Chiswick
I offer Relationship Coaching to those suffering from a marriage or relationship breakdown. The course is called Conscious Uncoupling, created by Katherine Woodward Thomas. The course is designed to transform 'Breakdown' into 'Breakthrough', ensuring you lead a Happy EVEN After life.
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14 customer reviews
mary packham
Counselling
I found Peter by chance on Bark when I realised my relationship
with my son had broken as I thought beyond repair.
I had engaged other counsellors in the part few years and they were just a listening service.
Peters approach was unique to me.
He was not full of sympathy but made me look at myself and what part I was playing in the relation and its breakdown.
I learnt a lot about myself and my reactive behaviour .
I was forced to have a long hard look at myself.
Over several weeks he told me if I wanted the relationship
to change I needed to change.
My son and I are now talking, we have some way to go but I now have the tools to deal with it.
Thank you Peter.
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Jemma Ashton
Counselling
Absolutely life changing!
I've been working with Peter over the past 3 months doing the 'Conscious Uncoupling" course and it's totally awakened me!
The journey has taught me so much about myself, and has enabled me to overcome and heal from false beliefs that I had about myself.
Peter was amazing to work with and made me feel completely comfortable and at ease, showing care, understanding, support and encouragement throughout.
The Conscience Uncoupling course has been truly transforming for me and I would highly recommend it with Peter.
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Michelle wirdnam
Counselling
Very professional friendly guy very impressed with my choice
David
Peter has taken me from some very dark places. I spoke to another guy claiming to be a pay of bark , whom put the phone down on me. Peter took the time and helped me move forward. I couldn’t speak highly enough about him More...
Carl Komuro
Counselling
I have been working with Peter since the beginning of September and he picked me up at the worst time in my life. It has been a deep emotional pleasure to go through so many different things with Peter. He has helped me immensely, helped me find who I truly am and not the false belief story I’ve been telling myself for decades. His awareness of each and every moment has been and still is nothing short of inspiring. I feel like he’s always there for help and assistance and I look forward to working with him more. For those of you who have a heart felt desire to go through this journey and wonder what life could be like with your eyes and heart open. Peter won’t let you down. More...
Stephen John Woolston
Counselling
I didn't think much to this gentleman I organized some sessions and he didn't turn up at the agreed time and then when I spoke to him on the phone he made a feeble excuse, I said I didn't trust him then his number was uncontactable he still owes me £80 for a failed session, I am certainly not giving my bank details to this gentleman, will have to recover through the bank.
Reply from Peter Gatley Coaching
I've been late for a session once, with Stephen. There was a reason this happened. I apologised, explained and offered to reschedule or refund him. I received no reply to either my texts or emails. A few days later went to my bank to refund Stephen anyway, found that I couldn't because my bank didn't have his details. Again, sent a text and an email explaining this to Stephen. Disappointed that Stephen thought my reason was flimsy and perplexed why he says my number was uncontactable, it hasn't been. Also, I received no communication saying that he didn't trust me. Although I do accept that people should naturally be cautious about giving bank details to people they haven't met, as was the case here. Hopefully his bank will sort this out to his satisfaction, there certainly won't be a problem with mine. I cannot do more than I have to resolve this and disappointed my efforts to do so has resulted in my only negative review.
katinka newman
Peter was a delight to work with and I learnt many lessons that went beyond the realms of romantic relationships. He helped me get to the heart of how I’ve let my childhood experiences colour how I’ve been relating to the world. I’ve made a number of changes as a result of the 7 - week course, have found new levels of happiness and have started to fall in love with my life as it is right now. I would highly recommend this to anyone who is serious about making a commitment to a more loving, vibrant and fulfilled life with or without a partner. More...
Jane Louise
Counselling
I say this wholeheartedly, Peter is such an amazing human being!. 'My' journey into the next phase of life was 'our' journey together. . Peter always approached our sessions from a non judgemental view point and showed understanding and compassion throughout.. Peter has the gift of knowing what questions to ask and when it's appropriate to 'dig' a little deeper.. He also knows how to pull you back from a 'tangent' and bring you back (very respectfully) to the issues at hand.. Peter has helped me immensely over our time working together and I can safely say that I've embraced every moment, and in doing so I've become the best version of 'me'.. Thank-you Peter, thank-you.... More...
Temiloluwa
Counselling
When realized I was in a very difficult period in my life and seeked help and support . Peter reached out to me and was very understanding of my current situation and suggested the right program that would remove me from that phase of my life. There was major transformation during the few weeks we worked together and I definitely have all the necessary tools and resources to continue on this new found path and also be a better person. More...
