Charmaine Ashby | Life & Marriage Coach
This work is personal for me. I don’t coach couples because I read it in a book—I coach couples because I’ve lived it. I’ve felt the silence, the heartbreak, and the “Are we even going to make it?
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Felicia Livingston
Couples Counseling
We loved her insightfulness. She caused us to think deeply by asking questions that challenged how we view ourselves as individuals.
Elizabeth A Saucedo
Couples Counseling
Ashby is Amazing! Within a short time, she place me in perspective. She listens and knew the right questions to ask,Honesty straight forward, no nonsense, no run around, no run of the mill telling you what you want hear. She’s a keeper! What a blessing she is the profession. More...
Reply from Marriage Communication Coach Specialist
Liz, you are the kind of person any coach would love to work with. You are not afraid to do the work of introspection and self-reflection
Dawn&larry
Thank for giving us a ave.to bring a light into our interest about learning how talk and communicate with each other .
Shirley Gibson
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Char was very professional. My fiancé and I uses her for some life/relationship coaching. She’s non-biased and has already helped us community more effectively.
Reply from Marriage Communication Coach Specialist
Shirley, I am rooting for the two of you.
Daniel George
Couples Counseling
Seeking to understand and guide through knowledge and wisdom. I recommend Char to all those in need of healing and guidance through a time of need.
Reply from Marriage Communication Coach Specialist
Thanks, Daniel praying for good things for you and your family.
Leticia Jackson
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
I am so glad I found Char. She asks questions that make you think and teaches you how to effectively communicate with your partner. You will get the results you seek as long as you’re honest and do the work! More...
Reply from Marriage Communication Coach Specialist
It is my joy to be a 3rd partner in your relationship to help you discover the life you want to live.
Breyana Martin
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
LIFE CHANGING! Such an inspiration and help me change the coarse of my life for the better. Charlotte was so personable and supportive, but raw with the truth. She was exactly what I needed.
Reply from Marriage Communication Coach Specialist
I loved hearing your dreams and goals and I celebrate you for moving towards your big dream.
Sarah Lien
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
She's wonderful. My fiancé & I were so impressed with her: the way she reacts to people. She's not only professional but she gets to the heart of the matter. She really hit on the issues at hand & the solution. God bless her! More...
Reply from Marriage Communication Coach Specialist
Thank you Sarah it was my pleasure working with you.
Benny
Relationship and Marriage Counseling
Very professional and direct my spouse had an affair a year ago and I've been trying to have her understand what I've been going through after one session miss Charmaine made my wife see what I was going through I highly recommend her and we are looking forward to having future sessions with her
Reply from Marriage Communication Coach Specialist
Thank you Benny for allowing me to be the 3 rope in your code for better awarenes and a better life.
Brittany
Life Coaching
Ms. Ashby is a very intuitive professional, charming and compassionate. I thoroughly enjoyed speaking with her and felt she was a great listener. Her feedback is authentic and by the end of the meeting, I was super ready to tackle my situation head on. So fortunate to have connected with this wonderful person, I encourage anyone to reach out to Charmaine Ashby Coaching! Thank you! More...
I Jones
I’ve been working with Mrs.Ashby for 6 weeks now, she’s been a blessing! I would recommend giving her a chance you will not be disappointed. Thank you for everything 🙏
What do you love most about your job?
What I love most about my job is the opportunity to witness transformation. Every conversation, every breakthrough moment reminds me why I do what I do. Guiding individuals and couples reconnect with their purpose, rebuild trust, and create thriving relationships fills me with joy. Seeing people realize that healing and happiness are possible — that’s the most rewarding part of what I do.
What inspired you to start your own business?
Starting my own business came from a deep passion for transformation in people’s lives. Seeing the potential in individuals and relationships to live more fully inspired me. I wanted to create a space where people could feel supported, challenged, and guided toward positive change. I saw how coaching could bring out hidden strengths, improve relationships, and drive personal and professional growth. My goal was to offer a service that truly helps people live their best lives, filled with purpose, adventure, and excitement. Every session is designed to lead to better awareness, better actions, and better results, making each step toward change meaningful and impactful.
Why should our clients choose you?
