Alby James -Holistic Life and Relationship Coach

It’s great to be able to have someone to bring my challenges to and to really reflect and be challenged along the way. Working with Alby is literally hands on, actively processing emotions, digging in to our emotional back pack and finding practical steps forward. It’s helped me improve my relationship and given me tools to grow. More...

Working with Alby has been a wonderful experience. He is warm, approachable, and easy to talk to. Our sessions have made a significant positive impact on my relationship with my partner, and the practical tools he provides are valuable in everyday life. Alby's caring nature and professionalism make him an outstanding coach to work with. More...

I have been, and am still currently working with Alby through many of the hurdles I'm encountering in my life.
I have found his holistic approach in coaching to be very helpful in recognizing a few certain troublesome areas in my life, some of these areas to name a few are: Negative thought patterns, deeply rooted false belief systems, and people pleasing tendencies, and have found that his methods of grounding are helping me to set more realistic goals, and set healthy boundaries for myself in my steps towards finding new ground on my journey into new career opportunities. Our work together has also helped me to start establishing better communication to build healthy like minded connections in all walks of relationships.

I Highly recommend Alby as a life coach to anyone wanting to work on themselves, or their relationships in any way shape or form.
His down to earth attitude was an epic addition to helping me feel relaxed during our work together.

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I met Alby a few months ago after having some issues with my relationship. He has helped me deal with some of the toughest times in my life and given me the tools I needed to pick myself back up. Also working on bettering myself with communication skills. I look forward to my sessions with Alby and enjoy the laughs and banter we have More...

Alby has been amazing to work with. I have learnt so much about setting boundaries with people and how to communicate better with others. It is such a safe space to share and Alby made me feel comfortable every step of the process. More...

Working with Alby was truly the best thing my partner and I could have done. Our relationship gained back trust and we are back to a healthy relationship. Alby provided us with advice for the relationship but also advice for things we personally could work on which then improved the relationship and communication significantly. Thank you Alby! :) More...

I cannot recommend Alby James highly enough for anyone seeking meaningful growth in their personal and professional life. His holistic approach to coaching has impacted me across multiple areas—leadership, business, and personal development .

Through Alby’s guidance, I’ve gained invaluable insights into leadership and business mentoring, helping me refine my decision-making skills and navigate challenges with confidence. His ability to help reframe obstacles has been a game-changer, allowing me to shift my mindset and approach situations with clarity and resilience.

On a personal level, Alby’s support in stress management and self-awareness has been transformative. He has helped me recognise thought patterns, emotional triggers, and self-limiting beliefs, giving me the tools to manage stress and cultivate a more balanced mindset.

Perhaps most importantly, his work in relationships—both personal and professional—has been instrumental in fostering deeper connections and effective communication. His coaching has enhanced my ability to build meaningful relationships and create stronger bonds.

Alby’s unique combination of wisdom, empathy, and practical strategies makes him an exceptional coach. If you’re looking for a pragmatic coach who truly understands the realities of growth and transformation, I wholeheartedly recommend Alby. More...

Thanks for ur help everry sesion we had has been verry good thanks bro

Alby has helped my partner and I immensely. From his charismatic personality and relatable and approachable methods, we have both felt very much at ease communicating with Alby.

He has been a vital part in strengthing our relationship and utilising skills that we can use long term to better enhance our future as full time parents and a full time working household.

We would highly recommend Alby to everyone. More...

Working with Coach Alby has been an amazing experience. The counciling I've received from Alby is something that I now use in my everyday life, prior to counciling there were things in my life I never thought I could accept and get past. I have now overcome those things I thought I never could and without Coach Alby I wouldn't have. 10/10 would recommend him to anyone. More...

I found Alby to be really down to earth which made me feel comfortable and more at ease to discuss the not so comfortable subjects . The communication skills and coping techniques he taught us are the reason we have saved our marriage after I really thought the only option is divorce after heartbreaking admissions came out.I had one foot out the door so to speak but thanks to Alby we have actually rediscovered our 'honeymoon' feelings and how to keep that alive. Something I thought we'd never have again.Learning about communication skills and triggers and how to deal with them has been an eye opener and changed my life and allowing me to live life and enjoy it again.Thankyou Alby for teaching me how to love my life again and live the life I love More...

I've worked with Alby over the last four years here and there...
Alby has a world of knowledge and is very relatable...
We get down to the work that needs to be done to help move through what needs to move forward in life...
If your looking the let go of those things that are holding you back from emotional freedom..I would highly recommend him. More...