Nana Agyekum
Counselling
From the first conversation I knew straight away Peter was the man for me. The sessions didn’t just help me why I acted in a certain way but Peter gave me tangible methods to work on temper and aggression. My family, work colleagues and friends have notice a massive change in behavior but more importantly I feel a differences. I would 1000% recommend to work with Peter. He accommodates my work schedule, understand I feel and genuinely cares about your well being. I could literally go on but honestly Peter you have made a massive difference in my life and I will be recommending you to all my friends and colleagues. God bless you!!! More...
Eric
Life Coaching
Peter has helped me a lot. He has a great understanding of relationships and how to create lasting and healthy ones. He is very empathic and comes from a very genuine and warm heart. You feel he really cares about you and he clearly puts a lot of his now energy and time into helping his clients...this was certainly the case with me. I think its that genuine caring and real attention that is a large part of why he's so helpful. He certainly not a person who just 'goes through the motions'. I did the Katherine Woodward 'Calling in the One' coaching with Peter and found the weeks sometimes quite challenging but in a good way. Made me stop and think...Peter I must say is gently tenacious in ensuring that you really do address issues and blocks that may be stopping you living life to the full. He gives you tools that are easy to understand and use to help you move forward. An excellent coaching experience that's helped me a lot. A very genuine man indeed. More...
Patricia
I really enjoyed my coaching sessions with Peter. He was always relaxed, attentive, supportive & thoughtful.
As we worked through the well-structured programme (CITO), Peter helped me gain some personal insights that I hadn’t previously realised & that made a lot of sense.
He also guided me into some deep emotional healing that I am very grateful for.
Gaining clarification of my Intention for love & what I am searching for was very helpful. I also gained a lot of helpful tools and skills that I can apply into all relationships.
I felt very positive throughout & as if I am on track for meeting the man of my dreams very soon! Thank you, Peter!
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Rita Struth
I am so grateful for the work Peter has done with me. Under his clear guidance I found and let go of many unconscious beliefs about relationships, love and men. Peter brought me in contact with my deepest desires and needs. I am now much nearer to my wishes and dreams than I have ever been in my life. I would never have been able to go this path alone. Many thanks to you, Peter, for your warmhearted and wise words. Rita. More...
Kate
Life Coaching
Doing the work with Peter has positively changed the way I experience relationships and the world. I now feel confident to make the right small and large decisions. ....things finally seem to be working out! Peter's guidance and coaching has shown me how to modify my interactions and my life for the better. If you value your life and want to get the most out of it, I can't recommend Peter highly enough! Thank you so much Peter! More...
What do you love most about your job?
I love the many 'Aha' moments with a client, the moment they can see and feel the penny drop.
Also seeing them leave completely transformed from the person they were when they arrived.
What inspired you to start your own business?
A lot of experience of not doing things the best way, led me to an enquiry of why I was doing that. A lot of studying and a number of courses (some useful, some excellent) gave me the answer. It makes sense to me to save people years of floundering and/or pain and unhappiness with the courses I offer.
Especially when they look very cheap next to the cost of the alternative.
Why should our clients choose you?
Firstly, I'm one of only half a dozen or so certified 'Conscious Uncoupling' coaches in the country, and the only male. Conscious Uncoupling is designed to save lives, in that, in or after the worst period of your life (relationship breakdown / divorce) it hands your life back to you. Not so that you can function, but thrive. I also offer two more courses, 'Calling in "The One" ' which puts you in the right place to attract attractiveness, and a unique course on how to secure a relationship. I'm excited and passionate about all three. Everyone leaves after six, eight or ten sessions transformed.
Can you provide your services online or remotely? If so, please add details.
My sessions are mainly conducted on zoom. In fact (and perhaps unlike therapy) zoom is perfect for coaching. I would have an initial free zoom meet for about 20/30 mins to get a picture of your situation. It's important to me to know I can help you, and answer any questions you might have. That said, if you're in travelling distance of West London I am more than happy to conduct the sessions in person if you prefer.
What changes have you made to keep your customers safe from Covid-19?
As my sessions are mainly conducted on zoom this isn't applicable. For anyone who prefers to meet in person, I will uphold distance guidelines and as I am classed in a 'vulnerable group' I am always fully vaccinated.
Conscious Uncoupling TM
Created by Katherine Woodward Thomas, Conscious Uncoupling is a 5-Step programme designed to ease relationship trauma and then transform 'breakdown' into 'breakthrough' so you can look forward to a Happy-Even-After life. Valuable for anyone suffering from a relationship failure (no matter how long ago) and especially valuable if children are a part of the relationship.
Calling in "The One" TM
Created by Katherine Woodward Thomas, Calling in "The One' is a 7 week course designed to put you in the right place to attract the love of your life. The focus is very much on who you will need to become to have the relationship you dream about. By week 7, you are that person.
Secure Relationship
This is a unique course designed to help couples understand themselves, their partner and deepen their relationship. It will head off the main reasons for relationship failure. Suitable for any couple who aren't in a relationship crisis.