Clients should choose us because we are committed to their transformation. At Ashby Alive, we bring a unique combination of experience, empathy, and practical tools that lead to real, lasting change. Our coaching is rooted in understanding each individual’s unique journey and goals. We don’t offer a one-size-fits-all solution; instead, we create personalized experiences that align with each client’s needs, whether it’s in life, marriage, or professional growth. Our proven approach has supported people globally to achieve better awareness, take empowered actions, and see tangible results. With us, you’ll gain a partner dedicated to helping you live your best life—one full of adventure, fulfillment, and purpose.
Can you provide your services online or remotely? If so, please add details.
Yes, we offer our coaching services online and remotely, providing flexibility and accessibility for clients around the world. Our virtual coaching sessions are conducted via secure video platforms, allowing clients to join from the comfort of their own space. Whether you’re looking for one-on-one sessions, marriage coaching, or group workshops, our online format maintains the same depth and personalization as in-person coaching.
Through our remote services, clients can connect with us at times that fit their schedules, making it easier to stay committed to their personal growth journey. Our clients from diverse locations, including Armenia, Canada, Greece, Israel, Mexico, Romania, Singapore, and the US, have found that remote coaching allows them to access transformative guidance regardless of distance.
What changes have you made to keep your customers safe from Covid-19?
To keep our clients safe from COVID-19, we transitioned all of our coaching services to online platforms, ensuring that clients can continue their personal and marital growth without the risk of in-person meetings. This remote format not only safeguards health but also offers flexibility for clients to access support from the comfort of their own homes.
We also implemented additional measures to ensure the privacy and security of our virtual sessions. We use secure, encrypted video conferencing platforms, ensuring that all sessions are confidential and safe. Clients can feel comfortable knowing their information and personal experiences are protected during each coaching session.
In addition to online coaching, we’ve maintained a strong commitment to staying up-to-date on health and safety guidelines, continuously adjusting our services to meet the evolving needs of our clients in a way that prioritizes both their well-being and growth.
Elevate Your Marriage: Transformative Coaching for Lasting Results
My name is Charmaine, and I am a Marriage Coach dedicated to helping couples navigate challenges, strengthen their bonds, and cultivate fulfilling relationships.
I understand that relationships can be complex, but with the right support and guidance, it’s possible to overcome obstacles and thrive together.
In my coaching practice, I specialize in addressing common issues couples face — such as communication breakdowns, conflict, and feeling disconnected from one another. I believe in providing practical solutions that empower couples to build stronger, more harmonious partnerships.
Five Key Benefits of My Coaching
1. Learning to Resolve Conflict Without Feeling Gaslighted
Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but it doesn’t have to leave you feeling invalidated or manipulated. Through my coaching, couples learn effective conflict resolution techniques that promote understanding and mutual respect — without the emotional toll of gaslighting.
2. Increased Intimacy
Intimacy is the foundation of a healthy relationship. My coaching helps couples deepen their emotional and physical connection. By fostering open communication, trust, and vulnerability, couples can experience greater closeness and connection.
3. Improved Focus on Future Goals
Many couples struggle to align their goals and aspirations, which can lead to frustration and disconnection. With my guidance, couples can clarify their shared values and vision for the future — allowing them to work together toward common goals with clarity and purpose.
4. Boosted At-Home Happiness
A happy home is essential for a thriving relationship. My coaching helps couples create a positive, supportive environment by addressing underlying issues and building healthy communication habits — leading to greater happiness and daily fulfillment.
5. Increased Energy and Creativity
Constant conflict and tension can drain your energy and creativity, leaving you feeling exhausted and uninspired. By resolving conflicts and improving communication, couples free up emotional and mental energy — restoring vitality, joy, and creativity.
Warm regards,
Charmaine
Marriage Coach
MARRIAGE COACHING
Marriage & Relationship Coaching for When Love Feels Uncertain
Relationships don’t fall apart all at once. It’s the slow drift, the missed words, the tension that never quite settles. I work with couples who feel disconnected, unsure, or stuck—whether they’re trying to hold it together, heal what’s broken, or decide what’s next. This is a space for honest conversations, clarity, and the kind of work that brings real change.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing.
1:1 Coaching
One-to-One Coaching for Real Life, Real Decisions
This coaching is for anyone standing at a crossroads—wrestling with big questions, navigating relationship challenges, or trying to reconnect with their confidence and purpose. If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next move, this space is for clarity, growth, and honest support.
Together, we’ll cut through the noise and get to what really matters. You'll gain tools to set boundaries and speak up with confidence.
