Noble Law

Separating from a partner with any type of personality disorder requires specific legal advice.

You will need to take specific action to protect your family and your assets and you must get legal advice before you make the decision to leave.

After years of psychological abuse and gaslighting, your self-esteem will be very low, you will feel confused and undermined.

High-conflict divorces and parenting cases are common in cases involving "borderline personality disordered" partner ("BPD") or "narcissists". When the case involves the custody of children, many times there are elements of domestic violence, false allegations of domestic violence or sexual abuse, distortion campaigns, and parental alienation. Further, the individual with BPD will often seek out new relationships during the divorce process to ameliorate the pain of anxiety and separation.

This is standard operating procedure for the partner with BPD (particularly) or Narcissistic tendencies .

They will use various manipulating techniques to keep you powerless, including blaming you for everything that is wrong in their life, project onto you their shortcomings (e.g., you lie, you are unfaithful, aren't good enough, don't try hard enough, are not trustworthy), lack the capacity to see his or her imperfections, sincerely believe he or she is always right, suddenly deny what she or he said or did as soon as it becomes apparent that the earlier statement or act will no longer produce the result he or she wants?.

Most lawyers are reactionary and will have no idea how to deal with an opponent with a personality disorder. They can be manipulated by the BPD opponent. BPD's and Narcissists are also charmers, charming even the judge in the litigation putting your average lawyer behind the "8 ball" in court.

Not Noble Law.