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16 December 2019

My name is Kai. When I first went to see Mark I couldn't even bring myself to say hello to him. I relied on my mum talking for me. My anxiety was making me miserable and unable to talk to anyone I didn't know. After 3 visits to Mark, I was able to talk without even thinking about nerves or anything. I feel more confident, and much happier. I cannot thank him enough, he made a huge difference to my life. Thank you again wing man. More...

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7 November 2019

How do I put into words what Mark has done for me over the last few months? I first contacted Mark after a friend told me how he had helped her overcome a phobia that was taking over her life, so I went along to my first session with a similar problem. During that meeting his calm voice and reassuring words helped me to open up about many other things that were preventing me from living and enjoying life.In fact the phobia was way down on the list of things that I needed help with.I had never come to terms with the recent death of my parents and in just one session, after tears and then laughter, I am now able to think about mum and dad with happy memories and their blessing to live my life in the future and not in the past.I also suffered insecurity and anxiety but I am now able to park those negative thoughts firmly at the back of my mind and ask those mood hoovers to jog on! The same goes for the energy sapping work bully that tried to destroy me a few years ago. Not any more!!I'm in remission from cancer and feel stronger than ever thanks to Marks positive words that are now deep rooted in my mind.I'm yet to face my spider phobia but have no doubt that I'll soon be looking at those 8 legged things in a very different way.It's difficult to put into words just how Mark has helped, and I hope I've done him justice because he truly has such a wonderful gift and is the most amazing wingman you'll ever meet.Thank you Mark. You are just awesome x More...

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28 October 2019

This is Rachael eades So I fount mark thought a friend when I was off work with work stress I suffered with worrying and anxiety to and had for years I have see mark for sessions know and have changed how I look at things and have been able to do things I couldn’t before. I got back to work. I thank mark for getting me to see things different and all the help. More...

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15 September 2019

Took my 13 year old son to see him as he’s been having emotional problems and struggles with school environment and just been heading in the wrong direction in life , give mark a try as nothing else seemed to work . After 2 sessions with mark what a transformation we have our son back with a smile on his face , looking on life with a positive attitude, mark has turned him around and heading in the right direction , can’t thank mark enough, I would recommend mark 110 % onwards and upwards wingman More...

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9 August 2019

Wow what can i say about this book Its a must have! wow what a man what a journey!! Guaranteed you will be hooked and the rolling of emotions is so powerful Tears and laughter ! Remember its no sugar coated bsIts real and from the heart a true storyIts guidance Its inspiringIts motivating Its life changing if you wont itThis book can change alot of peoples lifes alone certainly opened my thoughts on life And im so fortunate to have got to know Mark and class him as a good friend someone that is there at a drop of a hat my wingman! More...

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9 July 2019

I suffered with anxiety for about 5 months when I went to see Mark. They anxiety started after I fainted at my boyfriends Christmas party. The thought of going out in public to socialise had me panicking and struggling to breathe. I was recommended by a friend to see Mark and it is the best thing I ever did. I walked into his office space and could barely speak about my anxiety because it would cause it to start. After being with Mark as little as 1 hour it completely disappeared and it has never come back since. He gave me my life back and I will always be grateful More...

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9 July 2019

To anyone who is struggling with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, PTSD, fear of crowds/flying/etc Mark Marsland is your man. I can't recommend him enough. I speak from experience as I suffered from fear of crowds and PTSD and I'm now free from both and have been for a few years now. If you can't speak about what happened to you, it doesn't matter. He doesn't need or want details, he goes on your emotions. He's my angel and he is amazing. Pm me or Mark himself, and he'll do everything he can to help. Look after yourselves and live your life how you want to and not how your past makes you. X More...

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5 July 2019

To anyone who is struggling with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, PTSD, fear of crowds/flying/etc Mark Marsland is your man. I can't recommend him enough. I speak from experience as I suffered from fear of crowds and PTSD and I'm now free from both and have been for a few years now. If you can't speak about what happened to you, it doesn't matter. He doesn't need or want details, he goes on your emotions. He's my angel and he is amazing. Pm me or Mark himself, and he'll do everything he can to help. Look after yourselves and live your life how you want to and not how your past makes you. Xxx More...

