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Nick Thiel Relationship Counsellor/Coach

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‘21 Certificate of Excellence, 2021

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If you are looking to make fast changes in your relationship please read on…I specialise in helping couples and individuals restore and repair their relationship and I aim to do it as quickly and cost effectively as possible.

Communication, trust, intimacy, understanding, recovering from infidelity.

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21 March 2022

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Nick’s advice absolutely without a doubt saved our relationship. We were in a pretty dire place, with lots of confusing feelings and miscommunication when we found Nick, but after 3 sessions we managed to put ourselves in a better place than ever. The first session was very hard to come to terms with as it focused on what exactly we wanted but if you both truly want it enough it’s worth pushing through. Nick makes the sessions enjoyable and informative, it certainly isn’t a chore. We would absolutely use Nick’s services again as a couple if we needed them and I am absolutely considering using his Life Coaching services in the future. Thank you so much Nick x More...

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2 February 2022

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Nick has the ability to immediately understand the perspective of both sides of an argument! He is a good talker and a better listener and always tries to turn the negatives into positives. His guidance is delivered with a smile and happy disposition. More...

2 January 2022

We met Nick in 2021 for 4 sessions to help us get our marriage back on track. Before meeting Nick, we were seriously heading towards separation, or even divorce.

Nick’s sessions really helped us to see things from each other’s perspective, and helped us to stop caring about “winning”, and instead focus on caring about each other. We still have our bad days (obviously, no one’s perfect), but they are far fewer than before, and we’ve found we can bounce back much quicker.

We’ll be keeping in touch with Nick for as long as we can, whenever we feel like we need a top-up session, or a reminder of what to do. Undoing a lifetime of bad behaviours does not happen overnight, but with Nick it really feels like it’s possible to change for the better. Our relationship is night-and-day compared to what it was before – we’ve gone from arguing pretty much all day every day, to maybe having a disagreement once a week (if it’s a pretty stressful week) or none at all!

Nick was kind, caring, informative and understanding throughout, and made us feel like there was hope. I really cannot stress enough how grateful we are for his help, and I can honestly say I am the happiest I’ve been in years, all thanks to Nick.

If you are at the point where you feel like there are no other options – head to Nick, and you’ll be amazed at what he can do.

10/10 would recommend.

Thanks Nick!

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2 January 2022

Going into our journey with Nick, we were filled with many negative emotions.

Despair, sadness, anger, embarrassment. We loved each other, but had we fallen out of love? Bickering had become the norm, and our relationship of 13 years felt more like a housemate arrangement than a marriage.

After four sessions with Nick, the difference is like night and day. He made us remember why we fell in love in the first place and helped us to see things from the perspective of each other. A marriage that was steadily losing hope is now fun, exciting and loving once again.

It’s very much a muscle that needs to be trained. It requires work and commitment to maintain, but we’re both ‘in no matter what’ as opposed to ‘I will if you will’. We still stumble now and again, but we catch ourselves infinitely quicker, and have become each other’s biggest advocate.

So how does this happen?

For us, the tailored coaching sessions were formed of three main parts:

First is education, where Nick talked us both through communication principles and the factors that make a healthy relationship.

Second is homework, where we had to fill in a worksheet about each other, ourselves and our relationship.

Finally, group discussion. This combined talking through our answers in the worksheets and how we could change our behaviour and implement the communication principles.

Shining a light on yourself is never easy, and Nick helped us to cut the BS and be brutally honest with ourselves. This part was vital, as we both had our own personal past hang ups that meant we were naturally defensive and blind to some of our less attractive traits.

Our journey ‘ended’ in the traditional sense over the course of four sessions, but we plan to keep Nick for top up meetings as and when we need them. Since our last meeting we’ve managed to correct the course ourselves whenever we’ve been heading towards danger but knowing that he’s only a call away gives us peace of mind.

If you’re even remotely considering working with Nick, grab him while you can. Explaining the true value that he’s brought would be impossible, as he has quite literally saved our marriage.

Thanks Nick!

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3 October 2021

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I'd definitely recommend Nick, he is very easy to talk to and has a lot of useful things to say. I was really nervous about trying relationship coaching, not sure what to expect and worried I'd be embarrassed. Nick made me feel very comfortable and seems like a genuinely nice guy. Very glad we went with him. More...

1 October 2021

Nick brought warmth and expertise to our relationship coaching sessions and guided us through our crisis. He has a wealth of professional knowledge and experience and life experience; this means he is not shocked by whatever topics you need to bring to the session. Nick helped my girlfriend and I through the worst crisis in our relationship ever and gave us the tools to improve it. More...

