Matt and Rebeca's Relationship Breakthrough

I had a very eventful family consulation session with Rebeca in London on zoom. It made me look at my family in a different light. Due to the emotional trumas and acceptance of what has happened in the past till the present. Helping me have a understanding and work out what is best to approach the situation.Felt emotional but feeling positive. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

I really enjoyed the family constellation session I had today with Rebeca in London; it helped me a lot to understand and improve my relationship with myself since there was a part of me that I hadn't accepted for a long time. I really liked it, and I am leaving with a great sense of calm and generosity. Thank you, Rebeca. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

I just had a session with Rebeca from London, and I wholeheartedly recommend her. It was a truly enlightening experience; we healed a negative energy that was holding me back and preventing me from moving forward . She's also incredibly professional, tactful, patient, and inspires a lot of confidence. If you're hesitant, take the plunge because you'll be pleasantly surprised. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

It was an amazing experience during my mentorship with Rebeca and Matt. I have learnt so much about various skills that I have implemented to improve my relationship with my wife. I had an 1 on 1 session with Matt in London which has benefitted me also. A great pleasure to have learnt from them! More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Rebeca and Matt are fantastic, I worked with them to release negative patterns that kept me from having the life I wanted and it was outstanding. Highly recommended, especially if you live in London and want a loving relationship. Though they also work remotely online, meeting them in person is a fantastic experience. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

I have had the pleasure of working with Rebeca and Matt in London, and I was truly impressed by their professionalism, passion, and genuine desire to help others. Their authenticity in sharing their own journey and the insights they’ve gained along the way creates a meaningful and relatable experience. I highly recommend them to anyone seeking to strengthen their relationship or grow into the best version of themselves. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

After hitting breaking point in our relationship, we came to Matt and Rebecca who helped us both understand what we brought to the relationship. We've learnt how to be better partners, better people, and more true to ourselves. It has really opened my eyes to so many things in relationships that I think anyone can benefit from, whether you are in a rut or not. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

I am pleased to provide this review of the _Aligned with Love_ marriage programme, which myself and my wife have been working though over the past few months. The programme has had a profound impact on our relationship, fostering a renewed sense of harmony and mutual understanding. Aligned with Love offers a structured, professionally facilitated curriculum that combines communication techniques, emotional intelligence development, and practical exercises designed for couples at various stages of marriage. The content is delivered through a blend of live workshops and guided online modules, Aligned with Love has provided us with the tools and environment necessary to restore peace and cultivate lasting harmony. I wholeheartedly recommend this programme to couples seeking a structured, supportive pathway to a more fulfilling partnership. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Really helpful program which allowed me to take stock of my relationship and plan my future. I would very highly recommend it to any couple who want to work on their relationship.

Reviewed on Google Maps

Hi Rebecca, I wanted to tell you that thanks to the work I've done with you, I've experienced a significant change in my personal and romantic life. The sessions have helped me a lot to get to know myself better and overcome certain blocks that were preventing me from moving forward in my relationships. I've been able to heal my relationship with my father and realize that I was repeating the same patterns my parents did with men. Thank you so much for your help. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Working with Matt and Rebeca through Family Constellations has been a truly eye-opening experience. They create a safe, professional space that still feels like talking to a trusted friends who really understand you. Matt and Rebeca have this rare gift for bringing clarity and light to things that once felt confusing or heavy. I honestly recommend them to anyone who seek help to find the light in those darkest places. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

My experience with this couple counselling service was extremely disappointing and, in my view, professionally inappropriate. From the start, the focus of the sessions felt heavily directed at me, while my partner’s behaviour and accountability were largely overlooked. I was made to feel as though his negative behaviours were somehow my responsibility — which was not only unfair but damaging. In our final session, the therapists made an incredibly insensitive comment, suggesting that I act like my mother in my relationships and as a parent... AS A PARENT!!! This was said despite the fact that they knew almost nothing about my upbringing, which had only been mentioned briefly in our very first session. My mother is an abusive alcoholic, and I’ve worked hard to build a healthy life and my son has a life i never never had. To have that trauma referenced so casually, and used as an explanation for my current situation, was deeply offensive and uninformed. After the session, I was in a terrible state emotionally, so much so that my partner contacted Matt to express how badly affected I was. His response, stating that “we are responsible for our own behaviours,” felt cold and dismissive. He added that Rebecca would contact me to clarify her comments, but she never reached out. This complete lack of follow-up or compassion made it clear that empathy and understanding were missing entirely from their approach. I left feeling blamed, humiliated, and emotionally worse than when I started. The experience has had a lasting negative impact on my mental health and completely shattered my trust in therapy. In my opinion, this service lacks basic sensitivity, trauma awareness, and professional care. I would strongly urge anyone considering this service to think carefully before engaging with them More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

