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I offer personal or individual counselling, family counselling, group counselling, relationship and marriage counselling and mental health counselling.
I am married and experienced. I am very mature, focused, and listen keenly to each case because everyone and every case is unique.

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30 April 2024

Couples Counselling

Anthony is great to work with. He is calm and knowledgeable and is giving us the tools to prioritise our relationship and reconnect. Would highly recommend.

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29 April 2024

Counselling

Me & my partner were nervous to start but Anthony calmed our nerves & reassured us before we even had our first session. Once we had our first session we immediately connection with Anthony & knew we’d made the right decision. Not only do we feel comfortable to bring up any topic because of Anthony’s professional approach but we also both feel listened to & that he gives a very fair & honest opinion/advice. Anthony goes above & beyond expectations you’d have of any councillor, you really won’t regret choosing Anthony to guide & lead you to a healthier & happier you! Thank you Anthony! More...

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7 April 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

The short time spent with Mr Anthony has been truly worth it. As soon as we raised our issues, he need exactly how to go about dealing with the root cause. Professional and truthful. He knows his stuff and he is fair. I look forward to our sessions and changes were seen instantly after the session. God bless him for his wisdom and unavailing himself to practice such wonderful gift. More...

6 April 2024

Just had our first session with Anthony and it was amazing. Very much looking forward to the forthcoming sessions and excited to see what the future holds.

2 April 2024

Tony is a great listener. Filtering through responses to get to the heart of the matter. He allows expression and will affirm what needs affirming or check what needs checking. I'm glad I can count on an honest, compassionate and insight filled conversation with Tony. More...

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27 March 2024

Couples Counselling

Anthony is fantastic! And I mean it.
A humble, honest, intelligent man with very good morals and a logical view on relationships.
Me and my partner have been going to him for couples therapy and although as a couple we go up and down in our relationship Anthony is a great mentor and has helped us to value each other and our relationships immensely so we can continue to work on our journey together.
I see him also as a great mentor and his faith in God has helped our process immensely especially to help us place ourselves within the spiritual community and how to safely incorporate these core values into our relationship not with ourselves but with God.
A side note is that Anthony has been more than understanding with mine and my parents difficult financial situation and has been endlessly understanding about it all in a professional manner and has tried his absolute best to help us continue our sessions regardless of what is going on.

I could say so much more.
Thank you!
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25 March 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I approached Anthony initially to help with couples therapy and have since returned to do sessions on my own to help and work on myself. I can’t praise him enough not only for his expert field knowledge, but his guidance, empathetic viewpoints and non bias thoughts to a situation.

I few I am developing well as a person and in my relationship and I am very thankful to have found and Anthony and I look forward to continuing my development journey with him.
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19 March 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Right from the start, Anthony established a comfortable and welcoming environment where my partner and I felt safe expressing our thoughts and emotions. Anthony demonstrated excellent communication skills, actively listened and ensured that our voices were heard and validated.

One aspect that stood out to us was Anthony's ability to remain impartial and unbiased. This allowed for open and honest conversations enabling us to delve into the root causes of our issues and work towards finding solutions together.

Anthony possesses impressive knowledge and expertise through various techniques, to helped us identify unhealthy patterns, improve our communication, and gain a deeper understanding of each other's needs and perspectives. His guidance and insightful observations been instrumental in our progress.
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17 March 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Wow, what can we say about Anthony? We have only just started with him and still have work to do but with a genuine Counsellor who uses humanity within the wisest way. The knowledge of wisdom within a marriage to help put right the wrongs.The understanding of two people's personality to be able to put an understanding together without being judgmental, showing us how to reconnect after 33 years instead of throwing it away within truth but also being fun.. We will get through our struggles with his honesty and help.We can not recommend Anthony enough. Thank you More...

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15 March 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Working with Anthony has been amazing, he was able to listen attentively to the issue we were having as a couple and give us the foundation of our problems. After that, he gave a thorough breakdown which helped to navigate in the right direction. With many years of experience, Anthony was professional and direct. If you really want to get the best outcome, I would recommend Anthony.

Anthony was kind, polite and genuinely cared about the success of our relationship as well as personal growth. An all rounder!!!
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7 March 2024

Counselling

lovely to chat to. honestly gives you the absolute best advice! love working with him and continuing to work with him!

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23 February 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Anthony has been an absolute magician. Quickly got my husband and I talking about difficult topics with his direct style of communication.

