Located in Melbourne, Renewed Life has been transforming lives for over a decade. Led by Toby and Sussan, a passionate husband-and-wife duo, we specialise in Counselling and Life Coaching that empowers individuals and couples to overcome challenges and create a brighter future.
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Katrin Werner
Sussan is kind and understanding to peoples situation. Her technique offered the release of deep seeded beliefs our body carries from trauma and childhood situations. It's been a process of letting go and renewing. Thank you Sussan for the beautiful work you do to help people. More...
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Jay Shaw
I did a one on one life coaching package as a bloke trying to get career and personal life sorted. Coach challenged me nicely and supportive, no pressure. I will stick with them.
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ahsan fiverr
I had a rough childhood and carried that trauma for years, but after NSR therapy I can honestly say I feel better, stronger, and more in control of my life. This therapy truly changed my life. Highly recommended. More...
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Dure Kashf
We loved having both a male and female therapist, and their trauma NSR session helped us release old bitterness. Our marriage is stronger today thanks to them.
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Muhammad Sadi
My wife and I visited Sussan and Toby, and we loved their two-therapist approach. The trauma NSR therapy session really helped us release all the bitterness we had towards each other. Thanks to them, our marriage is stronger than ever. Highly recommended! More...
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Dan wandweb co
My wife and I went to see Sussan and Toby at Renewed Life Coaching & Counselling and we couldn’t be happier with our experience. From the moment we met them, we found them both very pleasant and welcoming. Having two therapists available really allowed us to feel more supported and heard throughout the process. The Trauma NSR therapy session was particularly impactful for us it truly made all the difference. After attending, all the bitterness and resentment we had towards each other just faded away. We now have a much stronger marriage, and it’s all thanks to Sussan and Toby’s expertise and genuine care. Highly recommended for couples who want real, lasting change! More...
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Elaine Walker
My partner and I went for couples counselling because communication had completely broken down. our sessions were structured and fair, not one-sided. We learned techniques to manage conflict and rebuild respect. It wasn’t easy, but we’re in a much better place now. The counsellor was professional and really knew how to guide us without pushing. More...
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I. P.
We loved working with Sussan and Toby, they helped us to work through our problems, understand each other and ourselves better. We can already feel the immediate positive effects on our relationship. We would definitely highly recommend working with Sussan and Toby. Thanks for everything. More...
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Kylie Lockwood-Brown
Toby has been able to implement more positive change within the last few months with our family than any other therapist in the last 3 years. He has helped us understand our son, his behaviours and triggers, and put in strategies for us to have a calm family. I am grateful that Toby is determined and didn’t put our family in the too hard basket. We see small incremental changes weekly so it is a relief to know that we CAN make positive change. Toby has taught us so much about behaviours, implemented strategies for heightened moments and also taught us about the importance of love languages. Toby is easy going and takes the time to connect with all the family members in the house, taking a holistic view of the therapy He looks at how can he help not only our son who is on NDIS, but our whole family. I cannot recommend Toby enough and would recommend him with anyone with neuro diverse families. More...
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Tammy Bugeja
Been dealing with toby & Sussan for approx. past 7 months. it's been an uplifting journey together! Such great people and guidance! Highly recommend.
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Sean Chen
Toby was great with my child. Initially we had issues with behaviour and couldn't get my son to engage, Toby gave us heaps of tools and it's had a huge impact not only only on my son but our family. If you have a child ASD I highly recommend reaching out to these guys. More...
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Sarah Wang
Love These Life-Changing Coaching Sessions
This isn't just an ordinary life coaching session—it's a transformative experience.
Toby is passionate about helping others in tangible ways, and he has many years of experience in life coaching. Highly recommended 👍
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Joe amendolia
I never thought I would be where I am today. Growing up with the weight of childhood trauma, I felt lost and with out direction. I was a no where near where I wanted to be in life. Then I found Toby from renewed life coaching. His guidance helped me so much. I learnt to process my past, build resilience and discover more about who I am. Today, I stand as a proud owner of my apartment! Toby's coaching has been instrumental in transforming my life. More...
Jade Pomeroy
Sussans got such a beautiful heart for caring and coaching people, and she is soooo lovely talk to!
