Vincent Clohessy - Marriage And Relationship Counselling/Coaching Services

I highly recommend Vincent to any couple seeking marriage or relationship support, as well as to individuals in need of personal guidance. Vincent listens attentively, provides unwavering support, and offers thoughtful direction every step of the way. His expertise fosters meaningful growth and positive change, making him an invaluable resource for anyone looking to improve their relationships or personal well-being.
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Reply from Vincent Clohessy - Marriage And Relationship Counselling/Coaching Services

Thank you Julie for your kind words. It's been an absolute pleasure to support you both in getting your relationship back on track. I look forward to hearing about your ongoing progress in future and best wishes with the new house. Vincent

Highly recommend working with Vincent; I was reluctant at first due to never having had counselling before; however, it was an extremely positive experience. Vincent was extremely easy to speak to, and helped us to understand each other more and see things from one another’s perspective. He allowed us to express our thoughts and feelings, and responded in a kind, caring, unbiased and non judgemental manner. He is a genuinely nice person, who really cares about all of his clients. We both really enjoyed our sessions with him, and it has allowed us both to communicate more effectively with each other, resulting in less conflict and a happier relationship. He gave us practice advice and offered new methods of communicating with each other. We will definitely be recommending him to any friends or family, and are so glad we picked Vincent to work with. Best decision we made. Thanks again for everything Vincent. More...

Deserves way more than 5 stars!! One of the best decisions we ever made to work with Vincent, we both warmed to him immediately after our first conversation. He is so kind, compassionate, caring, genuine and most of all, non judgemental! We felt so comfortable chatting to him, and could tell he genuinely cared about us and our relationship. He allowed us a safe space to discuss our issues and feelings, and always validated our feelings. Vincent also offered really practical skills and tips to manage conflict and nip things in the bud early. We felt completely comfortable chatting to him and will genuinely miss our weekly chats with him. Vincent is a superb expert in his field, his knowledge and insight is phenomenal, he was always able to translate our feelings in a way that allowed us to understand each other so much more. His emotional intelligence and awareness of our feelings allowed us to find the words to articulate how we were feeling. Vincent was always punctual and it was very easy to book sessions with him. Vincent was a neutral person who opened up for us new ways of thinking and a new perspective on our relationship, which we both found extremely beneficial. His sessions were always very well structured and allowed us plenty of opportunity to bring our own ideas and issues to the fore. He explained very clearly how lots of issues in relationships are due to lack of communication, and he structured our sessions to completely transform our communication. From the beginning, we felt completely at ease. We looked forward to chatting to him on every session. We feel completely empowered after our course with him and are very grateful for his help and support. We would not hesitate to recommend Vincent to anyone needing that extra support. We will genuinely miss working with him! More...

He helped us to realise the issues we have had and have are valid one. He has allowed us to be honest, even if it upsets the other person. He gives good feedback which makes us understand the other persons issue better and how to deal with them, in the best way. More...

I cannot recommend Vincent highly enough. He is a true expert in the field and just a genuinely lovely person with a true commitment to helping people, he has truly found his calling in life! From our very first session, we felt heard and understood and knew we were in safe hands. He has guided us through difficult conversations, helping us uncover the root causes of our issues and help develop healthier communication patterns.

Vincent’s guidance has been invaluable and we are incredibly grateful for the positive impact he has had on our marriage. More...

Vincent Clohessy has been an incredible relationship coach who truly transformed our lives. From the very beginning, Vincent's fair and insightful approach made us feel understood and supported. His techniques, rooted in rediscovering the reasons behind our love, reignited our connection and deepened our understanding of each other.

Vincent's expertise in communication was evident in every session. He provided us with practical exercises and meaningful homework that kept us engaged and continually progressing. His methods were not just about improving our relationship but about fostering a holistic change in our lives (and in doing so - our children’s lives).

Under Vincent's guidance, we have achieved a level of closeness and understanding that we hadn't experienced in over a decade. His ability to identify the core issues and present solutions in a compassionate and constructive manner has been invaluable.

We wholeheartedly recommend Vincent Clohessy to anyone looking to transform their relationship and improve their overall communication and in turn their quality of life.

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We have both really enjoyed working with Vincent. He has greatly supported us through a challenging period of our lives. From the second we met Vincent we felt he got us- he understood us as individuals and as a couple. He understood our style of communication and was direct in his feedback, which was very important to us. We have both learnt some invaluable things about ourselves and each other with Vincent’s help and guidance. Most importantly, we were able to be ourselves, express our feelings and at times, raw emotion, in a comfortable, non-judgemental setting created by Vincent. We look forward to growing as individuals and as a couple with Vincent’s continued support. Thank you for being kind. More...