Anthony is kind and genuinely cared for our success and cheered us on with encouraging, motivating statements and quickly identified where we needed to make urgent improvements. When he felt happy with our progress he scheduled monthly meetings to oversee our progress.
Thanks Anthony, you are one in a million and have helped save our relationship with easy to implement methods and communication
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6 February 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Very comfortable, he has vast knowledge and speaks very politely with good communication skills unlike my self. A+

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31 January 2024

Couples Counselling

Working with Anthony has been amazing, he has shown us so much about ourselves and our relationship, even after the first session!

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10 January 2024

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

We have worked with Anthony for the last month, after reaching a crisis point in our relationship. From the very first session, our communication improved greatly and we have continued to rebuild our connection using Anthony's advice and practices shared with us. Anthony's responsiveness and communication is great, and we both feel able to reach out for support if required. Anthony provided us a space to communicate openly, honestly and with respect, and helped us to feel empowered to keep working at our relationship. More...

9 January 2024

I had an excellent experience with the Reconciled Counsellor. He was quick to assist when needed, and the session was both insightful and comforting. Their prompt responsiveness contributed to the overall positive atmosphere of the therapy. More...

4 January 2024

Anthony was a God sent to me. He helped me to go through difficult times and was supportive even after we finished our sessions. I would recommend Anthony's help to anyone who has struggles in relationships or in general. Anthony was supportive and blunt if needed at times. I am grateful to be able to meet him online. Thank you More...

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4 January 2024

Couples Counselling

Anthony is brilliant, he is very experienced and this shows in his work. He has such a calm and realistic approach and explains things in a way that is easy to follow. We’ve had a few sessions with him and we’re already reaping the benefits - he has given our marriage a different meaning by working through each issue. We can’t wait to see what the future brings and hope to carry on the sessions to enhance our relationship. Thank you Anthony for helping us put the spark back into our relationship, we are so grateful. More...

4 January 2024

We are only 2 sessions in & I have learnt so much about myself already! Anthony is amazing.

4 January 2024

He really helped me discover some patterns in my life and helped me through them. The insight I got shed a lot of clarity on my situation. I am grateful

3 January 2024

Counselling with Anthony has been a great journey. He goes deep to discover the root cause of various behaviours in relationships. He was able to help me understand things from both perspectives of a relationship and not only from my perspective, which has helped tremendously. I would highly recommend Anthony as I intend to continue using his expertise to become the best partner possible. More...

29 December 2023

Anthony is not only really attentive and an excellent listener, but he's also incredibly knowledgeable. His guidance has been a game-changer for my self-confidence and the way I talk to myself. Highly recommend!

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8 December 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I am a firm believer of being given "life lessons", that need to be identified and learnt by situations life rolls in our way.
One of my lessons happens to be acceptance. I found myself in similar situations over and over again, where should I have practiced accepting what is, I could have mastered the art of accepting what i cannot change....but I didn't.
So, life presented me with a situation that is the most difficult one I have had to face in my 41 years of life; I have had to come to realise that the chronic disease of - my Beloved Mom, who is a 65 year old nurse, living 2000 km away from me, with my Dad - has progressed to end stage. As an emotionally closed up person, Mom never shared much about her life, difficulties, feelings or thoughts with me. As an emotionally open and in-tune person, I have always put together what is happening in her life from crumbs of information, sounds, pictures (we use chat apps) and the energy I felt. So, when she stopped working 4 weeks ago, she caught my attention..wasn't long before I first understood that her disease progressed to end stage. In a matter of days I have coordinated a full MDT of specialists to guide her care, during which I understood that she is in a critical, life threatening condition. I then lowered the goal of organised care from curative to palliative and offered it to her. She rejected both offers - not by words though. No words were ever spoken.
I wondered what it is that is overwriting the panic any human would feel, knowing that the situation can turn dire any moment - this is when I realised that my Mom has made her decision a long time ago. She decided to say no to life with this disease and planned everything out until the very end. Alone, at home, without her husband and daughter knowing. This is what I have to accept right now and in this very moment, Anthony reached out and took my hand to guide me through darkness. It was nothing short of a life changing moment when in my sheer panic, someone understood and saw me and knew I needed help. It is a miracle and that is how I can describe Counsellor Anthony; miraculous. It was a moment that has imprinted in my essence of being forever. Anthony, you were born with a talent. Thank you for being you.

Alex
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4 December 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I am a professional, who has spent years helping others and advising their lives, so I thought I had seen, heard, and dealt with it all. As of my relationship breakdown, I contacted Anthony. Anthony showed both of us that we didn't know itnall. He guided us and gave us the tools to love. Our relationship has never been so close, loving, happy as of now. Our emotional connection is at a different level. All this Anthony did, but he would say: "You did this." with a smile. Yet he truly guided us to a better future for us and our children. Also, in the process, it made me a better person. Thank you for everything Anthony, you are Amazing. More...