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30 June 2019

A childhood of bullying, narcissistic parents, a 5-year psychologically-abusive boyfriend all came to blows a few years ago and despite 23 years of negative relationships, this ended when a turbulent few months in my life presented itself as PTSD. I cut all ties with the damaging people in my life and when I left to live in a new city, I had a nervous breakdown and have suffered ever since. I became scared of going out, panic attacks, suicidal thoughts, nightmares EVERY night, flashbacks and was consumed with hurt, guilt and a voice in my head that kept my self esteem at rock bottom. I felt better after 1 session with Mark than I did with a year of psychotherapy, psychiatrists and therapists with the NHS. As most people will be, I was sceptical about what Mark could do for me. After years of intense pain and hurt, I had battled on with the motony of every day life, attending therapy, taking maximum doses of antidepressants, crying and begging for the hurt to stop. I knew how hard I had tried to get better and had already tried CBT, Psychotherapy and talking therapy with little or no improvement, and therefore began giving up hope of ever improving. My best friend knew someone who had received help from Mark and recommended him to me. In my absolute desperation, I gave it a go and finally I can start to live my life again. He has taken the emotion out of the traumatic memories and I am now not tortured by these on a daily basis! The work Mark does is absolutely incredible and I would urge anyone who sees this to please just give it a try - you won’t look back! He has actually saved my life and I can’t wait to continue our work together in building me back up. ⭐️✨ More...

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28 June 2019

I had quite a few sessions with mark last year (2018) it was great to see my situation from someone else’s perspective. In attending the sessions I wasn’t looking at the world through a straw and was able to take a step back to realise what was going off and how I could pull myself out of the rut I was in, with marks help. It was very positive and productive. It helped me to become more positive about future plans and worry less about certain things. ✅ More...

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27 April 2019

This is my Mum and Dads testimonial Hi MarkWe cannot thank you enough for giving us back our daughter who for the past 6 years has been a former shadow of herself , constantly tormented by intrusive thoughts, over analyzing and panic attacks etc. From that very first appointment with you she came out beaming from ear to ear and a sparkle in her eyes. I asked '' how did it go'' and Cody replied '' hes amazing i feel like a great weight has been lifted and i already feel a lot happier''. It only got better and better with every session . Now shes at the end of her therapy almost anti depressant free, confident and looking forward to what life's adventures await, grasping and embracing every day. Thanks to you magic Mark her guardian angel her wing man don't ever give up what you do. Thank you again so so much , you are amazing and truly a gift from god.Carole and John x More...

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28 March 2019

For years I suffered with severe anxiety and depression. I would constantly be worrying about things that weren’t even there to worry about and I was very snappy and edgy in a lot of situations. Many people, including my family never knew how I would react on a daily basis causing them to feel like they were walking on egg shells all the time. Mark has truly changed my life and he is a gift from god. I am a completely new person, I am happy, care free, outgoing and positive. I do things I would of never have done before and I live my life without worrying all the time. In Mark I have found a true friend, life saver and wing man who I can be sure to count on whenever and wherever I might need him. So please don’t hesitate to contact Mark if you’re suffering because he is truly a gift from God. More...

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28 March 2019

I never thought I'd need to seek out the help of a professional but I was struggling to see a way forward and felt I was sinking fast so I was lucky enough to stumble across Marks website. I was nervous about going to see him as I had no idea what to expect or indeed if he could help me.I need not have worried,I instantly felt comfortable in the surroundings and with his manner and approach....from the get-go I knew this dude was on my side and he had my back....what unfolded over the proceeding weeks was a gradual healing along a pathway I would never have found were it not for Marks straight talking advice.Thank you Mark. More...