I find Vincent more like a an eloquent elephant. Wise and caring, knowledgeable through his own life experiences and able to bring it all together to care for his herd. Indeed one must know it takes two to tango- for better or worse. Vincent will help you through the dangerous jungle of vines and sink holes to the glorious heights of relationship bliss, of which only an Eagle can reach. He will help you to find and tackle the problems that arise and coach you through them, akin to a snake charmer guiding a scared serpent into the joyous bright of day. Thank you Vincent.
Also, our perilous predicament was mostly my wife's fault, ish. More...

Vincent is like an eloquent bat. He knows how to listen and hone in on the problems, but he also knows how to use big poetic words that pack a punch. When my husband and I came to him, our relationship was one hammer away from the final nail in the coffin. Now thanks to him, we do not need to split up the best China. He managed to get my husband to read an insightful book that didn't involve Hobbits or dragons and most importantly, as part of my homework assignment, I am now the proud owner of a large pair of wings (there was a good reason I assure you). I heartily recommend you use his services if you find your marriage teetering on the brink of an expensive oblivion. Although if you don't like honesty, or are not prepared to accept that it takes 2 people to create a dysfunctional marriage, then counselling may not be for you and using Vincent would be a significant waste of your time. Although it was all my husband's fault. Ish. More...

Vincent did an excellent job of facilitating a balanced discussion and lending many great perspectives as well as applying various helpful therapeutic frameworks in our sessions. I highly recommend and would definitely work with him again More...

It was a great experience working with Vincent. He facilitated our conversations in an effective and enjoyable way, and created a safe and open environment for us to share and discuss things.

We would work with him again and I’d highly recommend him as a relationship coach. Thanks Vincent! More...

My partner & I booked a block of 10 counselling sessions with Vincent. Personally, having no experience and never even considered counselling previously, I had a high degree of scepticism going into the sessions. Vincent understood this and quickly put me at ease whilst still challenging us both, me in particular, to be open to some self analysis and change as a result. Some of the sessions were hard for me but I took something positive and meaningful away from each session that has ultimately had the desired improvement in our relationship. Whilst I have no desire to use Vincent’s services again, I would contact him immediately should we/I need further support. Beyond that I’d encourage anyone in a similar position to do it. I can’t recommend Vincent highly enough. From sceptical to genuinely thankful for the positive impact Vincent made on our relationship and lives. Thank You Vincent. More...

Vincent is absolutely fantastic. We weren't expecting much when we decided to do couples counseling, but Vincent has helped us tremendously. He listens to everything you have to say and he honestly cares and gives you the tools you need. You don't feel rushed and he creates a safe space for you to talk about all your issues and feelings. Wouldn't see anyone else now! More...

Vincent is a truly amazing coach/counsellor. He creates a space that allows for self exploration and understanding of your partner without needing to lead or guide you to answers. An incredible person to work with I would highly recommend More...

Working with Vincent has been amazing. Myself and my partner were struggling and needed some extra help to try and maintain our relationship. Vincent has been so patient and kind throughout every session. He has helped us both individually and as a couple and opened our eyes to so man different ways of dealing with our problems. I would highly recommend contacting Vincent if you are looking for some insights and help with your relationship.
Myself and my partner will be forever grateful for Vincent and the things we have learnt throughout this journey.
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Vincent has been amazing. Very easy to talk to, makes you feel very relaxed during conversation and very patient with you. It’s been good to talk through the things that are every day problems built up and been guided to approach them in a different way. Learnt from this experience and would absolutely recommend Vincent 😊 More...

After looking for relationship councilling for a few days and signing up to a few things like bark I got a phone call of Vincent he spoke to me for about half an hour was very understanding and very helpful from that moment on I knew he was the one I wanted myself & wife to work with and so glad we did from the very first session he opened our eyes to how to deal with things express ourselves to each other to understand each others needs to build a solid connection all our sessions with Vincent have been productive with very positive outcomes in our relationship not only that along the way they have been easy going with lots of fun and laughs so Vincent a big thank you we are extremely grateful will definitely be using you if needed in the future and would fully recommend you to anyone along the way big thank you take good care.

