Oasis of Love - London
N4, London
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N4, London
(26)
Specialised in providing the best solutions for couples who have been together long & short term with Relationships Issues - Loss of Trust, Infidelity, Betrayal, Lack of Passion & Intimacy, Sexual Issues, Communication Issues & Conflict Resolution.
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26 customer reviews
Elspas
Nico is a very supportive, knowledgeable, kind and truly gifted coach and therapist.
I would love to recommend Nico to all the couples that are facing relationship challenges or crisis and who would like to bring improvement to their lives.
I can't believe how well Nico was able to understand us and help us overcome our issues (managing conflicts, feelings of disconnection and hurt).
All the advice Nico gave me while I was in the middle of a conflict with my partner, worked wonders on me and I've learned from him to express my feelings and needs with ease in a way that my partner really appreciates and helps us reconcile as never before.
I feel I have transformed into a better person, wife and mum thanks to Nico's coaching. He is second to none!
Thank you so much Nico for all the time, wisdom, patience, the amazing tools (repair checklist, the four horsemen of the apocalypse, the Rapoport intervention, the aftermath of a fight) and thank you for all the effort you put into bringing us back on the path of love and self-awareness at a time when we felt so lost, hurt and disconnected.
I feel so grateful, honored and lucky to have been coached by you!
Wishing you loads of health, happiness and success in all your future endeavors!
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Enam Kamassa
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
I had been going through a breakup with my girlfriend and approached Nico for personal coaching to get me through the situation and improve my relationship skills.
Nico was patient with me and showed a lot of empathy during my whole situation and for that I'm grateful.
I learnt a lot about myself and how to improve myself. I would deffo recommend the "Breakthrough Your Limitations" program to others facing similar challenges.
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Michaela
I reached out to Nico on a recommendation from a friend to help with some ongoing challenges my boyfriend of 7 years and I had been having in our relationship.
We’d been having trouble with intimacy and communication and had struggled to overcome them on our own.
Working with Nico has been instrumental in strengthening our relationship. The initial assessment helped us to see our strengths and weaknesses as a couple and allowed Nico to tailor a program to suit our needs. My boyfriend and I both work in theatre and have very sporadic schedules, but Nico was very accommodating with scheduling which gave us both peace of mind.
Both the work we did in our sessions and the exercises Nico set us have taught us better communication strategies and enabled us to understand each other on a deeper level. Since we started working with Nico, we’ve made several breakthroughs and are closer than ever. Nico has given us a firm foundation and the tools to keep growing our relationship and build our future together.
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Michaela Bennison
I reached out to Nico on a recommendation from a friend to help with some ongoing challenges my boyfriend of 7 years and I had been having in our relationship. We’d been having trouble with intimacy and communication and had struggled to overcome them on our own. Working with Nico has been instrumental in strengthening our relationship. The initial assessment helped us to see our strengths and weaknesses as a couple and allowed Nico to tailor a program to suit our needs. My boyfriend and I both work in theatre and have very sporadic schedules, but Nico was very accommodating with scheduling which gave us both peace of mind. Both the work we did in our sessions and the exercises Nico set us have taught us better communication strategies and enabled us to understand each other on a deeper level. Since we started working with Nico, we’ve made several breakthroughs and are closer than ever. Nico has given us a firm foundation and the tools to keep growing our relationship and build our future together. More...
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Michaela Bennison
I reached out to Nico on a recommendation from a friend to help with some ongoing challenges my boyfriend of 7 years and I had been having in our relationship. We’d been having trouble with intimacy and communication and had struggled to overcome them on our own. Working with Nico has been instrumental in strengthening our relationship. The initial assessment helped us to see our strengths and weaknesses as a couple and allowed Nico to tailor a program to suit our needs. My boyfriend and I both work in theatre and have very sporadic schedules, but Nico was very accommodating with scheduling which gave us both peace of mind. Both the work we did in our sessions and the exercises Nico set us have taught us better communication strategies and enabled us to understand each other on a deeper level. Since we started working with Nico, we’ve made several breakthroughs and are closer than ever. Nico has given us a firm foundation and the tools to keep growing our relationship and build our future together. More...