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28 March 2019

At a time in my life when I was rock bottom and I couldn’t see a light at the end of the tunnel, I reached out to an ‘angel’ called Mark and to all intense and purposes he essentially ‘saved’ my life! Mark came highly recommended by a friend who knew of his amazing work and I took the first brave step and reached out to him for help! Thank god I did! Mark gave me back the power to not just become ‘me’ again but the best version of me that’s ever been!A few sessions with Mark worked better than months on antidepressant medication!I now don’t just see a light at the end of the tunnel anymore, I light the tunnel up myself with the shine Mark has given back to me. Don’t like to think where I’d be now if i’d Not reached out to this Angel who has given me my ‘life’ back on this incredible journey I’ve been on with him, and I couldn’t of wished for a better wingman along the way. We’ve laughed till our chuckle muscles hurt, I’ve cried till my eyes are all out of tears but most importantly I’m now the best version of me I could ever hope to be and for that I owe it to this incredible human! He really is one ‘special’ person who treats you as the unique individual that you are, he has your back 24/7 and you can rely him 100% Mark you really did bring me back to life! And continue to be such a big influence on how I conduct my daily thoughts! #chuffitbucket!I can’t recommend Mark enough, if his work can help bring me back from the brink it can help anyone.Thankyou isn’t a big enough word I owe our journey together everything, the happiness and energy it’s given me back has changed not just my life for the better but my children’s too!Mark you are the true definition of ‘wonderment’ So if you need a wingman to see you through the worst times or just give a little help, be brave and take the first step and reach out, you’ll never look back!Emma Dalton x x x More...

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8 March 2019

Never sat with someone i havent met before and felt so comfortable, i'm never very good at opeing up, but i was with Mark a LONG time, and i have never felt so good as when i left. I opened up a lot, and let a lot of emotion out (who knew i had them) and honestly would recommed anyone that has any issues to go see him! More...

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28 December 2018

I went to Mark with a needle phobia following a previous hypnotherapy session elsewhere that I didnt feel had helped. I was due to have surgery and after just one session with Mark, I was able to have my blood tests and anaesthetic without any the stress and anxiety of previous experiences. In the past I was unable to take either of my children for their childhood jabs or even watch someone having and an injection on TV. However, since seeing Mark, i have even been able to inject myself! I would recommend anyone to speak to Mark if they have any kind of phobia that they want to conquer! More...

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28 November 2018

We would like to thank Mark (aka wingman)You have been amazing with our son who is 9. He has been to 3 sessions to help with his confidence he had been having some issues with worries and fears that had got in the way of him doing what he loves as all this energy was consumed by these worries and fears. Our son now has the tools he needs to stop this process. And wow we have seen AMazing results he is now full of life buzzing again back to his old self. He practices the anchor and we have even seen him using his spray can to step in to state.His confidence has improved so much so thank you we would highly recommend and have recommended to lots of people All children with any worries,fears etc should go to see mark More...

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29 September 2018

I was in a very hard place before I plucked up the courage to seek professional help from a top therapist mark marsland, he taught me to use the tools I always had and use them correctly and now I can roam free off worry and pain, he was a true wingman through the whole process.

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29 September 2018

Mark has the skills to change people’s outlook and opinions on life. I can t thank him enough for all his help in putting me into a better place.
Plus he’s a top bloke who genuinely cares
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29 September 2018

Mark is a really positive and helpful guy. He has helped me a lot. Would highly recommend seeing Mark

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29 September 2018

I have asked mark for help many times over years. He has always come up with the goods. If anyone can sort your problems out mark can. Thank you my friend for always being there and keep using your amazing skills that you really do love to use “ helping people “ More...

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22 May 2018

Absolute top bloke that helps you get the best out of yourself.
Gave me the tools I needed to get out of the big dark hole I was in.
Forever greatful

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10 April 2018

Can't thank mark enough for all his help over the past few weeks, helped me over come things I never thought would be possible and thanks to him my anxiety isn't taking over my life anymore. Ive felt so much stronger and positive over the past 6 weeks than I have in years and it's so nice to feel happiness instead of the constant worrying and feeling anxious, I now know I can move on and be the new improved me! Thankyou so much mark! My wingman forever x More...

