Become a better version of yourself
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My name is Dr Ellie Bezuidenhout.
I am a life coach and Christian counselor that specialize in child, marriage, grief and trauma counseling.
I believe that children are forced to grow up quickly, experiencing enormous amounts of trauma which never gets resolved.
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13 customer reviews
Elsie
I was broken, by grief, hopeless and with no energy to continue living, But Ellie's professional help, combined with faith gave me a hope and faith boost, I am still walking this journey, but with a little more strength and a little more hope and she is doing it with me.
Elsie
It was amazing, the team is amazing
Sthembile
I had a very good session. It was really comfortable to open up. Dr Ellie listens to you when talk and she gives best advises.
Michelle
Dit het baie gehelp om my ouers se punt in te sien en my ma ook ek was nog altyd blind vir die waarheid maar ek sien nou nie waarheid
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Is bly ek kon jou help
Susan van Wyk
I felt so broken, but after today ,I'm a new person. Ellie is walking a path with you ,that no one els will do . Every time we had a session God where with us . Never I felt God in given me a hug like today. Ellie is an amazing person. Thank you. More...
Khanyisile
This experience has given me tools to create a stronger bond with my son. I've learnt how to better communicate with him and help him express his feelings. I'm also more confident in my parenting skills, thanks to this. I'm very happy with the level of service I have received. More...
Thandeka
Couples Counselling
Takes a keen interest in assisting you with tools to regain your emotional strength, also assisted my daughter an was very patient and was excellent at getting my daughter to open up. Provided practical step by step action plan to get the desired result. I wish I could give her 10 stars she’s helped my family so much. More...
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I am so happy I could help and give you guidance to make your life easier and better.
Phimy
Couples Counselling
Very kind and easy to open up to.
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Thank you very much
Yolande Kleynhans
After the counseling
session with Ellie, i feel so much relieved.It feels like all the tension, stress and negativity has left my body.
I feel like i can carry on , before i felt like just sitting and forget about the world. I strongly recommend Ellie.
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Yolande Kleynhans
After the counseling session with Ellie, I feel so much relieved. It feels like all the tension, stress and negativity has left my body.
I feel like i can carry on , before I felt like just sitting and forget about the world. I strongly recommend Ellie.
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That is what I want everybody to feel. To be free from all the hurt and pain trauma causes!
Deney
I am really happy with the marriage counseling that we received. It really helped us alot. Would recommend to anyone.
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I'm glad I could assist you and give you info to help your marriage to be better!
Chane Barnard
Ellie did career coaching with me so that I can make better plans in the future.
I was a little nervous in the beginning but when Ellie started talking to me I immediately started to feel better.
Ellie did a great job with me she calmed me down and then continued with the lesson. She helped me a lot and now I can make better decisions in my future.
I think Ellie will do a great job helping other people and improving their future and also those who have trouble talking to them and telling them exactly they should not be afraid and that she will help them
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I am glad I could help you make better decisions for your future!
Rowena Wayland
I found Ellie to be the perfect counsellor as she was very calm which set me at ease. She listened to everything that I said, asked the relevant questions and gave me enough time to get over the emotional feelings that I was going through. Once we had prayed about those issues I felt totally released and at peace. I have recommended her to a number of my friends. More...
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I'm so happy that I was able to help you deal with your trauma and that you can move on!
What do you love most about your job?
I love to be able to listen to people and to understand their problems. When I understand their problems I can use my knowledge and techniques in counseling and life coaching to assist them to heal and grow to become a better version of themselves.
What inspired you to start your own business?
I always wanted to be a counselor and life coach and spent 7 years studying to attain all the knowledge, skills and techniques needed to be able to help people.
Why should our clients choose you?
I rely on God for help.
I am an instrument in His hands. I cannot do anything on my own, and with everything in my life I need God. With counseling and life coaching I depend 100% on God to give me the wisdom to be able to help people better!
Can you provide your services online or remotely? If so, please add details.