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K & T
We had the chance to work with Nico during a very difficult times in our life. Nico was very understanding, flexible, caring and very generous with us when it comes to sharing both his time and knowledge with us.
He has many tools that were helpful for us. There’s no magic here, a change in the relationship dynamics depends on using the tools and applying them, however having this journey with Nico did some magic during the sessions with him as he gave both of us the space to speak and share our thoughts and feelings without hurting the other partner which were a big deal when it comes to expressing needs, anger and emotions that we didn’t know or didn’t had the courage to express freely like this before.
Thank you Nico for a journey that helped us as a couple and individually as well.
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Luca Mantovani
What EVERY professional athlete shares, besides sheer determination and passion, is having a coach next to them.
Life coaches/therapists are so underrated but societies and cultures are waking up to what really matters in this century.
A strong body is NOTHING without a strong mind or even a mind with a plan.
I believe every single soul on earth NEEDS a coach at some stage of their life, for however long.
The darker the places you find yourself in mentally, the more you actually need to find your light.
Nico is “just” that, the light bearer.
In my opinion the best coach you can find out there.
I can confidently say this after having tried countless.
Your life, career, romantic relationship and non, WILL suffer WHEN your mind is not aligned with your life purpose, it’s a fact.
Do yourself a favor, help yourself first if you want to help others.
It’s when you realize and accept that you need support (congrats if achieved this insight), that you are allowing yourself to embark the self-mastery journey.
Get in touch with Nico now, he the support you need to find your way through.
It’s hard at first but I promise you WILL become the best version of yourself. You got this.
Enjoy your self-mastery journey.
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Robert Telbis
Hello everyone, let me tell you and give you an idea about me and my experience with Nico and his therapy program. Before I got in touch with Nico, I had a trauma related issue in my relationship I had just ended, being engaged and with the wedding postponed due to the pandemic, I finally ended up breaking up with my fiancée. I felt that lower than that it is not possible, I was at my lowest low especially since I was without a job. By the time I signed up for his program, I already had a few therapy sessions with other therapists but I felt that it didn't help me to get afloat and start growing. Out of curiosity I said it was worth trying to get in touch with Nico and have a discussion if it could help me regain my confidence. After the first session I received from him an entire program that he proposed to me in the emotional reset and discovery area, I had mixed emotions about what brave plans he has but at the same time I felt that he understood me. I can tell you that after 6 sessions I not only extinguished the level of confidence promised by him but I also exceeded it and beyond the established plan I managed to broaden my horizon a lot on life and how strong I can be. Beyond the plan, I managed to get rid of some addictions in just 6 sessions. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the support I received, I didn't think it could be that simple. More...
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Robert Telbis
Hello everyone, let me tell you and give you an idea about me and my experience with Nico and his therapy program. Before I got in touch with Nico, I had a trauma related issue in my relationship I had just ended, being engaged and with the wedding postponed due to the pandemic, I finally ended up breaking up with my fiancée. I felt that lower than that it is not possible, I was at my lowest low especially since I was without a job. By the time I signed up for his program, I already had a few therapy sessions with other therapists but I felt that it didn't help me to get afloat and start growing. Out of curiosity I said it was worth trying to get in touch with Nico and have a discussion if it could help me regain my confidence. After the first session I received from him an entire program that he proposed to me in the emotional reset and discovery area, I had mixed emotions about what brave plans he has but at the same time I felt that he understood me. I can tell you that after 6 sessions I not only extinguished the level of confidence promised by him but I also exceeded it and beyond the established plan I managed to broaden my horizon a lot on life and how strong I can be. Beyond the plan, I managed to get rid of some addictions in just 6 sessions. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the support I received, I didn't think it could be that simple. More...
