Can you help this couple out? Earn £30 an hour to wait at a naturist wedding

We pride ourselves at on our ability to connect customers with the right professionals, no matter how crazy the job, and we’ve had our fair share of quirky requests! Sometimes some requests are little bit too niche, even for our big community of service providers, so we find reaching out to the public is a good way to get the word out and help our customers find the perfect person for the job.

Last weekend we had a couple get in touch after their previous wedding staff cancelled due to the nature of their wedding. The engaged couple are naturists and are looking for four waiting and two bar staff who are comfortable serving nude guests, as well as being in the nude themselves on the big day – this is a must.

Here is the full request:

Hi Bark,

I am in desperate need of your assistance…

I’m getting married next month and urgently need to find four waiting and two bar staff to help on the day. We’re having a small ceremony with 30 guests at my fiancé’s family home in Berkshire. We don’t require much from the staff, they just need to help serve food and drink throughout the day, the only thing we do ask, is that they do it naked. Bear with us…

My fiancé and I are naturists and fully celebrate that way of life, as do all of our family and friends, so having a nude wedding was the only way we wanted to promise ourselves to one another. 

We had previously considered having clothed staff, but we do not feel comfortable in the presence of clothed people, so why would we want to feel uncomfortable on the most special day of our lives? To say finding staff who are happy to work naked has been tough is an understatement, we’ve been let down by three sets of people so far, with the last ones initially agreeing and then as the day nears pulling out at the last minute, it’s an incredibly stressful situation when all we want is for our wedding be 100% authentic. 

We know that this isn’t something the average waiter would be happy doing, but we’re hoping that we can find people out there who are comfortable in their own skin or are naturists too. We’re not even bothered if they have waiting experience at this point, as long as they are professional and polite! We’re getting married on the 2nd of October so due to the late notice and obvious uniqueness to our circumstances, we are willing to pay a bit more than average, £30 and hour, to anyone willing to help. I’ve very successfully used to find a dog walker and make up artist, so fingers crossed you can help us find some wedding staff!!

If you think you can help, or know anyone who can, please, please let us know!


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25 thoughts on “Can you help this couple out? Earn £30 an hour to wait at a naturist wedding”

  1. Unable to fill in the contact form but myself and my husband very willing with lots of hospitality experience 🙂

  2. Myself and my wife would be willing to speak about the job advertised! I am not able to leave my details above so leaving them here.

  3. Is the couple members of any naturist organization? Surely they could find willing people from their own community. I would gladly help but the airfare from Oregon USA wouldn’t be covered even by their generous hourly rate. 🙂

  4. Hope I get the chance to serve you both in this capacity, and do what I can to make this very special day for you both even better.

  5. Hi!
    I saw your post on yahoo.
    I’m interested and willing to help out, although I’m living and working in China. I’m down for it if it won’t be a challenge.

  6. Hello I’m Daniel live in southend I’ve done bar work ber and love help them out

    And also work at a hotel in pass along with p&o

  7. Hi there.
    I responded to the above, but not entirely sure if the response went through properly? Is there any way of knowing if it has?
    I am conscious of the fact that the wedding is 1½ weeks away – unless they have managed to find the staff they were looking for OR have decided against what they were originally looking for?
    Many thanks,

  8. I would do it be I live in Dublin Ireland. Hope you find the staff you need and congratulations on your wedding

    Kind regards
    Grace keogh

  9. I’ve been working for the past 2years as a bartender/waiter and have been a nudist for 5years. I’m working in Pangbourne, previously is Newbury. I can do either jobs.

  10. shame I didn’t see this before. I work on a bar and would have done this for you. but tomorow I’m working. and I have a friend who would have assisted as well. Sorry can’t help on this occasion

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