My experience with this couple counselling service was extremely disappointing and, in my view, professionally inappropriate. From the start, the focus of the sessions felt heavily directed at me, while my partner’s behaviour and accountability were largely overlooked. I was made to feel as though his negative behaviours were somehow my responsibility — which was not only unfair but damaging. In our final session, the therapists made an incredibly insensitive comment, suggesting that I act like my mother in my relationships and as a parent. This was said despite the fact that they knew almost nothing about my upbringing, which had only been mentioned briefly in our very first session. My mother is an abusive alcoholic, and I’ve worked hard to build a healthy life and my son had all the love i never did. To have that trauma referenced so casually, and used as an explanation for my current situation, was deeply offensive and uninformed. After the session, I was in a terrible state emotionally — so much so that my partner contacted Matt to express how badly affected I was. His response, stating that “we are responsible for our own behaviours,” felt cold and dismissive. He added that Rebecca would contact me to clarify her comments, but she never reached out. This complete lack of follow-up or compassion made it clear that empathy and understanding were missing entirely from their approach. I left feeling blamed, humiliated, and emotionally worse than when I started. The experience has had a lasting negative impact on my mental health and completely shattered my trust in therapy. In my opinion, this service lacks basic sensitivity, trauma awareness, and professional care. I would strongly urge anyone considering this service to think carefully before engaging with them More...

Reviewed on Facebook

My wife & I found Matt & Rebeca online and we were looking for some help with our relationship as we were at the point where we couldnt communicate with each other and were full of resentment toward each other. We had tried some counselling a few years ago which didnt really help as all the person did was basically listen to what we said and offer some surface level advice that disnt really help. What matt & rebeca did was tootally different and they actually dug down and revealed to us the true underlying causes of why our relationship broke down. Matt is a great teacher and has exceptional knowledge of the theories of how healthy relationships work- and he backs this up by applying it specifically to your relationship. Rebeca is a great listener and is very skilled it at cutting through all the fluff and identifying the root cause of the issue. I already knew my my relationship with my wife was rhe most important thing to me in the world but I didnt know how to show it- matt and rebeca helped me bring this to life. Thankyou both. With gratitude, James More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

We were at a really difficult point in our relationship.. stuck, frustrated, and unsure where to turn, not knowing whether to throw in the towel or not. . After searching online for relationship support in South Wales as our last hope, we came across Aligned With Love. We were curious about Matt & Rebecca’s unique approach as a couple working with couples, as well as it being a programme as opposed to the traditional 'pay as you go' therapy session. At first, we weren’t sure what to expect, but after watching their videos, they seemed genuine, approachable and full of warmth, so we booked an initial consultation. From our very first one-2-one meetings, Matt immediately put my husband at ease. He listened deeply, understood what we were going through, and gave him simple yet powerful tools we could use straight away. Rebecca instantly recognised the root of my anxieties and made me feel "seen" and "heard" for the first time in a long while and thus we quickly realised this was the right place for us and signed up for their platinum relationship breakthrough programme. When we arrived at their home, we were welcomed with kindness, a cup of tea, and a calm, safe space that instantly helped us relax. Both of the 2 day intensive sessions began with a grounding meditation that settled our nerves and created a sense of peace before diving into the work. Over the two days, Matt & Rebecca guided us with such skill, compassion, and clarity. They didn’t just lecture us... they helped us uncover our own answers, understand the deeper dynamics in our relationship, and recognise the patterns each of us was bringing to it...good and bad. There were emotional moments, laughter, tears, hugs, and even high-fives. Matt has a gift for breaking down complex ideas in a way that feels simple and practical, while Rebecca brings incredible empathy, insight, and the ability to reflect things back so they truly click. Together, they created countless “lightbulb moments” for us. By the end of the 2 day session, we walked away with a renewed sense of hope, real understanding, and the tools we need to move forward stronger than ever. In fact, we left our final session and went straight to a nearby Italian restaurant, where we toasted to creating “our new relationship.” We’re so grateful we found Matt & Rebecca. They are clearly highly qualified and passionate about what they do, but more than that, they genuinely care. If you’re struggling in your relationship and wondering whether to take the leap, don’t hesitate — booking with Aligned With Love has been one of the best decisions we’ve ever made! Lots of love, James & Toni 🫶 More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