Highly recommend her services ! :)
Grace Mitchell
Toby and Sussan Zappia are both such amazing, genuine, kind-hearted people, they have so much wisdom to offer as well as years of life experience and training, and their Renewed Life Coaching program is absolutely priceless, if you’re looking for freedom and healing from trauma or just a great life coach look no further!
Natalia Belcota
Sussan is a great therapist and coach that offers tailored programs to help the individual person. Highly recommended!
Christopher
Toby was great I would highly recommend him to anyone that wants to resolve trauma I did the 5 month program and I'm living such a better life right now. i feel that I am free from trauma and I'm in control of my emotions. More...
Malisa P
Couldn't recommend anyone better for life coaching than these two amazing people!
There heart for people is seen and felt in everything that they do!
I have personally been encouraged and inspired by the both of them in many ways.
They are always there with non judgemental ears and give the best advice!
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Milan Stupar
Toby opens his heart to hear your story and provides compassionate truth based advice that will resonate with those that come to him for guidance and healing. Highly recommend his services.
Shara Walker
Toby and Sussan from Renewed Life Coaching both have a heart of gold and have always put others before themselves.
I have never met a couple so willing to listen, help and encourage others whether it’s someone they already know or a complete stranger.
They have both made the biggest positive impact in my life and I wouldn’t be where I am today without their pure love and inspiration.
I count my blessings everyday and am so grateful to have had the guidance and support that I received from them both.
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Madol niop
Toby’s coaching beyond amazing his down to earth advice are fantastic. I’ve been getting coached by Toby for over 2 years and could not recommend a better coach. Thanks for all you do mate
Andy Barca
I've had the pleasure of being coached by Toby. As a sceptic of this kind of thing, I was initially quite hesitant. However, Toby really has surpassed any hopes and expectations I had. I'm blown away by the attention to detail, care, and guidance he has provided. The frameworks he has put in place for me have been of tremendous help. I couldn't speak more highly of this business. Try it out. You will not be disappointed More...
Jonathan Perez
I highly recommend Life Coaching by Toby. Renewed Life Coaching has changed my life and has helped me deal with confrontation and my inner fears and anxieties. I can do things now which I never thought were possible. Give it a go. You won't regret it. More...
Michael
Toby and Sussan are amazing and both have a heart for people , I’ve personally done coaching with Toby and it’s changed my life. He has an ability to find solutions for broken and damaged parts of someone’s life. Toby walked me through my process of healing step by step I couldn’t recommend him enough More...
What do you love most about your job?
I love being a life coach because it allows me to witness the incredible transformations that my clients experience. There's nothing more fulfilling than seeing someone break free from limiting beliefs, overcome obstacles, and step into their full potential.
Every day, I have the privilege of guiding individuals on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Whether it's helping them clarify their goals, navigate challenges, or unleash their inner strengths, being a life coach allows me to be a catalyst for positive change in their lives.
One of the most rewarding aspects of my job is witnessing the moment when a client has a breakthrough - that moment of clarity when they realize their own power and potential. It's truly inspiring to see them embrace their authenticity, step out of their comfort zone, and create the life they truly desire.
But it's not just about the big breakthroughs. It's also about the small victories, the incremental progress, and the moments of insight that pave the way for lasting change. As a life coach, I get to celebrate these victories alongside my clients and cheer them on every step of the way.
Ultimately, what I love most about being a life coach is the opportunity to make a meaningful difference in people's lives. Whether it's helping them overcome fear, find clarity, or create a life that aligns with their values, I am deeply grateful to play a part in their journey towards freedom, fulfillment, and lasting happiness.
What inspired you to start your own business?
The inspiration to start my own business stemmed from a deeply-rooted desire to create a meaningful impact in people's lives. Throughout my career, I found myself continually drawn to the opportunity to empower others, whether it was through coaching, mentoring, or simply lending a listening ear.
As I immersed myself in this journey of personal and professional growth, I began to realize the limitations of the traditional corporate environment in fully nurturing and supporting individual potential. I yearned for a more authentic, holistic approach to helping others thrive – one that transcended the confines of conventional structures and allowed for genuine connection, creativity, and empowerment.
It was this realization, coupled with my unwavering passion for personal development and transformation, that ignited the spark to start my own business. I wanted to create a space where individuals could feel seen, heard, and supported as they embarked on their own journeys of self-discovery and growth.
