14 Kenwyn Terrace, Newtown, Wellington
Often the life our hearts know is possible is the one our mind has a million reasons of why not to start. What if you started today instead of tomorrow?
With clarity, presence and love, I facilitate transformation to empower people to become who they need to be to create the results they want.
6 customer reviews
Patricia McGee
Tristan has held space for me over the years in so many different contexts.
What stands out is his presence and care, his clarity and his spontaneity.
His wisdom often brings an "Aha" to me. I am constantly amazed how he sifts all the important information and transforms it into a thorough, clear response. Tristan is authentic and I enjoy his sense of humour.
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Mary Ann
Tristan showed excellent knowledge and insights in what I wanted to achieve from him in his role as a coach. He worked at my pace and guided me where I wanted to go.
He gently steered me back on track when necessary.
The compassion and empathy Tristan showed me helped with my healing and learning to trust again. I felt he was there for me 100 per cent.
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Renee Alleyne
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Tristan is a wise old soul in a young man's body. In our coaching sessions I found him to be incredibly astute and works with care and precision.
It is unusual to find a coach whose mind and heart are connected. Tristan delivers transformation through the practices and distinctions of Possibility Management. I highly recommend him.
Renee Alleyne MNZAC, BA Psych.
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Julia Neumann
Tristan holds a space full of Clarity, Love and Magic. I find his spaces powerful for me to go deep into my Healing process and come out with notable changes that show up in my life.
Millicent
I can not recommend Tristan's coaching more highly. Tristan provided the space for me to go into myself, discover what was holding me back, all the while he stood like a strongly rooted tree with me, giving me the tools and distinctions when I needed them to make my own shifts. I was able to clear huge space inside my self, which meant I could then focus on the projects that truly light my heart up. If you get the chance to be coached by Tristan - GO! your life will take on a whole other level of aliveness. More...
Kiri
Tristan's enthusiasm and passion seems boundless. He facilitates with joy and clarity, navigating the murky waters of unconscious patterns to bring awareness without shame. I very much enjoy having Tristan on my team and strongly recommend his services as a coach and counsellor on your journey. More...
What do you love most about your job?
The transformation journey! Finding those click moments.
Why should our clients choose you?
I keep things simple, honest, and will go the extra mile with you.
Can you provide your services online or remotely? If so, please add details.
Yes, I work online via video call using Zoom, and can also do house visits in the Wellington area.
Counselling & Coaching
Everyone faces problems, whether they are to do with relationships, children, work, or personal life. Sometimes those problems can just no longer be swept under the rug!
Many people, including myself, look back on pivotal life moments where a seemingly impossible problem was 'faced into', and say "that is where my life really began." Do you know an experience like that in your own life? Or have you been inspired by someone else's story?
These transformations never happen alone, and part of my journey of facing into my own problems is that now I love to work with others through theirs.
What I do, is find the way together with you to use the energy of the problem toward growing and learning new things so that you become more empowered, more present, and come out the other side having more possibilities available to you.
Solving the problem is the side effect!
I work with people who want to:
transform overwhelm, stress, anxiety, depression, anger.
break destructive patterns or addictions.
feel more connected to a sense of purpose and vision.
heal from past trauma.
bring more love into relationships.
support their children through their challenges to become resilient and connected.
be more connected to and empowered by their feelings.
find their own answers to their important life questions.
navigate life transitions with clarity and integrity.
With all the tools I have learned along the way, I look forward to working with you and transforming problems into possibilities!
Coaching for Parents and Steppies
Since 5 years I am a steppy (step-father) to two teenagers, though my kids call me Dad. I consider fatherhood and motherhood to be a commitment that has little to do with whether or not the child is related by birth, I have met many birth parents and many steppies who really struggle with their commitment.
To commit to be a father or mother of a teenager can be like jumping onto a wild stallion and holding on for dear life. The extent to which you can hold on and ride the adventure has a huge impact on what kind of adult your teen becomes. Do you jump off and let them run wild? Do you hold on tight and try to tame them? Or will you find the way to stay with them through the ride so they come out the other side as spirited, powerful, connected and resilient adults?
I have been on the intense ride of supporting one of my teens through anorexia nervosa, anxiety and depression, and coming out of the most challenging part we have never been closer. One of the things that has helped me most has been having a coach by my side who I could share with, cry with, express my frustrations with, explore my questions with, and find next steps, ideas and possibilities with.
I think your work as mother or father is hugely important in the world. If you could use some support, I would like to be by your side.
Cost: $100 per hour NZD / EURO / USD / AUD
Reach out for a 20-minute consultation below to see if we are a good fit.