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Integrating the knowledge and self-awareness I have gained through my own life experience, I offer insight and understanding to others, particularly those processing the unusual or uncomfortable in their lives and relationships, in an acceptable way for them.

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7 August 2022

Working with Alec was a pleasure, he asks great questions to allow you to see situations from different perspectives and allows time for insights to be had. Would recommend him to anyone looking for a breakthrough. More...

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Thank you Dan, I'm looking forward to continuing the journey.

1 August 2022

I would be happy to leave a review specifically for Alec from DesiredState. There are many positive things to say about Alec in the terms of personality, intention, skill, knowledge and capability, so I will simply say that I would not hesitate to have a session with Alec for the purpose of gaining clarity, setting a specific plan of action and to go deeper in understanding of a possible path forward. As a fellow hypnotherapy practitioner, I will share that Alec is a masterful Guide and we have had numerous session in which we have been able to lead myself and others to a deeper level of trance. A level of trance that is sought by many for meaningful change. Given that we are all different, I will say that Alec is Right for me and I highly recommend that you go ahead and schedule a meeting with him to see if he is right for you too! More...

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Steve, you are a true gentleman. Facilitating hypnotherapy training with you has been a pleasure and to be entrusted with your own change work is an honour. Thank you.

31 July 2022

Working with Alec is like spending time with a safe friend. He has a warm yet firm way of holding space and guiding you through your process. His knowledge, experience, insight and humor all combine to make any time you spend with him an important part of your own personal journey. He's one of the greatest and I highly recommend working with him. More...

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Erika, it has been a uniquely interesting pleasure to work with you. Thank you for your kind words.

29 July 2022

I worked with Alec and he is an excellent coach and skilled hypnotherapist. I highly recommend his services to anyone looking to up-level their life and overcome what is holding them back. Thank you, Alec, for the amazing hypnotherapy sessions: they have been super insightful! More...

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Thank you Cosmina, I was happy to be in service. You created the insights as I held a metaphorical mirror for your reflection. This is one of the great pleasures of working with those who know their answers lay within.

5 July 2022

Many thought I have a normal life but there were triggers that made me cringe, then I recalled some horrible episodes in my life. Alec Wells helped me reframe my thoughts to a desired state. Now I am adjusting better & feeling free from undesired states through better perspectives of the goings-on in my life. Thanks, Alec ! More...

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Thank you Yvette, you were very open to coaching observations and focused on your growth.

4 July 2022

Alec is a deep sensitive person who is deeply committed to the helping profession, his extensive experience in life and personal growth have gifted him with valuable tools to help guide people to their desired state, I would highly recommend him to anyone!

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Thank you, Sarah, it has been a joy coaching you and learning with you.

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The ah-ha moments when a client recognises that the change they want to see is sometimes only a single perspective shift away, and entirely within their control.

I came into the field of coaching and personal development through decades of experience with trauma and crisis in the UK emergency services. I want to help those that want to help themselves to find a sustainable, acceptable and self-directed paths through their lives. There is also huge drive to tackle mental health issues but the treatment pathways are unable to cope with demand, coaching and personal development are closely aligned with person centred management of mental health concerns.

Alec's purpose as a former first responder is to use his experience and personal understanding of the challenges he has faced to help other people overcome residual exposure to trauma and live healthy, meaningful lives. He offers a different perspective on trauma and traumatic incidents; how to cope with them, and to equip people to manage post-trauma reactivation situations.

Your DesiredState is that place in which you are able to enjoy your life as you want to experience it, free from unhelpful anchors to the past and without anxiety for the future. Living optimally, Now.
Using a combination of Modern Applied Psychology practices DesiredState offers a person-centred approach to resolving personal tensions and helping clients to attain well-formed outcomes.

After making contact I will provide a pro-zoom link for sessions.

The majority of sessions are held remotely. In the rare circumstance that a client lives sufficiently nearby and desires a physical meeting, this can be facilitated outside or, contactless and distanced within a comfortable lounge.

Services

Alec's purpose as a former first responder is to use his experience and personal understanding of the challenges he has faced to help other people overcome residual exposure to trauma and live healthy, meaningful lives.

He offers a different perspective on trauma and traumatic incidents; how to cope with them, and the means to equip people to manage post-trauma reactivation situations.

He offers people the space to process the unusual or uncomfortable into their acceptable.

Using a combination of Modern Applied Psychology practices (CBT, NLP, Hypnotherapy) Mindfulness and Spiritual elements DesiredState offers a person-centred approach to resolving personal tensions and helping clients to attain well-formed outcomes.

Your DesiredState is that place in which you are able to enjoy your life as you want to experience it, free from unhelpful anchors to the past and without anxiety for the future. Living optimally, Now.

Alec has provided trauma workshops to staff from the International Criminal Court, within an online global mental health summit and to former colleagues within frontline emergency services. He is an independent TRiM practitioner and a contributor to The Academy of Modern Applied Psychology.

As part of continuing professional development, (CPD) DesiredState offers a limited number of complimentary sessions to clients that make contact via either LinkedIn or desiredstate@mail.com

Please email for further details and availability.