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Calum Hoey
I was very sceptical before my first session but Nico has all the tools to help you open up and be a better person , and I would recommend Nico to help you if you are having relationship problems. ❤️
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Calum Hoey
I was very sceptical before my first session but Nico has all the tools to help you open up and be a better person , and I would recommend Nico to help you if you are having relationship problems. ❤️
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Tracey Tyrie
My experience with juliette has been amazing she has picked me when ave been down and taught me alot of coping strategies that i never would have thought would work xx and when am stressed or feeling down i can send a tex take a deep breath cause no matter what. ...... it always works out i cant thank her enough and recommend her and nico to anyone and have xx keep up the great work both of you xx and see you again soon xxx More...
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Sarah Cooper-Devine
My 2 year old daughter has juvenile arthritis and currently getting KCR treatment from Julie. Could not ask for better treatment or home support ! Amazing work ❤️
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Shelley Rodgers
such an amazing life coach, amazing human being , well done nico????
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Claudiu Hegedus
Congrats!!!
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Georgiana Claudio
An ambitious person with very good sense. Congratulations and never change!
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David Crossan
Brilliant advice and help from Niko. Thanks once again
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Miki Karabencsov
Wow...amazing person with amazing skills.
The comments are superfluous, this man does miracles !
Congratulations, Nico !
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Jade Mullen
Amazing person and amazing at what you do thank you so much for everything Nico
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Claudia Inoan
Thank you Nico for your patience, support and professionality! The sessions with you helped me find my balance again. I recommend you with all my heart! keep up the good work!
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David Crossan
Brilliant advice and help from Niko. Thanks once again
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Jade Mullen
Amazing person and amazing at what you do thank you so much for everything Nico ????
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Claudia Inoan
Thank you Nico for your patience, support and professionality! The sessions with you helped me find my balance again. I recommend you with all my heart! keep up the good work!
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Miki Karabencsov
Wow...amazing person with amazing skills. The comments are superfluous, this man does miracles ! Congratulations, Nico !
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Claudiu Hegedus
Congrats!!!
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Georgiana Claudio
An ambitious person with very good sense. Congratulations and never change!
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What do you love most about your job?
I love reading my client's reviews :) On a serious note, I love empowering my clients to make good decisions in one of the most important areas of their lives which is their relationship or marriage.
I love to see the transformations that happen in most cases when the couples start to put the puzzles together. I love feeling like I had a part in the making of a relationship that will sustain my clients for the rest of their lives.
What inspired you to start your own business?
I was inspired by the Oasis of Hope - Gerson Clinic Mexico which is a world leader in alternative cancer treatments with close to 50 years of experience, 20 years more experience than Cancer Treatment Center of America. Those people from this clinic save lives and produce miracles in people's lives where things seem to be impossible. Here at Oasis of Love, we want to be the miracle angels for people who come to a point where they feel hopeless and helpless in their relationship or marriage and don't know where to go. Oasis of Love is open to you!
Why should our clients choose you?
I use The Gottman Method & Strategic Intervention which are both scientifically proven in the real world with real results and transformation combined with the pre-assessment of your relationship. For couples or individuals who are needing to deal with more serious issues (like trauma, or grief, or for forgiveness and let go of the past etc) to an individual level, I do use the latest NLP & Clinical Hypnotherapy techniques in order for me to help the person to heal the past, live in the present and ultimately build a compelling future.
Can you provide your services online or remotely? If so, please add details.
Can work in person, on the phone or online sessions. There is some flexibility and this needs to be pre-agreed in advance as the schedule permits.
What changes have you made to keep your customers safe from Covid-19?
We mostly operated on the online space during covid, however, when there was necessary depending on the couple's situation we worked in hybrid sessions.
We have also carried out a body temperature check. We have cleaning, handwashing and hygiene procedures in line with guidance.
We have taken all reasonable steps to maintain a 2m distance in our offices.
Where people cannot keep 2m apart we have ensured at least a 1m distance and taken all the mitigating actions possible to manage transmission risk.