30 November 2023

We have just finished our second session with Anthony and he has already made such a positive impact in our relationship. We look forward to working more with him.

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17 November 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Anthony has really supported my marriage during a turbulent time. He has helped me and my husband get back on track and brought our bond deeper. He is very knowledgeable, supportive, reliable and professional. More...

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28 October 2023

Couples Counselling

Anthony has been fantastic in helping mine and my husbands relationship to bloom once again. He got us talking more and spending more time together. During the sessions he got us bringing up past happy memories in which we had forgotten about, which really helped us to connect again. Thanks so much for all your help Anthony!! More...

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9 September 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Anthony is a good listener he listens to both parties.
He helps us to see our differences and difficulties and how to resolve them. His session cost are reasonable his good u should give him a go…. More...

21 August 2023

Anthony is a great leader and guide. He is a great listener, works well with people and understands them.
He has been a beacon of light and has helped me understand and overcome many challenges.

I now understand myself and I'm learning to walk with God. I highly recommend him.
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16 August 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Anthony has been nothing short of supportive, encouraging and inspiring! He has helped me to regain my mental strength, to believe in myself and understand my worth! I have worked with him regarding many topics and he has been extremely proficient in each and every area. Furthermore, he allows me to communicate in my own time and helps me to delve deeper into the issues I am facing both personally, with my relationship, work and whatever else is presented to me! I couldn’t thank him enough for the journey he has helped me to begin and maintain! He is unequivocally respectful and patient and truly has a heart of gold! With his therapy style I have been able to make significant progress unlike I have elsewhere and I have been able to finally engage in a setting where I do not feel judged nor as I am going to be told off or shamed! I am only ever encouraged and pointed into a direction of growth and positivity. I owe many thanks to him and will coherently be continuing with him. More...

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15 August 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I couldn’t recommend Anthony enough. He gave great relationship advice, asked important hard questions and gave us autonomy to have our own view of our relationship whilst expertly diagnosing what could be the problem which was right in the end. He has been instrumental in uncovering the hidden cracks in the relationship and as long as you’re honest you will be able to understand if your relationship will be able to stand the time of time or whether that time is just being wasted! Thank you Anthony :)))) More...

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14 August 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Anthony messaged me back strait away. He spoke to is the next day. I was very skeptical and had given up hope. After our first appointment, I have so much hope and can see a future for me and my husband. Thank you

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5 July 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Anthony is wonderful! He was so fast to respond to us and we received counselling in a matter of days. He is positive and intuitive and recognises where we might be holding back and helps us initiate conversation organically in a safe space. He has truly transformed our relationship in just 3 sessions. He gives us hope and spurs us on with his own experience and humour.
100% recommend, we very much look forward to his continuing help as we progress forward with our marriage
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16 May 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

We had several couple’s sessions with Anthony, we went into our sessions thinking we knew what our problems were but we had only scratched the surface.
Anthony made us aware of issues that we essentially didn’t realise we had and by virtue of that, we didn’t know how to address something which we didn’t know was affecting our relationship. Anthony helped us to identify several issues so that we could then begin to work on them with his support and guidance.
Anthony is very understanding and is completely non judgemental. He gives a lot of examples of scenarios and asks both parties to respond with their point of view which makes it easier to detach and feel less insecure / embarrassed of the subject matter. He provides a lot of analogies which gave us hope and helped us to connect and understand each other better. We have now been discharged from Anthony’s care as he only seeks to help and then let you continue with the changes and work on your relationship - although we know we can go back to him if we ever need support or advice. We would definitely recommend Anthony and find ourselves referring to his advice every few days.
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11 May 2023

Couples Counselling

From the beginning, we felt comfortable talking to Anthony. He was able to point out some very important things that we were doing wrong in our relationship. Our aim was to find a solution to the problems we were experiencing with each other, and Anthony did a great job in picking up on this. Thank you for your help Anthony. We have no hesitation in recommending you as a couple's therapist. More...

4 May 2023

We came to Antony for couples counselling as we were struggling with our communication. I cannot express how much he has helped us. From worksheets to 1:1 sessions he honestly has been the best counsellor we have worked with. I cannot recommend him enough! Thank you! More...

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27 April 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Excellent advice and support to get things back on track and deal with compromise in relationships. Thank you Anthony for your help.

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21 April 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Anthony is someone who uses all cues; he picks up on body language, gestures and uses it to point towards a solution.

He is very relatable which helps during our sessions. He knows how to capture a seemingly insignificant moment and turn it into something to ponder on, question and develop within your relationship.

