Kramat Lane, United House, Singapore
Vincent specializes in helping individuals overcome the emotional wounds from childhood, relational and complex trauma, as well as mitigating symptoms of anxiety and depression. He also specializes in relationship coaching, marriage counselling, and affair recovery therapy to help couples navigate their relationship challenges.
Show more
31 customer reviews
Lim
Couples Counselling
Every crisis brings an opportunity for couple to mend and improves the relationship.
My wife and I decided to seek help, and chance upon Vincent.
His approaches are open, probing and encourages openness which help us alot in the healing process.
Today, after few sessions, we see our marriage is on the right track to recovery and most importantly, elevate our relationship with deeper emotional connection.
We are glad to found Vincent and every session with him brings new discoveries and peace mentally.
If you are sincere on recovery and willing to open up, Vincent is definitely someone who can help.
More...
Xin
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
It was one of the best decision we made to engage Vincent’s services. My husband and I went into the session feeling hopeless and on the brink of a separation. Vincent asked very pointed questions while maintaining a safe space and that allowed us to reflect and share our feelings openly. We realised that there are so many misunderstanding and miscommunication and deep down, we still cared for each other. We are happy to say that after 3 sessions, we noticed a difference in the way we communicate and have made efforts to repair the relationship. I’ll recommend Vincent to every couple out there. It is so important to have a neutral third party for guidance when both of you cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you once again Vincent! More...
Reply from VINCENT SOO COACHING
Thank you 🙏
Lydia
Vincent really helped me with my issues overcomed a lot and felt very heard from just one session . Felt taken cared of and safe. he’s been very active always response fast when I need him . Very good listener and making you feel comfortable seems like he’s first priority. Helped me find my way and solutions to my problems through therapy.definitely recommend!! More...
Reply from VINCENT SOO COACHING
Thank you. 🤗
Ym
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
We could form a connection with Vincent right from our first meeting. Other than advising on relationship issues, he also helped us better understand ourselves individually. The sessions were always focused on actual issues which we experienced and Vincent was always sharp enough to ask the right questions and probe deeper. More...
Reply from VINCENT SOO COACHING
Thank you.🤗
Chloe
Couples Counselling
It could be best decision I made was try to seek for help of Vincent, he is good and patient listener also will give us some couple advice. I feel very comfortable and safe when I talk to him. Overall, I will definitely recommend it to those who seeks professional help with their relationship issues More...
Viviana Gonzalez
Couples Counselling
The best decision I made this year was to seek the help of Vincent, he has helped me to be clear about how I want to live and how to achieve my goals efficiently and peacefully.
Thanks to Vincent's help, I am much happier than I have been for the past two years. Thank you very much for his support and for the teachings.
Si necesitas ayuda emocional y psicológica, no dudes en consultar a Vincent, lo recomiendo cien por ciento!
More...
Lionel
Vincent was very helpful in navigating my relationship with my partner and helping us both gain a new perspective as well as setting a common goal for both of us in terms of values and feelings.
Tommy Ng
Couples Counselling
A very heartfelt and worthy sessions together with my partner and Mr Vincent. We got better and understand each other more as well. Learn alot thru 5 Love Languages.
Jasmine
Counselling
Vincent has been a patient & active listener. I felt safe & comfortable talking out my problems with him. He is also very understanding, providing useful tips or guidance to overcome some of the challenges that I faced. Thank you Vincent!
Jocelyn
Mr Vincent understands my issues thoroughly which shows how experienced he is in handling cases of students suffering from family issues, school stress and relationship issues. He also comes up with very good techniques that helps me calm down and garner a positive mindset before I start my day. Furthermore, the place is very conducive and comfortable. I highly recommend coming here even if its just finding someone to talk to. More...
Zara
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy
Vincent is warm, creates a safe space and listens. He will explain if you are unsure and teaches you techniques to overcome your challenges. The techniques were demonstrated and broke down into bite size. I felt so frustrated by my condition but now I saw light and motivated to apply and see progress. Thank you Vincent! More...
Melody
Couples Counselling
Vincent knows how to be professional and casual at the same time. He does not let you feel uncomfortable and listens attentively to what you have to say. I went there for couple counselling with my partner to resolve some issues. The tools + questions he used to process and being about discussion are really helpful. My partner and I discovered new learnings and was able to concretise things together that was useful. He also charges reasonably. I would recommend anyone to give it a try if you are seeking for professional help in your issues. More...
Thiagarajan
Mr Vincent, thank you for helping us rebuild our marriage again. My wife and I feel so much more closer to each other emotionally as well as mentally. These past few months have really been a roller coaster. We were so dysfunctional and unkempt in our relationship. Your pieces of advice and guidance have really helped us work on ourselves and on our marriage. We were so glad that we had you to guide us. I would definitely recommend to Mr Vincent to anyone who has Marriage problem. More...