Working with Alby helped me to open up more on how to communicate how I feel. I looked forward to each session I had with Alby and he gave me the tools to better combat stress and everyday issues.

Since my sessions with Alby, even though ive only had a few, he has help me amazingly. Giving me great advice and ways of dealing with my problems. He is always very supportive and informative and i can always have a good laugh and chat with him. I would highly recommend Alby to anyone out there who is looking for help and support. More...

Alby has helped me out a lot by cracking the hard shell on the outside and opening me up really digging deep to help me be the person I really want to be toward my whanau and friends he’s givin me reasons to not go threw that exit door and showed me how love feels and how to share love around also he just a all round good bloke and I’ve enjoyed every minute I’ve been with him

After 2 sessions with Alby I can already see and feel a positive difference. Ability to communicate clearly and set boundaries are areas that have improved massively for me, and I can see these skills spilling over into every relationship going forward weather it be family, my children, friends, coworkers and future partner. Alby has been safe, non judgemental and down to earth which was important to me when looking for someone to work with.
Thanks so much Alby - I appreciate you!! More...

Alby has an ethos on life that embodies compassion, love and respect. Working with him I found these qualities were integrated into each session and as a result created a safe and sensitive space for me to share and unwind the stress, tension and anxiety that was present for me. I highly recommend Alby as a facilitator of transportation. More...

Working with Alby for me was like I could relate to someone who grew up the way I did. The mental power I have now is 100 times greater than any physical power I thought I had.
I highly recommend as Alby can help you learn too, the things our parents don't always teach us in how to see and deal with situations and some of the toughest things life can throw at you. That's why i give Alby 5 stars, because for me, he helped me so much.
Cheers Alby👍🏻 More...

Alby has helped me unpack issues from my past and present both personally and professionally. Alby is easy to talk to, down to earth, and is none non-judgmental. I highly recommend him to get yourself back on track, look to a positive future, and enhance your relationships. Thanks, Alby More...

Alby is amazing to work with, I enjoy my sessions unpacking whatever may come up emotionally. Alby has the calmest nature and is such an approachable guy who has created such a safe space for you to talk about anything and everything.

Your best investment in life is yourself and seeing Alby is a non negotiable to help you be the best version of you! More...

Alby is worth his weight in gold!! A fantastic investment everybody should consider making in their lives, to help navigate through life, and any relationship. His non-judgemental manner, excellent communication skills and techniques to assist in the “unpacking” of your emotional backpack. Alby has a holistic approach, and a personality that is perceptive, intuitive and healing! Best $$ spent, on making our relationship a priority, and better than ever!! Thanks Alby!! More...

Working with Alby has taught me what true emotional freedom can feel like. I came to Alby to seek insight on my reactivity, my trauma, and communication skills and I leave with an incredible sense of lightness and peace. Alby hands over a tool pack of valuable skills that can be easily implemented in your day to day life to help you overcome the challenges you may be facing. More...

Alby’s got you. Like good tradesman, good advice does not come for free. The guidance and direction that I have received through working with Alby has enabled me to reframe my outlook and redirect my energy to achieve the positive outcomes I have been searching for. I can honestly say that every part of my life is improving through this process. He has a good grasp on the everyday struggles faced in modern times, and has the analogy’s and tools to empower me with better understanding and results. 🙌 More...

Alby has a calmness about him which puts you are ease, no judgement and down to earth. He has a way of unlocking those blocks you have put up (unknowingly) throughout your life and are holding you back from being your true self or being your true self again. I highly recommend Alby.

Five weeks ago I was ready to walk away from my relationship of 18 years with my husband. We have both been working with Alby and I am so happy to say we have turned a corner and it is magical. Alby been instrumental in helping us to open up our lines of communication, giving us the tools to express our feelings to each other without judgement. Alby has helped me release years of built up resentment, anger and frustration towards my husband. I’m excited for what our future holds now. I highly recommend working with Alby. More...

I wanted to shift past trauma i felt had been held in my body a long time and causing a whole lot of health issues for me.
Alby made that happen after just a few sessions! I feel lighter and happier I really like using tapping and feel l like it's helped so much already. Can't wait to go back! More...