Moreover, the idea of building something from the ground up, fueled by my vision and values, filled me with a sense of purpose and excitement like never before. I saw entrepreneurship not just as a means to financial success, but as a vehicle for making a positive difference in the world – one client, one breakthrough, one transformation at a time.
Starting my own business was not without its challenges and uncertainties, but the opportunity to bring my vision to life and truly make a difference in people's lives was worth every obstacle along the way. Today, as I look back on the journey that led me here, I am grateful for the courage to pursue my dreams and the privilege to serve others in a way that aligns with my deepest passions and values.
Why should our clients choose you?
You should choose me because I bring a unique blend of expertise, empathy, and dedication to every coaching relationship. With years of experience in the field and a commitment to ongoing growth and learning, I offer a depth of knowledge and insight that can help you navigate challenges, clarify goals, and unleash your full potential. What sets me apart is my personalized approach, tailored to your individual needs and aspirations. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences, knowing that I am here to support you every step of the way. My focus is always on delivering tangible results and helping you achieve meaningful progress towards your goals. Whether it's building resilience, cultivating balance, or finding fulfillment in all areas of life, I am dedicated to helping you create the life you desire. With strong rapport, genuine empathy, and unwavering support, I am committed to being your ally and accountability partner as you embark on this transformative journey.
Cognitive behavioral Therapy
As a cognitive-behavioral therapist, I assist clients by identifying and challenging unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors. Through collaborative exploration, we work to replace negative thoughts with more balanced and realistic ones. I utilize behavioral techniques such as exposure exercises and skills training to help clients practice new behaviors and coping strategies in real-world situations. Together, we set measurable goals to track progress and make adjustments as needed. Additionally, I provide practical tools and homework assignments to empower clients to manage symptoms effectively and prevent relapse, ultimately fostering lasting change and improved well-being.
Life Coaching
As a life coach, I provide dedicated support to clients in clarifying their goals and aspirations, identifying barriers, and overcoming limiting beliefs. Through personalized guidance and accountability, I empower individuals to develop actionable plans and take meaningful steps towards their desired outcomes. Celebrating successes and milestones along the way, I foster a supportive environment for self-discovery, growth, and resilience. By offering encouragement and perspective, I help clients navigate life transitions and cultivate confidence in their abilities to create positive change in both their personal and professional lives.
Psychotherapy
As a psychotherapist, my role is to offer therapeutic support to individuals facing emotional challenges and mental health issues. I provide a safe and confidential space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Through active listening, empathy, and understanding, I help clients gain insight into the root causes of their difficulties and develop healthier coping strategies. Using evidence-based therapeutic techniques tailored to each client's needs, I facilitate healing and growth. Together, we work towards resolving past traumas, managing symptoms, and improving overall well-being. My goal is to empower clients to build resilience, cultivate self-awareness, and achieve greater emotional balance and fulfilment in their lives.
Addiction Therapy
I specialize in providing support and treatment for individuals struggling with substance abuse or behavioural addictions. I offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space for clients to explore the underlying factors contributing to their addictive behaviours. Through a combination of evidence-based therapies, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), motivational interviewing, and relapse prevention techniques, I help clients understand their triggers, develop coping strategies, and achieve sustainable recovery. By addressing the physical, emotional, and psychological aspects of addiction, I empower clients to break free from the cycle of substance abuse and reclaim control over their lives. My goal is to support clients in achieving long-term sobriety, rebuilding relationships, and cultivating a fulfilling and meaningful life beyond addiction.
Relationship & Marriage Therapy
When my wife and I coach couples we understand that every relationship is unique, and we are committed to helping couples navigate their challenges and strengthen their bonds. Our distinctive method involves initially separating partners for individual sessions according to gender. I (Toby) work with one partner, providing insights and guidance from a male perspective, while my wife ( Sussan) engages with the other, offering empathy and advice from a female viewpoint. This gender-specific coaching allows each partner to explore personal issues and perspectives openly and without reservation.
The process doesn't just stop with individual sessions. My wife and I believe that real progress happens when insights and growth achieved individually are brought back into the relationship. After these separate sessions, couples are reunited in joint therapy sessions where we collaboratively help couples integrate their new understandings and experiences. This comprehensive approach aims to foster communication, mutual understanding, and reconnection, enabling couples to revive and reinforce their relationship.
