Paul Butler Grief And Life Coach

I reached out to Paul as I lost my dad a few years ago and I had a lot of emotions I needed to let go of from anger to grief. Paul was brilliant and helped my to come to terms with the my loss and to let go of all the built up emotions and feelings I had locked away. He was more than just someone to talk to and was easy to get on with and cared as much about issues I had along with my own life and likes etc. He was easy going and very patient and would highly recommend him. More...

as a 15 year old, a lot of the things i say or do are just described as “oh it’s a phase” or “she’s just a teenager”. however working with paul meant a lot because he really validated my feelings and helps me get through these confusing stages in my life. he’s a great person to talk to and i felt comfortable to be able to talk to him very quickly. i 100% would recommend him as he’s helped me a lot. More...

I reached out to Paul initially, because my whole world seem like it was falling apart, and having encountered mental illness before I knew not to let it get too severe before seeking help!
The first thing Paul said to me was.
“You’re not broken”.
You just need to learn some life skills to help you through challenging times that we all go through, and I will teach you them!!
Those 3 words have rung through my ears on so many occasions and those three words have helped me come to terms with things that are happening around me, my sessions with Paul have been truthfully empowering!!
I think once somebody explains to you, everybody has good and bad days. Everybody loses somebody in their life and everybody has emotional trauma. It kind of brings home that, yeah everybody does! it’s how you’re taught to deal with them that’s made the most impact in life!
There’s not a word in the dictionary that can stand that man up to the level that he deserves!
He’s truly changed my life and my mindset and continues to do so, because he’s only ever at the end of the phone or a text away if I need him!
Not many people in his profession, do that stay with you to the end?
He’s on my phone as Lifesaver, and truthfully he really is! More...

Paul is great to work with! He is very easygoing and patient.

Incredibly patient, wise, knowledgable and kind, Paul really helped rebuild my confidence when I had been knocked below low. I couldn’t recommend a better coach. Thanks for all your help Paul. “Just keep brushing your teeth” More...

I got in touch with Paul when I was going through a particularly tough part of my life where I felt I didn’t have the answers to what was coming my way.

Speaking with Paul was my release and it was an space where I could be completely vulnerable. I could just talk and get everything off my chest then come up with positive strategies and goals to help. His calm demeanour and non-judgmental approach was just what I needed.

In short, if you are thinking about coaching, even just a bit then give Paul a shout. You won’t regret it. More...

Working with Paul was so eye opening. I completed a Grief Recovery course with him over a number of weeks and found it so useful to be able to identify and explore parts of my grief that I had never been able to uncover or put a name to before.

Throughout the course I felt as though a weight was lifting from my chest and felt he was giving me the tools I needed to be able to process my grief and feelings on my own terms.

Paul made me feel very safe in his presence and secure knowing I could be more vulnerable without ever being judged and that I would be supported while doing so.

I would wholeheartedly recommend him to everyone I know and look for ward to working with him in the future. More...

Paul's empathetic and gentle approach will put you at ease straight away. He knows his stuff and the Edu-Therapy programme makes such a difference in your grief.

Paul has coached my daughter with performance anxiety, he has given her the tools to plan, prioritise and adapt. She now focuses on positive outcomes regardless of the task, exam or performing on the Ice. I wound recommend Paul for positive outcome coaching regardless of where you are in your life. More...

I throughly enjoyed working with Paul from the moment I met him I felt comfortable,I worked with Paul on the grief recovery program after losing my husband Paul helped me massively he gave me confidence in my actions he is a great listener & very professional Paul is easy to talk too. I would recommend Paul & I will definitely see him again. More...

Paul has been coaching me regularly for over 6 months. He is professional and calm in his approach and I feel able to discuss various issues in a safe and non judgmental environment. I would strongly recommend him . He is an excellent coach More...

It was a profound journey working with Paul. After 10 years of many losses and feeling deeply stuck, finding it hard to help myself delve into what I had pushed down to cope. Paul allowed space for me to express, understanding and helped with techniques to allow me to learn to process the many emotions I was experiencing. Paul has a compassionate manner, but will also encourage you to look at things from different perspective, with gentle encouragement. My connection with myself and my emotions and by experience of journeying with grief has changed significantly the way I live my life, process my emotions and view the world. If you want to do the work and allow change to happen. I highly recommend you to talk to Paul to see if you want to work together. More...

Paul is simply fantastic.
From the moment we met, I felt safe, listened to, comfortable and secure to be vulnerable. I have had life coaching sessions with him, and also Grief Recovery, both of which helped my mental wellbeing massively.
Paul is extremely adaptable and kind. For me, he always manages to challenge my thinking sensitively, and helps me view things in a different light, allowing me to make some changes for the better in my every day life.
Paul is a saint. Absolutely adore the man and will continue to see him for many years to come. More...