Emmanuel Quesada Life Coach
444 Executive Center Boulevard, El Paso, TX
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444 Executive Center Boulevard, El Paso, TX
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The quality of results and the time in which Emmanuels clients experience them is due to his ability to pinpoint and transform the core beliefs which are disempowering the action(s) which one knows they must take. With the powerful mindset pivots comes the strong desire to take action.
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2 customer reviews
Amanda Reyes
The greatest gift I have ever received is the gift of awareness and that’s exactly what Emmanuel gave me when I found myself on a continuous roundabout point in my life. I was really struggling with a particular relationship with someone I love and was looking for guidance to help me understand the situation as a whole. Through my sessions with Emmanuel I discovered so much than I anticipated and learned so much about myself and my environments. We invest in so many things to secure our future and well being but tend to overlook the most important one, that is our self. Through the profound awareness and details in his strategy, I learned how to navigate my decisions and mind set with much more fluidity and confidence. His detailed and holistic approach in sessions allowed me to produce quality and sustainable results. I highly suggest Emmanuel for those who are serious about attaining real and ever lasting results. More...
Rainer Mayer
Around 5 months ago, I realized there was a roadblock within my marriage. I would build trust, communication, and respect, then burn it to the ground just a few weeks later.
I knew exactly why I was participating in a self-sabotage loop.
I had cheated on my wife and continued to lie to her about it.
It didn’t matter how many date nights I had, how many flowers I would buy, or how many “I love you” texts I would send. In the end, I would act accordingly as I saw myself.
A lousy husband.
I couldn’t take it anymore. The lies were eating me up inside and I knew I had to do something before my self-destruction would lead to a divorce. So I told my wife I would be seeking help for our marriage, not because it was bad(it was ok), but because I wanted it to be great. I knew my wife wasn’t the problem, it was me. I was a mess full of negative self-talk, disbelief, and resentment. So I let her know I wanted to work on some of my issues before inviting her to join.
And so the quest began.
I’ve worked with marriage counselors twice before, once in a past relationship, and the second in my current marriage, and in both circumstances, we experienced a false lift of happiness and resolution only to be back at square one a few months later. I knew I would have to do something different this time.
I was no longer seeking counseling.
I was seeking leadership from a man who had fallen down the same ditch of pain, shame, and regrets that I had, and found a way to crawl out of it. So I came up with a plan. I would call every Male counselor or therapist I could find on Google in my area and ask them 1 simple question.
“Have you ever cheated on your wife?”
You’d be surprised at the number of professionals who denied response and took offense to this question. I received several “that's a very personal question” and “no I haven't”. I must’ve called at least 15 different numbers before I came across “Life Coach” during my search.
I had heard of life coaches before on tv shows, but always thought they were there to help people with low social skills or individuals with high anxiety, or those who can’t get their life together. But I thought “What do I have to lose? I’m not getting anywhere with these therapists”. So I gave him a call and left my information for a callback. 30 minutes later my phone starts ringing. I asked him the same question I asked everyone else I had called that day.
Me: Have you ever cheated on your wife?
Emmanuel: No I haven’t. I’d have to be crazy to cheat on my wife.
Me: (on to the next)
Emmanuel: But there was cheating in my past relationship.
Me: 💡
I was sold.
This is the transparency and trust which Emmanuel have me. Right from the beginning I saw honesty, trust, and a complete understanding of the issues I faced. But it didn’t stop there. He’ll also helped me develop the tools necessary to stand up and pursue the quality of life which deep down I knew I deserved.
After just a few months of my wife and I working alongside Emmanuel, he got us to a place where we could communicate with full transparency to each other.
I finally admitted to my wife my darkest secrets about our marriage. And I’m glad I did.
Today we’re happier than ever. I express my love to her in a way I never knew I could. Her feminine side is starting to flow naturally now that I’ve allowed myself to be trusted by her. I’m finally able to make love to my wife and not just have intercourse.
All of this was possible because of you Emmanuel.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you brother.
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What do you love most about your job?
Witnessing the rapid shift within my clients emotional state and how it manifests in their decisions and overall quality of life.
What inspired you to start your own business?
In order for me to render my clients with the quality of results they experience, I couldn't be held by any boundaries, so having my own business allows me to control the approach and the results.
Why should our clients choose you?
Clients are only encouraged to hire me if they are truly seeking to transform the fundamental core of the problem which will COMPLETELY summon from within 'em, a powerful desire to do what they deep down know is moral and righteous, in order to radically enhance the quality of their life. Because I've worked thousands of hours with many individuals in the last ten years, I understand patterns very well. With preciseness, I pin point subconscious patterns, and am skilled in transforming them, then leading the course of action which renders optimal results.
Can you provide your services online or remotely? If so, please add details.
Yes, I can provide my services remotely or at my location, or I can travel to the client.
Rebuilding Trust and Connection within a Relationship
The approach differs from relationship to relationship. In some cases I work with both in the same sessions, with others separately. Depends on the dynamics of the relationship. To determine, I first do an assessment and then determine a plan of action which best suits the couple.
I go to work on the mindset of each one and then we begin to make moves within the relationship to rebuild the connection, which includes teaching each individual how to communicate on a new level where the core of the messages are accepted by the spouse or partner.
More to be discussed in initial assessment.
Parenting
In most cases I work mostly with the mindset of the parent(s). This approach renders MUCH greater results for both parent and child. To my ideal client, this will appeal.
My objective is to enhance the level of trust between parent(s) and child, by bringing more awareness (cause and effect) to the parent and then teaching the parent how to communicate on a new level.
Rapidly, we breakdown trust barriers and patterns of behaviors shift within both parent and child.
Before beginning work I assess the dynamics of the relationship with parent and child and I explain more into the process.
Anxiety or Depression
Anxiety is simply overwhelming fearful thoughts for ones future, and are habitual.
Depression is overwhelming and intense thoughts of the past obscuring our perspectives for the present and future. Perspectives of ones self, life in general, and others. Typically, depressed thoughts deceivingly take away from our self perception and give more than deserved credit to people outside of us.
My job is to bring you to a completely new level of awareness for your mind, self, life (past and present) and others, which is where insecure thoughts are replaced with factual thoughts, true in their nature.
Change your thoughts, change your life!
Leadership
Saying goes,
"Success is something you attract by the person you become," - Jim Rohn
Leadership is influence and influence is the transfer of beliefs.
My job is to transform leaders into the next best version of themselves, by enhancing the quality of their beliefs and then, teaching them how to communicate on a new level which matches their new becoming.
Mindset/Performance/Habits
Saying goes,
"Success is something you attract by the person you become." -Jim Rohn
Mindset means the subconscious beliefs on which your mind is set. Your habits are driven by beliefs. As well, your performance.
The magic of my work is transforming the core of your beliefs and then teaching you with detail the approach to developing new habits and levels of performance. But the fundamental and first step is the transformation of the subconscious beliefs.
Our objective is to identify the life you envision, then determine what habits/mindset you'll need to achieve it and then, do the above.
I first do an assessment then propose a plan of action before choosing to work together.