We reached out to Vincent in October 2023 we we at a point in our 17 year marriage where communication was limited we were unhappy and living like siblings with the odd argument we were past shooting! !! We started sessions with Vincent who has been on our journey with us supporting us to learn skills to talk again from a place of love and understanding of each others needs and wants. Some sessions were hard but Vincent was patient and really got to know us as individuals to support us as a couple - fast forward to Jan 2024 we laugh we talk and most importantly we get us and we’re hungry to keep being us - THANK YOU I have my cheeky chappy 17 year old lover back. I would 1000% recommend Vincent to anyone feeling at a loss in their marriage. More...

I cannot recommend enough that if you are going through relationship problems, then choose Vincent to provide assistance and guidance. I feel that if I hadn't had assistance from Vincent then the 37yrs I have been with my wife would have ended due to my own destructive thoughts.
I followed all of Vincent's guidance and recommendations and put the work in to understand the techniques and applied them. I sought and received feedback from Vincent and we worked through the techniques together to ensure l was utilising them correctly. I am no relationship expert but the techniques provided can be relevant to so many people, even those that are not suffering problems. As a result of Vincent's help, I am now able to process my thoughts in a rational manner and deal with reality. I would describe my relationship with my wife now as a courtship that is fun, joyful and very very happy.
Vincent provided a number of techniques/ processes from re-evaluating not just myself but guiding me to examine myself and how I fitted into my relationship/family. I learnt, through Vincent, that I was held in high regard by family. I learnt to love my wife in new and specific ways following the guidance provided by Vincent which cemented the relationship to reflect the 'honeymoon' period felt in the early stages of relationships/ marriage. I am able to utilise what Vincent provided on a daily basis and ensure I am connected with my wife and contribute to the relationship. More...

Working with Vincent has been very enlightening and beneficial towards mine and my partner's relationship. We have learned tools to help us communicate effectively and also demonstrate active listening, which in turn has really strengthened our relationship and our connective. I could not recommend Vincent enough; his attentive and empathetic manner has really helped my partner and I to feel understood and validated. More...

Not a good experience. Fairly high price for just a phone call where I was left feeling worse than before. Obviously as a counsellor the feeling I had about how he spoke to me were presumed to be because of my issues but I don't think that's the case. I deal with people dealing with all sorts of issues as a job and have a fairly good grasp of how to talk to people and how to listen and I really don't think making me feel the way he did was ok.
Also used the word c**nt jn his description of his own experiences.
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Vincent was amazing to be honest, I had no real expectations going into it as I hadn't had any kind of therapy before but my mind was all over the place coming out of a relationship, wondering if it was the right thing etc, and I felt it would be a good idea to talk it through with an unbiased professional so I gave it a try.

As we spoke he seemed to understand the points I was trying to get across and he was able to articulate them back to me in a way that allowed me to better explore and digest my actual feelings towards the situation. His approach really helped uncover elements of myself that I had not previously thought about and also things that I should look to work on moving forwards. It was a hugely beneficial session and I couldn't recommend him enough to anyone in a similar situation.

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Vincent called me the day I put a request in to bark. His call was like a hug down the phone. He has made efforts to call me in his own time. I genuinely feel he cares about my relationship. Just wish I found you 2 years ago. If your in need of help I wouldn't hesitate to contact this guy. Thanks Vincent More...

We really got to the bottom of what we were both trying to say, Vincent helped us articulate what needed to be said and get to the bottom of our issues. His approach was just what we needed, without being too direct, his approach was kind and considerate and helped us both see the light. We can now go on our journey to develop personally and together as a couple. We really do appreciate your time. Thank you More...

Vincent is very down to earth and pleasant. He gets straight into the issues and manages to pinpoint very accurately where things have come from and why they are presenting. Which is very helpful and doesn't waste any valuable time. We really appreciate the work he did with us and I would reccomend him to anyone wanting support in their relationship. More...

Vincent is direct but gentle and knows how to delicately approach sensitive matters whilst delivering solid advice. I would recommend him.

Working with Vincent was extremely helpful for us. I found him to be very easy to talk to which made sharing problems alot easier than we initially thought. Very friendly and also made us laugh along the way! Thankyou Vincent! More...

Very Keen to help us. Managed to arrange time that best suits us.