1 October 2021

Great experience and would highly recommend. Very personable. Nick helps you to understand what’s going on from your partners perspective and works on bringing you together through better communication etc

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1 October 2021

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I came across Nick when searching on Bark for a counsellor and turns out nick was actually a Relationship Coach and the best thing to happen to us in terms of helping our Relationship and us as individuals! I have seen a few different professionals over the years and Nick was by far the best. His own personal experiences, knowledges and approach have been amazing in helping us to work on with hat I would describe as a relationship that was at breaking point. It’s very hard to articulate what I actually think of Nick and his services in a few words but in a nutshell I think he is amazing and would always be my first point of call every time. I have already recommended him to anyone who speaks to me about needing help and would continue to do so! More...

7 July 2021

Very easy to talk with Nick. He has helped with individual and couple problems. My partner is much happier and I always feel better after speaking to him. Couldn’t ask for more.

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5 July 2021

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

What a hero! Nick is honestly amazing, in just 4 sessions our relationship has completely flipped back to how it used to be- maybe even better. Showing us important factors in making a relationship work and also opening our eyes to truths in ourselves. We can use these tools for the future now so we don’t slip back into old habits. We wanted someone who would just be honest with us and not sugar coat things- which he was.
Highly recommend :) thank you Nick!
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27 May 2021

We reached a pretty low point where we weren't sure what the other wanted, how to communicate (read; argue) well and how to rekindle the spark that made us fall for each other in the first place.

Nick took us through his package of four sessions, alternating seamlessly between teaching us about communication and understanding our partner's needs, and digging into how we felt and where our sticking points were.

I'm happy to report that we're back in a great place and couldn't be happier. A piece of advice; don't wait to reach out for help. The sooner Nick gets involved the better.
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27 May 2021

Nick was at all times kind and insightful. He gently took us through the issues and made suggestions. There was no judgement, just warmth and help. After 6 session we are back on track and very grateful to Nick. More...

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20 March 2021

Couples Counselling

We were constantly having problems in communicating and our relationship was really suffering. Nick was extremely helpful and gave us the correct tools and advice to overcome certain patterns in our routine. We really enjoyed all the (3) sessions we have had with Nick and we will surely get in touch with him again if we feel we are veering off track. Thanks Nick. More...

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10 February 2021

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

I found Nick when me and my husband were going through a tough time in our marriage recently. I’m so glad I did. My marriage was fractured due to betrayal and Nick has helped me understand myself and my husband more. He speaks pure sense and with his help I feel our marriage is growing stronger with his advice. I have had 3 sessions with Nick and they have helped immensely. I will re visit him if I feel I need further assistance. I would highly recommend his help 😀 More...

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21 January 2021

Relationship and Marriage Counselling

Nick thiel has been amazing during a very difficult time in my life. He has been very professional, very knowledgeable, insightful, and has given me the tools that I needed so badly, and all done in a short time. I highly recommend Nicks services. Thank you Nick. More...

18 October 2020

I found Nick shortly after my soon to be ex wife told me she wanted out. I'd already had some counselling but that simply wasn't for me. I wish I'd found Nick first. There's a huge difference between counselling and life coaching, in hindsight, I didn't need 'help', I needed focus, to get a road map going, and direction. This is where Nick stepped in. I'm 4 months in now and whilst our sessions are fewer, I'm in a place where I now know where I can turn when, or if, I come off track.
Nicks style is very open. You direct your sessions, after all, it's your own life. The easiest comparison I can make is this: when my ex pulled the rug from my feet, I felt like I was playing a game of pinball with no flappers. The ball, my life, was just rolling down the hole and away. I could see it all in front of my but I couldn't control the thing! Nick helped me find my flappers! His open questions, followed by the odd push of the pins button to get you back on line, gave me my direction back to stop all the great things I had in my life seemingly dissappear down a hole.
Nick has several techniques to start off with that help you essentially lay out where you are. I won't divulge, I wouldn't want to ruin it for anyone. But be open. Don't be afraid to share how you feel, what you had, what you want, where you see yourself now and in the future, and I can honestly say you'll end up with a road map that puts you in the best place of your life.
To give anyone a glimpse, in the last 4 months of working with Nick, I'm the happiest I've been in the last 10yrs of "proper" adulthood. My relationship with my son has never been better. I'm comfortable with the direction my life has gone. I have a plan of where I want to go. And I have a way of understanding if I don't get to the desired outcomes, as there's always a reason, and usually it's in front of you! I've also lost 4st in weight, become more confident, and I now own my future. I knew all of this was possible, but as I say, I'd lost my flappers, and my life was just a poor game of pinball.
Finally, alongside all of this, I've also improved massively at work. I coach daily with my teams and am now a far, far better coach than I was 4 months ago. I'm not ashamed to admit I've stolen some of Nicks ideas, I've created my own "Nickisms" list, and whilst these are 99% for my own life, I've adapted and used them at work.
I simply can't recommend Nick highly enough. There's not enough stars to give on this rating. If you're going through similar, Nicks your man.
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28 September 2020