RELATIONSHIP COACHING & THERAPY
We know what it's like to be successful in many areas of life yet still struggle in your relationship or marriage! We know what it's like to feel alone in a relationship, we recognise betrayal, self-sabotage, toxic and abusive relationships and even painful divorce.
We are committed to helping courageous men and women STOP playing out the NEGATIVE repeating relationship patterns and create the MOST Intimate, Loving and Powerful Relationships because human relationships are crucial to our health and happiness and often affect all areas of our life when they are not in alignment with what we want, and can even impact our mental health and wellbeing.
Together, we will use a combination of scientifically proven tools from The Gottman Method, Strategic Intervention, Coaching, NLP, Hypnotherapy and approaches that are right for you… along with all of our own experience, to help you create the relationship life you truly want. You can work either individually, or as a couple with either Nico, our relationship coaching is tailored to your needs. Our programmes are designed with you in mind and are proactive with a solution-focused approach and they are for couples who are fed up with repeating the same old relationship patterns that end in pain and frustration, who feel misunderstood or unseen, and who want to break the cycle to feel empowered and supported.
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Common problems include: Frequent Arguing; Betrayal of some sort - Emotional or Physical; Living separate lives with different goals; Lack of good communication; Worried you’re drifting apart; Lack emotional and/or physical intimacy or passion; Blending families;
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No amount of success outside of the home can make up for a lack of love, connection, support, and real growth in the home.
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This is not about creating a perfect life or a perfect relationship where there is never any conflict; because that's not realistic. Our Relationship Coaching & Therapy Programmes are all about starting with how you want to feel, good, satisfied, excited, empowered, free, safe, comfortable, loved, passionate, capable, loved…. And then practice together, so that you can dream bigger, love bigger and create happy, healthy relationships that are in alignment with each other and the vision for your life. This is about learning to love and be loved. To communicate and weather the storms as they come up in life, together.
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Don't wait to have the happiness and love that you deserve- find a way out of the struggle and into a stronger more fulfilling life... NOW.
Are you ready to transform your relationship and marriage in the one you have always wanted? If the answer is 'YES' we would love to hear from you.
HABIT TRANSFORMATION
Are you overwhelmed with habits that are not good for your health and wellbeing and just don’t serve you anymore? Have you made previous attempts at changing your habit and failed? Have you finally had enough and want to create lasting change?
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What would it be like if you were not held back by the …. From emotional eating, to smoking, nail biting, binge drinking and much more.
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Breaking habits on your own can be daunting and in some cases, seem impossible because for some, change can be hard! But help is much closer than you think, with expert guidance and support - you CAN achieve the change you desire! To stay accountable and learn new habits.
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In this 6 step programme, together we’ll cover EVERYTHING you need to know and to do, one step at a time! To identify good and bad habits, identify causes, work through the problems and blockages that are holding you back and learn how to BREAK the patterns that are holding you back and form great new, healthier habits.
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BREAK the habits and self sabotaging behaviours that are holding you back from the life you desire.
BREAKTHROUGH CALL & CONSULTATION
This call will give you the clarity you need in your relationship.
We start with a short consultation call just to get to know each other and see if we are a good fit. The Next Step is where I will set up your Prepare-Enrich Assessment for you and your partner to do it whenever suits you from the comfort of your own home.
The relationship assessment has to be completed before our breakthrough call.
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Often it feels like you’ve tried everything or that it’s just hopeless, but getting unstuck with CLARITY is actually pretty easy- when you know how. You just need a little help to cut through the chaos was created in your marriage, gain a fresh perspective and get unstuck!
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We know that realistically one session won’t change everything forever, but it will definitely be enough to get you unstuck, on the right track, knowing that things can be sorted out and the Breakthrough Call is the way to go in the right direction.
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Book your consultation today and get a clear, actionable focused plan to turn to your marriage or relationship around.
Are you ready? We are ready for you, when you are.