My review is based on 3 sessions, the ones we did so far. We find Vincent very helpful, always with the right thing to say, sometimes harsh, but that is what we need sometimes. We asked him to be direct. Our relationship is slowly improving thanks to the sessions we have, the homework assignments and of course, our own will.
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Reply from Vincent Clohessy - Marriage And Relationship Counselling/Coaching Services

Thank you for your kind and generous words Raquel. It’s a pleasure to contribute to you as a family. You’re both doing so well in such a short amount of time. Bravo! 👍

I recently had the pleasure of seeking guidance and support from Vincent, and I cannot express enough how amazing my experience was. Vincent promptly reached out to me, prioritizing my concerns and creating an immediate sense of comfort and care.

From the moment our conversation began, it was evident that Vincent possessed a wealth of experience and knowledge in his field. He provided valuable advice, strategies, and support that were both practical and compassionate. Vincent's ability to offer guidance without judgment was truly refreshing and helped create a safe space for me to open up.

It was clear that Vincent is not only skilled and competent in his job but also incredibly committed to his clients. The dedication he displayed was evident in the heartfelt and genuine manner in which he approached our conversation. It was apparent that he invested his heart and soul into his work, which made a significant impact on the level of care I received.

Vincent's support and guidance proved to be a game-changer for my family. His insights and recommended strategies made a positive and transformative impact on our lives. In just one interaction, he helped us navigate through some challenging situations and provided us with the tools needed to move forward.

In conclusion, I highly recommend Vincent's services. He is a truly exceptional individual dedicated to helping others. Vincent's warm and caring approach, combined with his extensive experience and valuable advice, made a tremendous difference in our lives. Thank you, Vincent, for truly completing our family with your exceptional support. More...

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Reply from Vincent Clohessy - Marriage And Relationship Counselling/Coaching Services

Thank you Vanessa for the positive feedback and the opportunity to support you and your family. It's been my honour and pleasure. All the very best with your future endeavours. Vincent

Vincent is not one of those counsellors who lets you ramble on for many (expensive) hours in the hope you’ll eventually see the light. In our first hour, he made a significant difference to us. His passion for his work is obvious, he really knows his stuff and he’s fun. My husband and I thoroughly recommend him. More...

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Reply from Vincent Clohessy - Marriage And Relationship Counselling/Coaching Services

Susan, thank you for your kind words and well done for taking the most important step, finding support. I look forward to hearing more about the differences you will make together.

Working with Vincent was great. He has an amazing ability to draw out feelings you never knew were there.
The changes to my personality, my relationship and my life have been huge.
His work reaches outside the immediate problems to go deeper and deal with things you'd never think were causing issues years later.
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Reply from Vincent Clohessy - Marriage And Relationship Counselling/Coaching Services

Ross, it's been a pleasure to watch you progress through the counselling to overcome the challenges you previously couldn't see were affecting your marriage, as well as yourself, and transforming your relationship from breaking-up to breath-taking. It has been an honour to witness you both make your little girl say 'yuk' when mum and dad are flirting and being playful again. She is the ultimate winner in the counselling we've undertaken together. Bravo for turning it around from disaster to delightful in rapid time. You have both been a joy to work with and thank you for the updates too. They're joyful to hear. Vincent

Right from the very first phone call with Vincent I felt at ease , he has a very calming voice with helped me with feeling anxious , I am a very anxious person who hates phonecalls but I never felt like that speaking with him , I actually looked forward to the weekly phonecalls even when I knew the topic was going to be uncomfortable, Vincent makes you feel listened to and validated even when your doubting your own feelings , he asks you to clarify what you have spoken about at the end of each session and even if your answer is "I don't know" that's ok , he never makes you feel silly or dumb if you don't understand how you feel or if your don't understand a question , he is very funny and can easily ease an uncomfortable topic with humour , Vincent is great at what he does , he digs And delves even when you don't realise and helps to bring to the surface what is deeply bothering you without having to relive troubling memories , he makes all of the issues comfortable to talk about , he really helped me with my confidence even when there was things that he couldn't necessarily help me with he even helped with our daughter and managing her behaviour at home, I really enjoyed our sessions and he saved my marriage , Vincent is great and if your looking for a councilor he is your guy 10/10

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Reply from Vincent Clohessy - Marriage And Relationship Counselling/Coaching Services

It has been a joy and pleasure to counsel you and Ross. I want to acknowledge your commitment to overcoming your relationship challenges and cultivating a loving, exciting and supportive relationship through our counselling together and how that will impact your family unit into the future. Well done for taking the necessary step of reaching out for professional support. Keep up the great progress. Vincent

Although we're only a few sessions in Vincent had been a calming and professional influence on not only our relationship but individual mental states. He assists us on a couples level and on our own. A true professional and all round nice guy. I couldn't have hoped for better and thus far the results have been amazing. More...