While you probably feel vulnerable, he creates an environment where you can freely share as he doesn’t make anyone feel like a bad guy. All he does is share another perspective.

We’ve enjoyed our sessions with him and highly recommend him for couples looking to get married.
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12 March 2023

Couples Counselling

I had a couple’s session with Anthony, followed by sessions after the break-up. Anthony dealt with our challenges with a lot of care and wisdom. He doesn’t just sit there quietly listening – he identifies the problem through clear questions and pinpoints the issues very succinctly. He gives plenty of examples. He is very reconciling and provides a lot of hope. He made our problems feel smaller and more manageable. In our case, the relationship didn’t eventually work out, but the conversations I’ve had with Anthony since have also enabled me to manage the emotions and next steps with a lot of confidence. I would definitely recommend Anthony to any couple going through conflict, or anyone going through individual grieving, self-esteem issues, or similar. A really great person and counsellor. More...

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11 March 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

My husband and I saw a difference after the first session but now 3 sessions in we have been able to use the tools provided to better our relationship. Cannot thank or recommend Antony enough, has helped us massively More...

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25 February 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Quick response, made us feel at ease and after just one session helped us massively. Very informative with objectives that we look forward to completing. Would highly recommend

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20 February 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Highly recommend Anthony to anyone and everyone; we have only been seeing him for about 6 weeks and the our relationship is changing and growing everyday with the tips and advice Anthony has given us to help towards our relationship.

Anthony is welcoming and makes you feel very comfortable especially as it is hard to open up and deal with your struggles

The sessions are a joy!! They always feel like they go so quick because you actually enjoy them, and learning different ways to manage eachother and our relationship has been amazing!!

We can’t thank you enough, we appreciate everything you have done for us
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19 February 2023

Couples Counselling

Anthony has helped me passed issues I’ve had and helping through a break up aswell! He is there when I have days of anxiousness and will be on the end of the phone when I need him!

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19 February 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Responsive and professional, many thanks

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4 February 2023

Couples Counselling

Anthony is a professional counsellor who is currently working with my partner and I. He has solicited impartial advice and tools which have been useful when my partner and I are reflecting upon our relationship. Furthermore, he is a trustworthy and personable individual who is flexible as per the needs of his clients.

We are still receiving counselling from Anthony and thus far we have reaped the benefits, e.g., maintaining respect, honesty, dealing with conflict and past traumas in a healthy manner.

Thank you very much Anthony, we look forward to working with you soon
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2 February 2023

Couples Counselling

Me and my husband have been working with Anthony for a few weeks now and we can already see a positive change in our relationship and ourselves. He has helped us overcome some challenges that we were facing in the space of a couple of weeks. Anthony’s prices are very reasonable as well for the time and effort he puts into his work.
Anthony is also very culturally aware which makes it easier to work with him without having to explain any cultural differences.
He has also worked around mine and my husbands work schedules which has also made booking sessions with him easier as he is flexible with his bookings and does not require set days or times.
I would highly recommend Anthony if you are facing any challenges in your relationship or for your own personal problems.
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31 January 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Had one session so far and was definitely so insightful and will be going back regularly. Exceeded our expectations.

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25 January 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

We are working with Anthony currently as our marriage counsellor. We can’t fault him, he listens and supports us both equally. We will continue to see him, to help us through our difficulties in our marriage. Thank you Anthony More...

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23 January 2023

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I have just booked and not yet attended a session so I will return once I am able to leave a proper review.

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20 January 2023

Couples Counselling

Anthony has been amazing through our relationship counselling. Only 4 sessions in but He has helped us enjoy eachother again and see hope for our future when our relationship was in turmoil

Q&As

I love helping others become better. We all have great potentials but I understand that life happens and we can all make mistakes. I have made mistakes in my own life but I decided to learn from it and become better instead of building a tent and dwelling there, never moving forward.

Planting one tree is good. Planting many trees is better. Once I learnt my own life lessons, the next move naturally became to make my skills available to others who might need them. I derive joy from helping people grow and become their better selves.

I am self-motivated. Having been in Ministry for over 25 years as a pastor, I never asked for salary wherever I served. I believe that service to others and helping them become better is not comparable to any amount of money one gets in return. For me, money is not my number one priority in life. As a matter of fact, the happiest people in life that I have met and interacted with, are not the richest! On the other hand, some of the saddest people I ever counselled with, are the wealthiest!

I can only provide my services online and remotely, at least for now.

I only meet clients online. All my services are online.

Services

Premarital Counselling. Marriage Counselling. Relationship Counselling.