The main issue with my situation is that I could never appreciate fully the other side of my marriage, my wife, my kids. Everything was always from my perspective. So it was skewed. I would look at the things I expected not the things that were being offered eg the things my wife did for me but I didn’t realise that those were her idea of love. I always compared them with my version of what I expected. So there was a mismatch. Nick really helped me realign my expectations about life and marriage just getting me to look at things differently. By asking me a bunch of questions that I never really thought to ask or consider. But once I did, everything changed. It really is true that if you want things to change then you have to look at yourself first. I just never did that before. And I owe you a great deal Nick, thanks!! More...

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25 September 2020

Life Coaching

Thoroughly enjoyed working with Nick, he was really approachable and easy to work with. I always came away from each call with a key takeaway/action which I found really useful and beneficial. Would recommend working with him.

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25 September 2020

Life Coaching

When I started working with Nick I had spent the previous few years trying to address certain negative behaviours and push forward the positive aspects of my life, so I could grow and succeed at work and at home. I met a mental roadblock that I could not shift no matter how hard I tried or what professional guidance I sought. In three months working with Nick he has helped me to make fundamental changes to my life that positively effect how I operate and approach each day. He has enabled me to undo years of bad habits and bad practice and, more importantly, helped me implement good habits and positive ways to be and approach each day. His comprehensive knowledge, experience and skill set coupled with his professional and intuitive approach make him exceptionally effective. If you want the best for yourself and those around you, but are struggling to get there like I was, Nick can help you find your way. More...

18 September 2020

Nick is a prime example of a life coach. He has a natural calm and kindness, which creates a safe atmosphere that really enables you to open up and be yourself.

He’s helped me through a half year of relationship struggles, business and personal challenges. In the process he’s provided a safe space to share frustrations and worries, helped me to keep my hopes up, find more power within myself and provided me with tools to handle the struggle.
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16 September 2020

I cannot fault nick any any way regarding his approach to counselling and coaching. The man has the ability to calm you down even in the most adverse situation you will ever experience.
Thanks to nick i have acheived life goals that I never thought possible. I have the job I've always wanted, I have a clear mind set on acheiveing my financial goals, even my out look towards unexpected changes in my cercumstances has been changed to a more positive stance. Thanks to nicks coaching and counselling i now have the tools to tackle any situation and to come out on top. I will strongly recommend nick to anyone who is or has been going through a difficult time. He is easily reachable and works round you, I have, in the past been through a lot of CBT, but I can say in all honesty that nick is far better than anyone else you will ever speak too. I cannot thank this man enough for what he has helped me achieve.
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15 September 2020

Life Coaching

Nick has a great balance between compassion and honest feedback. Asking the right questions he helps me to consider my actions and question my motives. In just a couple months there is already a big improvement in my productivity and social life. I still don't have it all figured out yet, but with Nick helping me to better understand myself, I finally feel I am on the right path. More...

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I love seeing lightbulb moments in my Clients, when they re-find their spark, or experience a breakthrough that has been holding them back from what they wanted in life.

Seeing the impact on my own life that many of the principles and skills I help others develop have had, I wanted to pass on that knowledge. The frustration of seeing people live lives of mediocrity rather than the life they dream of inspired me to do what I can to help others. Finally, the pain of a divorce many years ago left me on a search for the keys to sucessful relationships and a desire to help other couples and families before it was too late.

I love what I do and I am passionate about helping others. I don't have the magic pill, but I do have proven strategies that can make a huge difference in someone's life. My natural curioisity means not only am I constantly learning how to be better, but I am genuinely interested in other people and how I can help them.

Absolutely, in fact all of my Clients are remote/online. We generally work over Zoom, which works really well, and has the benefit of allowing me to keep the costs down, while removing the need to travel for anyone. It also allows me to be more flexible in the hours I can offer to my Clients.

Services

Working with individuals to help them live more fulfilled lives. Uncovering what is holding them back, and being in their corner to bring out the best in them to make changes in any area of their life that is not where they want it to be.

Working with individuals and couples to help them understand themselves and their partner in a new way.

Teaching the key skills that are needed in a relationship to keep it alive.

Helping couples get the spark and passion back, and rebuild broken trust.

Helping couples and individuals understand how to communciate better in a relationship

Working with couples or individuals who are struggling with one or more aspect of their relationship and looking for help to resolve them. Many relationships suffer similar patterns of behaviour so we can often identify these patterns, understand what needs to change and start the steps towards changing them