Parameswary
Couples Counselling
I am glad that I have gotten the opportunity to meet Mr Vincent Soo to mend my marriage. He was very approachable and he let me talk out my problems. Although I mentioned problems after problems in a deck, he taught me a technique to counter attack them. And, I think I'll follow them throughout my life so that I can get rid of my negative emotions and be happy with my spouse again. Will definitely recommend Mr Vincent to any of my friends or relatives who have any relationship issues. Thank you so much, Mr Vincent! More...
Kristine
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
Vincent is very kind person since the 1st session with him i can felt that his very sincere person and listen to all my unhappiness.
I felt relief and happy after the sessions cause i talk it out all the things i want to tell to my husband without the feeling of being judged.
He also messages my husband and myself separately to check it out if we are doing ok, which i find his sincerity to really wanting to resolve our marriages issue.
I Will recommended him to anyone who has marriage issues to get immediate help from him.
More...
Lee SH
Vincent has been very responsive since we have some issues with our marriage.
That level of responsiveness is very important when one met up with a crisis.
I will personally recommend him to anyone who faces marriage crisis as immediate help is one of the key factors for quicker resolution!
More...
Goh Johnson
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
Working with H.O.P.E Alliance Mr Vincent Soo, he was able to guide us to the issue we have face and help us to try and speak up about our emotion, feeling and problems we face.
I would highly recommend him to any of my friends.
More...
KN
Couples Counselling
Vincent is v understanding and been v empathetic to our situation. Provided us with skills/solutions to improve our issues. Highly recommended 👍🏼
Dion Lee
Psychotherapy
It felt safe and comfortable to talk about my problems and i learnt skills to cope with my issues too!
Natalie
Psychotherapy
We were able to come up with a way to manage my problems. The session was effective and understandable.
rene nia rizqa
Therapist
was actually having a problem with talking about things. since i’ve been keeping things to myself, thought it was going to be hard for me, but it was okay. felt better after talking, and feel so good after being helped. i feel like i just lifted a weight off my shoulder. More...
Wen Wen
Couples Counselling
Vincent was kind enough to reach out to my partner and myself and he was extremely giving, kind, and empathetic to our situation. He listened deeply and also interacted with us by asking many questions, doing various activities with us that gave us deeper understanding of our situation. Thank you so much :) More...
HB
Psychotherapy
Vincent was great reaching out to me first, helped out my personal issues and help my marriage get better on the 2nd session.
His patience and communication to solve our issues work wonders.
People who have marriage issues should give a try for HOPE. Dont be shy about coming seeking help by professionals like vincent.
Even provide zoom meetings if your overseas working to manage your feelings and problems.
👍👍👍
More...
Sean
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
Vincent has helped manage my thinking & emotions from the very first session. This had a big impact on how I changed in my communication and empathy to my spouse and it has improved our marriage.
Vincent has vast experience in marriage counselling and has taught me many techniques to overcome these challenges.
I recommend anyone going through a tough time relating to your spouse to get help as soon as possible.
ABC - Awareness Before Change
More...
Ryan Chua
Therapist
I went in for session not expecting much because I was trying to just understand the process better and figure myself out. Vincent helped to tease out the questions that have been swimming in my mind, to verbalise and organise the thoughts a lot better. I appreciated it very much as it helped me to explain better some of those thoughts in my mind. More...
Kim
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
To Vincent. It was a pleasure working with him during the past three sessions. When I first enquired, I didn’t know what to do or what to expect.
Vincent reached out and spoke to us with urgency knowing that it is important to handle what marriage issues we were going through as soon as possible. Throughout the sessions I was able to express myself without being judged. Throughout the three sessions, me and my husband had shared more things than what We had between ourselves since we got married.
After three sessions, we made good progression to try and make this marriage work. It won’t be easy but we want to thank Vincent for opening the path for us.
More...
Lynette Sim
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
Good in listening and Provide reasonable explanation and base methods to our existing issues.
Vonnie Huang
The experience was amazing. Vincent is helpful and patience. I am getting a lot better after seeing Vincent. I'm grateful for everything he did to help in my recovery. Feel free to engage him if there is any queries. More...
Haziq
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy
Hope alliance has been wonderful, at first I was abit frightened with the idea of seeking help, but thanks to Vincent, the session with him has enlightened me and helped me, I do highly recommend hope alliance
Naddy Yddan
Open and welcoming to all, ready to help and find a way and journey with you. Thank you ♡
Reviewed on Facebook
Lionel Ong
Hope alliance first of all gave me HOPE to continue living and be well, I feel way better and like a family around them, thanks for the support
Reviewed on Facebook
What do you love most about your job?
As an Integrative Mental Health Coach, Positive Psychology Coach, Cognitive Behavioral Therapist and Gottman Relationship Coach, I love to help my clients to discover and develop their core strengths, and use their strengths to find their own solutions.
I just celebrated my 24th wedding anniversary in 28 Dec 2020 with my lovely and supportive life partner.
I love to coach couples and guide them on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. It gives me joy to see my couple clients to redesign what they want and rebuild a stronger foundation of their relationships.
What inspired you to start your own business?
Purpose - My purpose is to IGNITE HOPE to individuals that they are not alone in their journey of challenges.