For most of my life I have been rejecting the topic of relationships and sexuality, and I have lived in my own protective bubble. I am extremely grateful to Rebeca and to her Family Constellations therapy and Relationship Coaching sessions because they are both helping me understand the whys and the hows, and to find my own path to freedom from the burdens that I have unconsciously been trapped into for most of my life🙏🏻💯💥 More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Matt and Rebeca have been instrumental in helping me to understand my own attachment style and patterns, as well as those of my partner. They are patient, understanding but also honest. Although my relationship with my partner is strong, we are embarking on a journey as a blended family. So, working with Matt and Rebeca is helping us to understand what we need to work on within our current relationships with our own children, in order to afford a smooth transition into us becoming a family unit. Its helped me to realise that the relationship with yourself is the most important thing, and that is something ongoing. Communication, and how you communicate with your partner is absolutely key, and you will be given the tools on how to do this to ensure you can get in early in the life of a problem, or simply recognise your partner for the good things they do! If you're unsure- just go for it! You won't regret it. Thanks Matt and Rebeca! More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Really appreciate the support from aligned with love, the program gave me the tools to recognise issues and work on our relationship respectfully, grateful to have this connection and ongoing support.

Reviewed on Google Maps

My husband and I went to Matt and Rebeca due to our marriage being in trouble after only 6 months . I would 100%, highly recommend them to help. Thankfully its not about pointing the finger at each other .. you this, you that which doesnt help... we have all done this which causes even more issues, hurt, pain, trust , defensiveness, unable to communicate, being sick and tired of being sick and tired. Brushing everything under the carpet... putting plasters over the disagreements, arguments whatever is distroying the relationship and is a vicious circle which keeps returning and doesnt get to the root problem . Matt and Rebeca's programme is about looking at our selves , how we communicate and how it can affect our relationship, amoungst other areas. Learning what triggers us and where WE can all improve, which in turn enables us to grow and deal with any past traumas that we have carried around with us that we don't necessarily know we have. It seeps into our relationships with partners/family/ who ever we came into contact and can be a learnt behaviour. As a example, I felt unseen, unheard , unloved, frustrated. I would communicate and explain however I wasn't communicating in the way that suits my partner and I would end up shouting , which in turn resulted in my partner not talking to me for days and i not liking myself. Which was a cycle that had to change. I had to change , stop shouting and look at myself as to why I reacted that way. I asked myself these questions: Do I want to save my marriage? Can I restore my marriage without help? Do I want to get off this roundabout , take my head out of the sand and get clarity? Am I willing to take accountability for my actions? Can I commit to putting in the work needed? The fact you are here and thinking about reaching out is wonderful and you have taken the first step. I would encourage you to contact Matt & Rebeca who are lovely people , supportive, non judgemental and passionate about helping us achieve the relationships we all deserve and then make your decision. They will give you the tools to turn things around, break the cycle and enable you to achieve total CLARITY. What have you got to loose? You have everything to gain. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Matt and Rebeca are extremely professional and friendly. They offer a great service which has helped me understand the masculine and feminine dynamics. I look at relationships differently now! What used to annoy me, I understand now, and can navigate it better. I am still on a journey of change to be in a desired place, and after completing the relationship breakthrough programme, I attend Rebeca's 1:1 sessions on occasion. They are extremely beneficial and open my eyes to new perspectives every time. I highly recommend Matt and Rebeca 💕 More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Aligned with love are truly a breath of fresh air in relationship counselling. Myself and my husband have learnt so much and taken on board the techniques and tried methods and I can say that i would wholeheartedly recommend them . Both Matt and Rebecca are amazing at helping and give up their time and give the extra mile . All I can say is thank you very much guys . If you’re looking for that extra special counsellors or counselling aligned with love are the first people you should go to . Thanks again for all you help and advice . More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Matt and Rebeca have been fantastic at helping us strengthen our relationship and enabling us to try and focus areas in our lives both individually and as a couple we need to work on. The practical nature of the programme helps us to develop a positive outlook, and see results quickly!! Thankyou 😀 More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Just a talking shop of dreariness. No real counselling just regurgitated book examples with no answers to personal issues. And a two day intensive listening program. Omg what a waste of a weekend. There's a requirement to pay up front for a reason. It's a complete waste of money, which becomes immediately apparent but it's then too late. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

