PairShaped Couple Coaching

Simply amazing. Highly recommended

The Coaching was very helpful in improving my relationship with my partner. We were able to work through the different challenges we had and are now more hopeful about the future of our relationship. I would recommend the 4 session package. More...

My fiancé and I recently attended a couple’s coaching program with Heather and Benton.

Something of a skeptic by nature, I quickly identified the value that these two remarkable individuals offer who are both extremely passionate about supporting others by sharing their own journey.

It was an enlightening course which equips you with tools and aids to improve how you communicate with your partner and to be more aware of listening to your partner.

This is not counselling for couples and will not solve all issues…it provides a framework to tackle matters in a respectful way with your significant other.

It is my personal opinion that every couple that intends to start a meaningful life together should attend this coaching. More...

PairShaped Couple Coaching was an amazing experience ~ My fiancè and I are getting married this year and we are in our late 30s and 40s. We wanted to address any baggage we were bringing into the relationship before we get married.

Benton & Heather are a couple themselves and so they understand the dynamic between the two of you during sessions, and they empathise and share their own stories/weaknesses. It was wonderful having a couple sitting across from us who listened and were impartial, and then could give us the tools, vocabulary and skills to better communicate with
-, and understand each other.

It was not like any therapy session I've been to before, and was definitely coaching! If you want a better golf swing, you go and get a coach ~ if you want a better relationship, you had better go to PairShaped! Wonderful experience, would do it again ~ quantifiable value!! More...

Initially I was apprehensive about couples coaching.

It all seemed a bit too much like we were going to be scolded and told what to do. The notion of being vulnerable as a couple was also scary.

It became comfortable quite quickly as Heather and Benton shared some of their challenges as a couple with us, which made me realise how 'normal' the challenges we were having are. The approach was alot of more about self actualisation (in the couple sense) than I thought.

Being able to experience another couple's objective view on our challenges as a couple was extremely powerful - I saw my partner's point of view from the eye's of a third person, which helped me to appreciate it in a way that I hadn't before.

Heather (bad cop) and Benton (good cop) have a great balance of confrontation as well as compassion, dished out at what seemed like the perfect times.

I have benefited alot from the experience (as has my partner and our relationship as a whole). We have walked away with tools that we effectively created ourselves, which I look forward to continuing to use.

I highly recommend this service. More...