
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thanks for this Ben much appreciated and ditto the continuing sessions

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4 March 2024

Counselling

Paula seems to have a good handle on what could be driving some of my behaviours, hence why I will stay with her

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this is really good to know Nigel, thanks for making the effort and taking the time at the start of the sessions

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16 February 2024

Therapist

In the first session, Paula outlines how the brain works in a very clear and understandable manner. I immediately began to think differently about how my brain works, what I am inputting into my brain and what impact that has on me. She applied her knowledge and techniques to my own personal situations. I had 6 sessions with Paula and I am now a lot more intentional, I am present and I am able to focus on the positive things in my life. More...

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thank you for really clear review and it was an absolute pleasure working with you

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25 January 2024

Counselling

After my first session with Paula, it's hard to describe just how much of a positive impact the session had, I instantly felt a change. The work that Paula does with one self is truly remarkable and would highly recommend Paula to everyone. Thank you Paula for helping me on my new journey in life. More...

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thanks for this Daniel - really really appreciated and all i do is open the way for you to bring the change you need and want.

18 January 2024

Working with Paula has been life changing. Her style of working is truly to understand the individual and working closely to get you to a better place.
The best therapy I’ve received to help get me back to my happy place and know my worth.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
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Thanks Dan, I have only just seen this and really so appreciated. It is really great to work with you and see the changes happening. Thank you for the review

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11 January 2024

Therapist

Thank you so much to Paula she has really helped me the last few weeks. After going to Paula feeling stressed, severely anxious and angry her sessions have helped me massively.
The calming techniques and explaining what is actually happening as I go through these feelings and emotions made me understand exactly what is happening and how to control it & bring myself back back down from the overwhelming emotion I was feeling. Having clearer thoughts now going forward and feeling so much happier after just a few sessions. Thank you so much Paula.
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thank you so much for this Kush, only just seen it. It has been a pleasure working with you as well and to see how inspirational you have become to others

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11 December 2023

Counselling

Having travailed a vast sea of medicore therapists, Paula is like a bright lighthouse guiding you to a safe shore. She cuts through to the vital parts from Day One and provided me with such valuable tools to help me regulate my behaviour over only a few sessions.
I would heartily recommend her to anyone who's feeling a bit lost, a bit angry and doesn't quite know what to do. She will light up a pathway to a far more fulfilling future.
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many thanks for this Michelle - it was an absolute pleasure working with you and knowing you are well-equipped for whatever life has in store for you

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3 December 2023

Counselling

I really enjoyed my time with Paula and learned a lot about myself and how I deal with my behaviour and how best to deal with certain situations. I would highly recommend using her service More...

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thank you BH for this lovely review, needless to say, it has flooded me with seratonin, dopomine and all the other feel-good chemicals and made my day. many thanks

19 October 2023

Paula is brilliant. Without even realising it my stress was reduced, I was braver, happier, calmer. Just 3 sessions and I feel so much better. Thank you, Paula.

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thank you for much for Natalie - it really is so appreciated and it was fairly speedy as well.

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17 October 2023

Counselling

Paula is fantastic! She explains how my head is working that’s easy to understand and give me true insight and action to take massively positive steps for self improvement. Since working with Paula my life has changed so much for the better and I’m so thankful More...

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Thank you for taking the time and that you had the results you wanted.

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13 October 2023

Counselling

Paula has, so far, been very positive and understanding and I’m looking forward to continuing to work with her to improve.

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thanks for this Alexander, it is really great to have this at the outset of our session, much appreciated

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10 October 2023

Life Coaching

I met Paula through Bark a year ago when I was struggling with excessive stress at work. On sending an email, Paula was swift in ringing back to book a discovery session with me. Over the course of the next few months my mental Health, stress management and decision making abilities massively improved. Thanks to Paula's scientific, practical and human approach to dealing with the root cause of the issues.

Paula explains the fundamentals very clearly, provides long term techniques to managing emotional triggers, follows up and is full of knowledge and experience. This, combined with her perceptiveness and friendliness makes her a coach and counsellor with very unique skills.

I highly recommend Paula for anyone who's struggling with stress, relationships and direction.
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Thank you so much for this, KK it is much appreciated and it was a great pleasure working with you - and your referrals for which I also thank you.

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8 October 2023

Therapist

I recently had a few sessions with Paula, she is wonderful to work with, and the techniques she taught me were immediately helpful to the problems I was having with controlling my emotions. Would recommend to anyone!