What a great experience. Matt and Rebeca are so passionate and supportive. I have learnt so much about relationships and myself. Thank you. Highly recommend xx

Reviewed on Google Maps

Aligned with love has gave me so much clarity towards my relationship with myself and the people that matter in my life . Using a variety of of methods( Family Constellation, hypnotherapy ..) helped me unravel matters that were hindering me from being my authentic self . I would advise anyone who wants clarity before entering any relationship to do the program, because I came to the realisation in order to attract the love of my life I need to make space and be ready to receive … Thank you Rebecca and Matt More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Working with Matt & Rebecca helped me realise a lot about the dynamics of my relationship and the imbalance it had been in for a long time. After almost 20 years of putting work and effort into my relationship I realised it was time to walk away. This wasn't the solution I had hoped & was very difficult but the work I did with them helped me develop the respect for myself to do what was right. Their approach is very subtle and allows you to figure things out by asking the right questions. I have since turned a new leaf in life and feel liberated from something that was holding me down. Thank you both for providing a much needed service & being experts in your field. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Matt and Rebecca are really dedicated to supporting individuals and partners on that magical journey we all go through in life . .. our relationship with ourself, others, and especially our partners. Whilst the 6 month programme has a focus on relationships with partners, the skills and insights inform who we are as an individual and can be applied to all our relationships. I have learned so much new information, insights, experiences. Whilst they present their information and colour it with lots of relevant experiences and material, they also recognise ultimately this is a journey each person explores for themselves, and takes away the tools and lessons most suitable for them, with no right or wrong solution. I really love their lessons on masculine and feminine essences and learned a lot about this topic, also on communication including how to structure and hold more challenging conversations. Finally, I love their programme in that it is totally focussed on what we can do to improve ourselves and there is no finger pointing at other people, and the way they deliver their course really supports this. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Rebecca &Mat are an amazing couple. They are not only professionals but also like old good friends to me! They truly care about the people they are helping! We had challenges at the beginning, their program truly is working on us. It is not easy and it is not magic show, it takes time. However we can see hope and improvement within the time. The dialogue they gave to us to practise is truly working on us. Thank you 🤩 More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

To anyone worried about the stigma of going to marriage guidance, don't. In the same way we all receive training at work to make us better at our jobs, try to think of it as something that can enable you to be a better partner to the person you love. Matt and Rebecca are very non judgemental and their structured approach will help you understand more about yourself and each other. As busy professionals with young children we found we simply weren't finding enough time to communicate and were drifting apart. Matt and Rebecca gave us some simple tools to improve this and we both began to understand more about what we brought to the relationship. In addition the sessions run by Matt for men only and Rebecca for women only gave a great chance to share experiences with people in similar positions which helped us both feel even more supported. We both feel stronger, happier and have a deeper respect for each other having been through this process. More...

Reviewed on Google Maps

Wonderful people, who helped us with communication problems, setting boundaries, meeting our individual needs and improving the relationship we have with each other as well as with family, friends, coworkers… etc.
We did 7 months course which involved 3 sessions a month. We found this very powerful and there was a lot of extra support and resources. Rebeca organises empowering events for ladies, and Matt mountain walks for men. I highly recommend this, not only for couples, but for anyone who wants to work on themselves. More...

M

Reply from Matt and Rebeca's Relationship Breakthrough

Hi Marta - great to hear that you've got such positive results from the work, and well done again for taking action and getting the support you needed!

Rebecca and Mat are great relationships coaches . Rebecca helped me to grow in to stronger women and her advice is always incredible and just when you need it most ! Thank you xxx

Reviewed on Facebook

Lucy and I had always had problems, mostly conflict resolution but also clashes with personalities. When things got bad enough that we thought we might need help we found aligned with Love on this website. As part of the program we visited Matt and Rebecca in Wales for two on two relationship coaching over the weekend. I can honestly say that it saved our relationship in that it helped both Lucy and I look at how we engage with each other and not only stopped us fighting but got us resolving disputes almost as soon as they started. Matt and Rebecca’s coaching approach is not intrusive like standard counselling, you won’t be asked to bare all your deepest feelings on a sofa. Instead they help you understand where you both stand in your relationship and resolve balance where there is conflict. We would both recommend Aligned with Love to anyone looking to resolve problems in their relationships and cannot thank Matt and Rebecca enough. Thank you guys x More...