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30 March 2018

Would highly recommend Mark, he's professional , friendly and made me feel at ease. I benefited from the hypnotherapy sessions that I had with him Thanks Mark x

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27 March 2018

I have utter respect for this man!!
Not just due to helping me but for the fact I know what he has gone through in his life and came out of it soooooo much stronger and took from it the want to help us. .. that's a fantastic human being!!
He helped me due to airports and flying but I took so much more as I suffer anxiety, social anxiety and he offers advice that simply makes sense, so I learned ways to help myself!
He also helped me as he believes same as me... pills aren't the way forward... tools, knowledge, etc are the way to go... very difficult to find someone who believes the same!
His heart is completely in the right place... he only wants one thing... to see us improve!
Thank you Mark for being such a nice decent guy and coming as far as you have and taking us with you!
You may do what you do as a job but you become a friend too...!!
Your book will go far, I just know it!
Thank you very much xx
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27 March 2018

Originally sceptical I met Mark to help with an overwhelming fear of flying which had crept up on me over the years, Mark listened and explained that contrary to my opinion I could overcome this, during our sessions he made a mp3 recording which I use when flying and have now flown to Australia 6 times always with Mark metaphorically in my ear, I am not 100% able to fly without Mark but by no means am I going to allow this to affect me any longer and that is down to Marks skill in making me believe in myself. Thanks Mark

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27 March 2018

Ive known Mark a long time now and he has always been positive , happy and there for you when in times of need . I was scared stiff of flying which Mark helped me learn to control and curb my fear. Highly recommended Mark he is a top man and a true wingman . More...

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7 January 2018

I can’t thank Mark enough for helping me overcome my driving test anxiety. Everyone kept telling me that test nerves were normal but for me it was more than just nerves- it felt more like an anxiety attack. The most frustrating part was knowing that I could drive well and had the ability to pass my test but it seemed that I kept falling at the last hurdle. I had already taken my test three times and was feeling pretty defeated when my mum suggested I see Mark. I have to admit at first I was a little skepical but I was willing to give it a go and I’m so glad I did. After only a few hypnotherapy sessions I went into my fourth driving test with a complete different mindset. I felt focused and relaxed throughout and even quite enjoyed it (which I never though was possible). I passed with only 3 minors and now I finally have my full drivers license!!

I would recommend Mark to anyone who is struggling with something similar and will definitely get in touch again if I need to.
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12 November 2017

Came a very long way in a very short space of time and feel confident we will finish the work. I've been through an awful lot and he made me believe again I'll be okay. Wonderful fella!

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29 October 2017

I use Mark for Life Coaching as much as possible. We all have times when things don't go as planned, or how we would like them to. Mark will always inspire me to see things as they actualy are and not how I might perceive them at the time. Over the years he has also been my personal trainer and we trained together when Mark took part in The Gladiators TV show. His lifetime of sport and fitness has encouraged me to have a continual gym membership since the late 1980's. I actually met Mark for the first time when he was working as a gym instructor. You will only need to see Mark once and hear what he says and you will never stop seeing him. More...

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13 October 2017

I found Mark on google and that proved to be one of the most positive days for my son who was suffering with severe anxiety. We had been to the Doctors which was fine but I was not too happy with the timescale of referring my son for counselling and the counselling offered wasn't in my opinion what he needed. I spoke to Mark on the telephone at length and immediately knew my son would be fine and he went on to have about 6 sessions with Mark and i now have my wonderful happy son back. I cannot thank Mark enough for what he has done and I know Mark will always be there for my son now which is so re-assuring that he is just a phone call away. Would highly recommend Mark, he is one of the nicest caring people I have met that truly loves his job and truly wants to help people. Thank you so much Mark More...