Passion - I am passionate to help individuals to discover, develop and deliver their core strengths to live a purposeful life.
Why should our clients choose you?
Congratulations Vincent, you’ve achieved excellence!
H.O.P.E. ALLIANCE has been named as one of Bark’s top Relationship and Marriage Counsellors in Singapore for 2021.
We’re delighted to award you with the Certificate of Excellence 2021 badge.
When you asked to see me as your coach or psychotherapist, I will arrange a complimentary consultation session via zoom first. I want you to know something about who I am, what we would do together in the sessions, and how we would do it. I want to make sure that there is a good fit between what you are looking for and what I have to offer - before you come to my office and paid me a fee.
Most of all, I would want you to start to feel that your time of helplessness and hopelessness was over, and that I could help you to move, step by step, out of your struggles and challenges.
How To Overcome ANXIETY & FEAR with No Medication in Less Than 15 mins?
Testimonials from my clients:
1) Mr M. - a client who was struggling with anxiety:
"Today’s session helped feel calmer and take over my anxiety. From today’s 1st exercise, I was able to feel from a level of 5 and manage it to a level of 2 by .... From the level of 2 ... until it disappeared. This helped me think that I can control my anxiety and make it a positive feeling. Thank you very much for the session today."
2) Mr H. - a client who was struggling with intense fear:
"I feel very light after the session actually. Even smoking didnt effect any relieve. Didn't need it like used to do usual after a session. As I felt better. Felt more free. Speaking and acting more normal and happily. But I do feel abit exhausted after reaching home. Felt abit like sitting a roller coaster. Very ups and down (relieve), after the ride is over, felt refresh."
3) Mr T. - a client who was struggling with anxiety and sadness after a relationship breakup:
"The therapy have helped me greatly with releasing those feelings. Today felt better. Whenever the thought comes in, it hurts less."
If you are struggling with stress, anxiety, fear or depression, and do not want to use medications to overcome it, do make an appointment for a complimentary consultation session with me.
I provide home-based counselling, coaching and psychotherapy services and my office is situated at the town area (United House), walking distance from both Dhoby Ghaut and Somerset MRT stations.
For individuals, I offer a 20-min complimentary consultation via phone or zoom call to understand more about your issues before you make your decision to allow me to journey with you and work on your issues/challenges.
For couple counselling and coaching, I offer a complimentary consultation via phone or zoom call to each person separately for 15 minutes so that I can gain their individual perspectives before I see both of them together in the first session.
80% of our clients are females in their 20s to 40s, and teenagers from relationship issues to emotional challenges such as self-esteem, stress, anger, self-harm behaviours, addiction, anxiety and depression.
For individuals with depression, anxiety or other mental health challenges, I am not just providing recovery coaching and psychotherapy sessions, I also provide the support system (peer support group) - a community of people with similar challenges that you are facing.
As a Gottman Relationship Coach @ Relationship Architect, I coach individuals and couples to design, build and maintain the relationship with their significant other to build a Strong Relationship House - loving and lasting relationship.
I am specialising to work with individuals experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD and addiction. I also specialise in working with couples with marital challenges. Fyi, I have traits of Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD) and my wife has traits of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and both of us did not rely on medication.
As a Positive Psychology Coach aka Strengths Architect, I use a strengths-oriented approach to help individuals to discover and develop their strengths, increase their wellbeings, enhance their performance in personal and professional life, overcome their challenges and live a fulfilling and thriving life.
As I am an Integrative Mental Health Coach, Positive Psychotherapist and Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, I work with indivduals and couples experiencing emotional and mental challenges to help them to feel and get better, relate better with others and reduce their medications, so that they will not rely on them for long term.
Besides that, I run a few life skills programs in Changi Prison and work with inmates to overcome drug addiction. I also conduct MSF probation programs for youth probationers.
Prior to that, I was working as a Senior Counsellor with non-profit organisations for the last 15 years in counselling children, teenagers, working adullts, couples and parents in managing their challenges.
*I ONLY work with clients who are ready and committed in making changes to their lives and relationships.
Can you provide your services online or remotely? If so, please add details.
Yes. I use zoom online to connect and work with my clients.
What changes have you made to keep your customers safe from Covid-19?
I use zoom online session to connect and work with the clients.
I also meet face-to-face with the clients, and put on a mask in the coaching/counselling sessions.
Couple Counselling & Coaching
I provide regular couple counselling and coaching sessions to help couples to discover their strengths, improve their communication skills, problem solving, conflict resolution and understanding the emotional needs.
Mental Health Recovery Coaching for Depression & Anxiety
Mental Health Recovery Coaching is a new way of approaching the treatment of mental health issues. It is a person-centered, strengths-based approach for supporting persons in recovery.
Whatever your struggles, challenges or diagnosis may be, mental health recovery coaching will help you to focus on whole-person wellness and life management. A mental health recovery coach will help you to create your own vision for recovery, define your personal goals, identify your strengths and abilities.
Trauma Recovery Therapy