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Thanks for this Rob, it was a pleasure and so pleased you gained so much

1 August 2023

Our 13 year old daughter Sophie has been suffering a severe episode of depression and anxiety to a point where she had completely withdrawn from normality including school and friendship groups. We sought help from numerous therapists but Sophie's condition was so low that she was unable to talk with anybody.
I was explaining our situation with a friend who recommended Paula as an option. Out of desperation, we contacted Paula who thankfully agreed to speak with Sophie. It was extremely difficult to start with but Paula's patience and incredible gift of understanding people and how to relate to them finally started to work. Paula does not focus on the past but looks forward with a great sense of positivity, optimism and hope. We started to see improvements in Sophie's mood almost immediately, and we are now at a point where Sophie is growing in confidence daily, she is overcoming her fears and anxieties with pride and is a million miles away from where she was before meeting with Paula. We can not thank Paula enough for everything she has done and would recommend her without hesitation.
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Thank you so much for this Adrian, it has been an absolute pleasure watching Sophie blossom to be the person she really is rather than the shadow of herself. This has been intensified by the relief you both felt - as a parent, I know only too well that a child's suffering is so much harder to deal with than our own. Thank you for this lovely review, much appreciated.

26 July 2023

Paula came recommended to me by a friend. I've found my sessions so helpful and have taken so much from them. Paula is always able to offer me advice and useful and straightforward solutions to any challenges I'm faced with. The techniques I've learned from Paula to use day to day are tools I will always have access to. Paula's visualisation techniques helped me in understanding how the mind works and why we might react the way we do. I feel I've come a long way since starting my sessions with Paula and I have a lot to thank her for. Cannot recommend Paula enough!
Thank you :)
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thank you for the lovely review Milly, you have been an ace student!

15 June 2023

Paula is so friendly and reassuring, she has helped me with my mindset, explaining things in a way which is easy to understand. The stress relief techniques are very effective and will help me going forwards. More...

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thank you so much Laura, much appreciated and it is always so rewarding so see people return to the person they are meant to be

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5 June 2023

Therapist

Paula has helped me beyond words. After trying many forms of therapy Paula has finally helped me to find myself, and to find the positives in each day.
For the first time, in a long time I feel full of hope and have the tools I need to carry on in my new journey.

Thankyou Paula
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You are so welcome Chanelle and it was an absolute pleasure working with you, thank you for the lovely review

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3 June 2023

Therapist

Paula, was the first therapist I have sought for advice on a long standing phobia, and during the traumatic and sudden passing of my mother. She helped me centre and reconnect with the world. More...

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Thank you for the lovely review Claude, I am so pleased that you found so much benefit.

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3 June 2023

Therapist

Very nice lady making me feeling much better about myself

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Many thanks Rayon for this review, much appreciated

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2 June 2023

Therapist

Paula is the best, she helped me in my lowest moments by teaching me exercises to help me stay calm and change my mindset to become more positive. Paula helped me feel calm and at ease, highly recommended! More...

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it was great to work with you and thank you for this lovely review Josie

Q&As

Watching the fast release of anxiety, stress and trauma in clients, leaving the real person, empowered, confident and in calm control. Clients love learning the self-regulation techniques which immediately bring back control into their lives.

Realising that much of what was on offer to people today for mental, emotional and physical wellbeing wasn't working. The increase in medication, rising levels of stress in all its forms in over 74% of people in the UK seemed wrong and unacceptable. I knew there had to be a better way, a lasting way. Since 2007/8 I have used a unique system in both workplace and 1-2-1 sessions, always with lasting results.

People come to me who want a permanent solution instead of a temporary fix ? I see many who have been in talk therapy and/or CBT which was helpful but hasn’t brought the lasting change they want and need.

I see people face to face in my Essex rooms but work mainly online around via Zoom

During Covid, it was online only. Post Covid I have followed the UK Health and Safety Guidelines.

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You didn't get to this stage overnight and changing how you feel and react can be quicker than you imagine. Symptoms of these anxiety disorders includ low self-confidence, low self-esteem, a fear of change and the inability to see your strengths, focusing only on the negative. These can anchor you to the same spot. Our work will return a sense of freedom and lightness allowing you to be the optimum version of yourself at all times


From the initial consultion, you will experience an immediate sense of relief as you immediately start to take back control. This stops anger from impacting relationships, performance, sleep and health. Anger interferes with every area of life and learning to control it changes everything.

I provide support and strategies to immediately release the grip of PTSD. The programme means you begin to release and change the impact of the past on your mind and body.


Very often, as well as the overwhelming sadness of the approaching loss or of losing someone, there are mixed emotions. You may feel anger, guilt, resentment or a mix of it all. With a gentle but simple releasing technique, you can resolve the conflicting emotions to you to live you life in a fuller way as well as ultimately grieve and mourn at your own natural and healing pace

As long as you both want to achieve a win/win resolution - either to restart or end the relationship, avoiding unnecessary hurt, acrimony and resentment, you will benefit from the programme. By using the powerful communication strategies all my clients learn helps to change how you feel about each other - what ever the decision .

Enabling people to move ahead with confidence, to feel lighter, more able and to cope better with what ever life puts in our way. After only a few session, things become clearer, more positive and possible.

Clinically proven, Solution Focused Hypnotherapy fast tracks results to release irrational fears, obsessive thoughts, negative forecasting, phobias and bad habits. Additional benefits include proven IBS recovery, boosted optimism and happiness.