Working with Vincent is wonderful , my husband and myself had our first session with him last week and our second today and already we are in a better place , Vincent really listens and takes on board what we are saying and that has given us the outlet to speak freely with each other and work on our issues , Vincent is insightful and really helps us to communicate better with each other , highly recommend him if you are looking for a couples therapist!!! 10/10

Vincent is a very intuitive, capable, and caring coach. I felt very safe opening up about my issues; his coaching helped me in various new ways that were hands-on and made a difference in my relationship. I can recommend his work from the bottom of my heart 100%! Thank you so much. More...

Vincent is a very skilled coaching. He coaches with love, kindness and flexibility. He used a variety of tools to support me in our sessions and I am satisfied with the results. Thank you Vincent!

Awesome chat, great professional

Vincent is a great coach who really listens to you and tailors his approach to your needs. He is thorough and draws off his own experiences to help you relate to his concepts. Recommend to anyone.

If you are looking for a coach to help you level up or save your relationship, Vincent is your man.
He is an empathetic and very appreciative listener who get's to the point.

I cannot recommend Vincent as a coach enough. Working with him has changed my life so much for the better. I have better relationships at work and at home, have achieved a work life balance that is sustainable, and a sense of balance and authenticity in my life that I have never experienced before. Vincent is easy to talk to, non judgemental, and offers guidance to allow you to find solutions that work for you rather than dictating how you should change your life. Family and friends have all commented on how much happier and relaxed I am since completing the coaching. The tools Vincent has given me are invaluable in so many areas of my life and I really feel able to cope with anything life throws at me. As a frontline health worker the last few months have been incredibly challenging. I honestly don't think I would have been able to cope with these challenges as well as I have if it hadn't been for the work I had already done with Vincent. As a family we can't say a big enough Thank you for the support he has given us. More...

Vincent is a wisdom filled caring and supportive person and his coaching is of the same highest calibre. I have found the way he listens and helps to understand and resolve problems is just outstanding. He creates an environment of safety where you can talk and explore anything and everything in an easy calm and compassionate way. Would highly recommend Vincent to anyone as I know his work with them will make such a massive difference in their lives. More...

Vincent is the best listener I know. You get when you speak with him how people really don't listen. He wants you to get what you want, even if deep down you don't know how to ask for it - he'll help get you there.

Vincent helped me nagicate a situation I’d been struggling with for a couple of years. How I handled it seemed instrinsically linked with how I viewed my sense of self and how I wanted to be seen in the world but the longer the situation went on, it was clear something had to shift. One of the many things Vincent did was to reflect the situation back to me as a metaphor. This was hugely impactful for me as it was simple and made me view both myself and the situation in a clear light, without getting bogged down in the detail of it.
Once that was achieved we were able to work through how I could choose a different way of being in life and in this sitauation and it has been massively helpful to me. More...

Life changing! That's how I feel about my coaching from Vincent. I came to Vince with my wife having asked for separation. I sought Vince's help to try to rescue the relationship. One of Vince's first meaningful messages to me was that we could certainly look at it as an option, but that it may not be the best outcome for me, or for my wife. A touch shocking to hear, but we continued.
Vince took me on a journey of self-discovery, emphasising that the most important person in my world was me. Without an effective version of me, I was of little use to anyone else. We set forth looking at what I wanted for life, and how I could achieve those goals, with Vince giving me weekly coaching calls, and weekly assignments to help me with my journey. Vince didn't give me any silver bullet - everything I discovered was already inside me. What he did give me were the tools to unlock how to find the strength, passion, dedication and curiosity within. And that, dear reader, was, and remains priceless, well worth the investment.
So, what of my marriage? The relationship ended and I am now separated 3 years...and I could not be happier. I came to this view during my coaching with Vince. My journey made me realise that I too wasn't happy with the relationship, and that I just hadn't realised. I soon realised that the differences between myself and my wife were too vast to bridge. Vince didn't put this view on me - he gave me the tools to work this out for myself. It helped me find peace relatively quickly, to build a safe environment for me and my children and to move on. I remain in contact with Vince, and provide him with updates on my progress, both the highs, and increasingly rarely the lows. I wouldn't hesitate to return to Vince in either high or low situation. More...