Matt and Rebecca were excellent. Gave us the skills to look at our relationship and make the changes necessary.
Highly recommend them.

Matt and Rebecca set out clear action focused approach to their support as well as a clear costing structure that reflected the apparent high quality of the service. We have put our progress with them temporarily on hold while we explore an alternative option. We may well return to Matt and Rebecca at Aligned with love in future More...

Brilliant cancelling session with Mathew and Rebecca , higtly recommend them both . Very nice and clear explanation . Felt heard and listened to , thank you 😊!

I can not thank Matt and Rebecca enough for what they have done for me. When I entered the programme I was very hurt and hope to work things out with my husband. Unfortunately that didn’t happen, but now I have so much clarity on my relationship and they have given me the tools I need to move on with my life! More...

Fantastic with marriage councilling and focused a lot in self help. They helped both me and my wife get our voices heard and made us realise things we didn’t even acknowledge about ourselves. Fantastic and would recommend them to anyone More...

Matt and Rebeca have a unique way of working, investing time both individually and as a team.
Our relationship has improved dramatically, and we are implementing the methods we learned to keep things on track.
Matt and Rebeca are so approachable and easy to work with. Can't recommend enough! More...

Matt gave me a new perspective to look at situations differently and taught me the importance of self worth. The advice and exercises he has given me has had a massive impact on my marriage and my life in general.

M

Reply from Matt and Rebeca's Relationship Breakthrough

Hi Matt, I'm really glad that our work together has had such a positive impact! Also, thanks for sharing as it really helps other people out there looking for support, to find out about the work we do!

I had the chance to meet those beloved Souls in Romania, at an event. The way they combined their personal stories with music, dance with theatre, and the speaking of personal development with interactions, it is unique. It takes a great amount of healing and courage to speak so openly about your past. But not to use it as a emotional manipulation, but to offer it as a guidance and as an example. It is like whatever youțve got through your Life, it can be healed. I appreciate Rebecca very much, because she stands tall with both masculine and feminine energy, to support transitions in women's hard times. I appreciate Matt because he delivers top quality content for men, with clarity, easy to asimilate presentations, a calm tone, and great informations. More...

Reviewed on Facebook

Working with Rebecca is an amazing experience and one of the most important opportunities I have ever had. In a supportive, kind and caring way, she puts all her skills and knowledge in our deep conversations, and she helps me understand how the relationship with myself is reflecting on my personal and professional relationships. Through her powerful technique, she offers guidance to unlock the potential people already have within themselves and to be able to make empowered better choices. I recommend her with all my heart! Thank you, Rebecca! ???? More...

Reviewed on Facebook

The value I got from the program is priceless ???? With the incredible help of Rebecca, I healed past traumas, I gained a lot more clarity in my life (with respect to the harmful relationship patterns I had in the past and the new healthier patterns I want to cultivate in the future), I learned so many things about the differences between men and women and how to apply all the knowledge in order to have healthy, flourishing relationships without compromising my true self. I recommend it to all people struggling to either have or maintain a beautiful, nurturing relationship (with themselves first and with others subsequently). More...

Reviewed on Facebook

Rebeca and matt invited in their home, beautiful couple and amazing coaches. I was hosted with love and coaching me on my relationship. Great coaching session for two days on how to Aligned with Love , I love everything they showed, role play, variety of techniques to support my process and life success. with love Barke More...

Reviewed on Facebook

Rebeca and Matt are outstanding coaches. They really listen to your own personal needs and have lots of practical tools to adapt in order to resolve any kind of inner conflicts you might be dealing with, whether you're in a relationship, or single or looking to be in a relationship, you will truly benefit from their coaching techniques and welcoming hospitality and personal service, designed specially to meet your own personal needs. I can't recommend them enough. I wish them every success and look forward to seeing them again in the near future. A big thank you for all your help over the awesome weekend helping me unlock my inner blocks in love and self love.
Much love and gratitud,
Anna 💕😘❤ More...

I've worked with Matt and Rebecca on a difficult personal situation that was literally making my sick. They helped me to find clarity as to what I want in a relationship and identify some of the things I'm currently doing to sabotage my relationship(s). Thank you both! You are angels!"

Reviewed on Google Maps