I prefer online (Skype and whatsapp) as I currently do not have an office to work from.
What changes have you made to keep your customers safe from Covid-19?
I work online so I don't physical contact with my customers.
Abuse coaching
I was abused as child, in my work and as a wife.
I am using those experiences to help people who are abused gain the knowledge, understanding they need to recognize the signs of abuse, to stand up for themselves and to fight back or move on.
Child counseling
Deep emotional therapy
Introduction to what Deep Emotional Therapy is
It must be emphasized that Jesus Christ is central in the healing work. He uses us as His instruments, but He still does the healing work, He remains the Healer.
Jesus declared that He is the Healer, therefore it was prophesied 700 years before His birth by one of the most prominent prophets in the Bible.
God moves beyond the dimension of time and space because He created it. God can move between the timelines of past, present and future without problems.
This is why we can go back into a person's life, even before birth, so that healing can take place where the problem arose.
The past cannot be erased, the memories and emotion can be healed.
Prenatal
There are many abnormal behaviors that originate in the prenatal period of a person's life. Negative influences such as parents fighting, etc. while the fetus is in the womb cause a myriad of problems in a child's life. This technique allows us to go back to those events and work with them.
Text analogy
This technique is used to write the person who has caused a problem in a person's life a letter / letters in which he / she will tell the person's emotions and feelings in each situation. He is never going to give the letter to the person because it is not about the other person, but about his own life.
Inner child
The inner child is the deepest collection of emotions and memories that are burned into you in the growing up years of your life. This includes your prenatal period or preterm birth or gestation period. 2 Types of inner child can be distinguished namely the creative child and the hurt to child. We can physically talk to the inner child and determine his / her emotional state by asking questions.
Back to trauma
We go back to where a person experienced trauma and ask the person to relive the trauma. We then ask the person to speak to the people who caused the trauma and forgive them. We then ask Jesus to take the trauma away and heal the person.
Saying good bye to a loved one
In many cases, there are people who have unexpectedly lost loved ones to death. The person mourns because he / she did not have a chance to greet the loved one, or perhaps there is an un-forgiveness attitude about which he / she now regrets.
Abortion/Miscarriage
Abortion is artificial abortion or removal of the living fetus from a pregnant woman before the fetus is able to live independently as a human being. Thus the pregnancy is terminated and the child is killed. Abortion is murder and according to the word of God it is sin to kill someone. This technique is used to help people work through the guilt and trauma of abortion or miscarriage.
Pornography and addition
Pornography is wrong as it takes hold of a person emotionally so that that person cannot function normal anymore. This technique is used to help someone who is addicted to pornography brake free from the cycle of addiction and be set free by God.
Financial coaching
Grief counseling
Leadership coaching
Marriage counseling
Pre marriage counseling
Sober coaching
Support in staying sober
Support in building sustainable and healthy recovery
Support in having fun without drinking
Support in building healthy coping mechanisms
Transitional coaching
Support in graduating from school
Support in changing careers
Support in having kids
Support in having kids move out of the house
Support in going through menopause
Trauma counseling
Spiritual life coaching
Support in setting goals with spiritual wellness in mind
Support in creating plans with spiritual wellness in mind
Support in taking action with spiritual wellness in mind
Post divorce healing
Mindfulness coaching
Life skills coaching
Holistic coaching
General life coaching
Family coaching
Dating coaching
Career coaching
Personal life coaching
Support with anxiety
Support with stress
Support with adversity
Support in dealing with stress in a healthy way
Support in building more effective habits
Relationship coaching
Support in dating
Support in taking a relationship to a next level
Support in communicating better
Support in voicing your personal needs in a relationship
Support in growing as a couple
Spiritual recovery
Wellness coaching
Support in working on your die
Support in exercise
Support in mental health
Business coaching
Christian coaching
Divorce coaching
Financial cricis and advice
Health coaching
Liberation
Marriage restoration