It’s been good to get a different take on my relationship and learning new skills to help move forward in a positive direction

Very easy to work with and I feel better equipped to understand my emotions going forward

Alby has been an absolute pleasure to work with. Gained a real confidence to express myself right from the get go and to help with issues in gaining some positive personal. Highly recommended

When I first started with Alby I likened him to a chameleon because of how he would almost instantly adapt and provide the info I needed to deal with my varying challenges. Then I thought no he’s more like a wizard who would conjure up the potions I needed to heal me from the inside out and help me escape my darkest moments with renewed courage and strength. Whatever way you look at him, Alby is a genuine bloke with huge heart and passion for his trade.
However, it wasn’t until recently when my daughter confided in me troubling moments from her past, that I finally realised the true worth of everything that Alby had passed on to me.
I was able help her confront her fears and let her steer herself towards her true potential.
For me, this is what it’s all about! Thanks Alby for being you. More...

Very helpful. Helped me heal my childhood traumas and build my relationship with my spouse. The techniques he suggested really helped me to work through my problems.

Myself and my partner have had the privilege of working with Alby, originally to help with relationship communication, but as we have now learnt this has been the start of a journey that has changed, not only us but also our relationship with our children. He is very easy to get along with, you quickly feel comfortable talking and every session you walk away with some new insight into life you can use. If you have tried and failed with other councilors in the past, as i had, book an appointment. This is alot deeper than just talking! Alby is also very talented at repairing stubborn body sore spots and repairing postural faults you didn't know you had :) More...

Alby has helped to fundamentally change my way of dealing with everyday life. He has a presence and space that is not only free from all judgement, but has an incredible understanding about him, which made it very easy to open up to. With the tools Alby has taught me, I can identify situations or triggers that make me feel the way I do, and how to counteract them or move through them. Highly recommend Alby, and only wish I went to see him sooner. More...

Alby came into my life at a very low point in my personal life and he has helped me over the last 6 months to unpack and process some of my personal struggles. My weekly sessions are great! I enjoy working through my issues with Alby, I tend to feel a sense of calm and direction afterwards. Alby’s energy and down-to-earth approach is something I gravitate and is a great fit for me. More...

Whow what can we say 6 months ago after 25 years together we thought we were done and out ready to sell up family house and business and go our separate ways. We then got in touch with Alby for relationship help and it's the best thing we have ever done we are now newly engaged 💍 finally after 25 years 🥰 just got back from an epic family holiday and both in the best space we have ever been together and individually and it's all down to the tools and guidance of Ably we see and do things much easier. We 100% recomend getting in touch with Alby. More...

Alby is an honest, respectful and reliant holistic life and relationship coach. Both myself and my partner have found him down to earth and knowledgable in his mahi. Alby has given us the tools we needed to have a much better approach to our communication. I would recommend Alby to anyone who is looking work on themselves.

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Alby has helped me understand and how to spot and deal with triggers that i have struggled with for years. Life is definitely on the up and putting into practice what he has taught me has been massive to me see things in a different prospective and i will continue to use and grow those skills forever.

Alby has a really amazing way to break things down but also link things together.
Has helped both me and my wife seperatly which has helped our marriage aswell.
Highly recommend him

Working with Alby has been transformative for me and my marriage. He's knows how to get to the crux of the issue and uncover what's behind it without judgment. I admire his ability to really listen, have patience, and dig deep, and I'm extremely grateful for his support. More...

Alby has an incredibly unique and powerful set of skills.
He has provided me with a safe space to reveal myself without any judgment. I feel he truly understands me and what im going through.
I really appreciate the honestly/realness and non judgmental way he conducts himself in our sessions. More...

I have absolutely loved working with Alby ever since our first session. I have been to many counsellors/therapists before and never felt truly like they gave me the right tools that I needed to process my emotions. However, since working with Alby I know that the tools he has given me I will be able to take with me and use throughout my life as they actually WORK! I always feel so peaceful, relaxed and lighter after our sessions. After struggling for so long it was such a relief to find someone who was passionate about helping me. More...

Alby is amazing to work with! The second I stepped into his studio he made me feel comfortable and be able to talk to him about anything. I’ve only had 2 sessions with him so far and feel like I’ve learnt so much about how to deal with the issues I’ve been facing in my life. I would highly recommend Alby to anybody! 10/10 thanks so much mate! More...

Words can not describe how much Alby has helped me. I would 100% recommend him his approach is like no other honest and so amazingly helpful I feel like a totally different person like the old me I lost. Thanks Alby 🙏🙏🤗🙂

I felt comfortable with Alby straight away, he is gentle, kind and real . His work and how he got me to see myself happened quickly and it's been insightful and helpful . He has given me practical tools to understand myself,my reactions, and how to move through them. That's after 2 sessions and I'm looking forward to more. More...

Alby is a very open, refreshing and knowledgeable person to talk to. Always listens and never judges. Gives helpful life tools and pushes you to live out the life you want and keeps you motivated