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10 October 2017

So far, I'm only half way through my process with Mark, and the results have been fantastic. I've have several anxiety conditions, and so far Mark has really helped me with my general anxiety, and particularly helped take a big, big chunk of my social anxiety away. I was extremely pleased with how fast we achieved the results - after just the second session, my social anxiety was massively reduced. What I was amazed at though was that after I came out of anxiety slumps based on other things and I felt back to my normal, the improvements on my social anxiety remained, meaning I had made real, lasting progress. Lasting process that was achieved so fast wasn't something I'd seen with myself like that before, so that was really, really great. On top of this, it must be said that Mark is a really great guy and is totally dedicated - he's really committed to building a supportive vibe, letting you know often you can rely on him for support, and that you can trust him in sessions. That he cares. And that applies in real practical ways in the sessions, too.

In my remaining sessions, I'm certainly looking forward to building on the progress we've already made, both on my social & general anxiety, and my other issues! It's been great so far.
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4 May 2017

Mark helped me with a longstanding fear of flying. Following hypnotherapy with Mark my anxiety on my next flight was then very much reduced. I was given an audio recording to keep to listen to before future flights and I look forward to using it the next time I travel, knowing that it will calm my anxiety and prevent the fear of flying from ruining the anticipation of going on holiday. Thank you, Mark More...

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26 April 2017

I don't know what I would have done without this wonderful man , the help he has given my daughter has been truly amazing.

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26 April 2017

To say that Mark is changing my life, is an understatement. He's saving my life.
Cannot thank him enough for the help he's given me already and continues to do so. Highly recommend

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9 March 2017

What a guy! Known this man for many years now and when we heard about his hypnotherapy experiences we had to see him. My partner was booked in for hypnobirthing sessions with Mark due to a massive amount of anxiety and panic on the run up to labour. After just one session Mark had reduced this level of anxiety massively and after only 2 sessions in total turned the birth of our child into a positive, peaceful and amazing experience. The trigger words used still have a positive effect on me now and my boy is 1! I would strongly recommend anyone to use Mark and his fantastic service he can change your life. Top man Mark I will be forever grateful for what you did for me and my parter. All our love mate look forward to catching up soon x More...

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9 March 2017

Mark is one of the nicest guys I've ever met. He just gets me!

I had a massive phobia of spiders and did have for 30 years.

One of my first words was 'spider'.

I was at my whit's end with this phobia, and felt something has to be done.

It took me over a year to pluck up the courage to go and see Mark after reading up about hypnotherapy.

To say I was nervous when I turned up was an understatement. From the second of meeting Mark he instantly put me at ease explaining everything to me step by step.

He will not take any credit for changing my life and making me more chilled out and no longer on high alert but he should. I no longer have a phobia of spiders and it feels great.

Oh also I'm a migraine sufferer or should I say I was. I turned up with a migraine and Mark took that away too and I've not had one since!

Thanks for changing my life

Vicki (oh, and Rose :))
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4 October 2016

My wife Vicki recently went to see Mark to see if he could get her over her fear of spiders as it was ruining our lives. The result? He has changed our lives forever. I say 'our lives' because although Vicki was the one with the fear, it affected both of us - where we went, how we did things etc and it got in the way of everything we did. Personally I don't suffer with anxiety or phobia - I don't understand it so as a result I don't tolerate it very well so while Vicki was fearful and panicky, I just felt frustration. Naturally this lead to arguments because Vicki felt that I didn't understand her and if I'm being honest with myself, I didn't understand the fears or why she had them. I tried but because I didn't understand what all the 'fuss' was about, I couldn't relate to her. But that is behind us now. Vicki is much more relaxed about life in general (she's always been highly strung, bless her!), little things don't become big issues and her fear of spiders has gone. She doesn't want to handle them but she doesn't panic, sweat, hyperventilate and cry in their presence (and I don't roll my eyes thinking 'here we go again!'). If there's a spider in the corner of the ceiling - she's happy to leave it be. We've even been spider hunting - crazy, I know! Something else... (Sorry Mark) I've always thought that hypnotherapy was a bit 'Laa Dee Daa'. I didn't believe it was real. Let me tell you, It is real and Vicki is proof that it works. Mark, by spending 3 hours with Vicki you have changed both of our lives. Now I think it's about time you realised what you were worth and increase your prices! From the bottom of my heart, thank you. More...

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