Nicole Colantoni

Growing up, one of my close family members suffered from a serious mental condition. Observing the impact this had on the people around me served as the catalyst for my fascination with psychology as well as human behavior and relationships. It also made me realise from a young age that I wanted to work in a role that could help people in this area.

I started my coaching career as a life and mindset coach and decided to specialise as a dating and relationship coach shortly after the launch of my podcast Single at Thirty: The Manual for the Modern Woman. After each episode aired, I would receive hundreds of messages from listeners who would reach out to me with questions and concerns about their love life and I quickly realised this was an area in which women needed a lot more support and guidance.

My mission: To share everything about love and relationships that we didn’t learn from our parents or in school and to help you navigate the changing landscape of modern dating.

I believe the relationship you have with yourself sets the foundation for all the other relationships in your life.

Everyone is in search of a perfect partner, but few people are willing to do the work to be a perfect partner in return.

I believe that by becoming the best version of yourself, you can attract the best person for you into your life.

Finding love doesn't have to be complicated, and relationships don’t have to be hard work.

The relationships we have with others are only ever as healthy as the one we have with ourselves.
By cultivating, nurturing, and prioritising the relationship you have with yourself all other relationships in your life will benefit.

This means making a commitment to overcome limiting beliefs, putting a stop to repeating the same learned patterns of behavior from childhood, and breaking generational toxic cycles.

You have to change your unconscious thinking in order to change your results.
A lot of the reasons why people feel like they are not worthy of love originate from their upbringing.

People tend to pick partners who mirror their own unconscious programming. Because of this, the relationship often does not meet their needs and won’t until they have learned how to heal from their past.

Love doesn’t hurt, but loving the wrong person does. Finding love isn’t challenging, becoming the person who believes they’re deserving of love is.

That’s why regardless of your relationship status, I adopt a holistic “inside out” approach focused on developing my client’s mindset toward self-care, dating, and love; in turn transforming their lives and fast-tracking the well-being of the relationships in it.

I work exclusively with clients who are serious about self-empowerment and creating meaningful and lasting change.

All sessions are held in person at my home in Potts Point, Sydney, at my office in Darlinghurst, Sydney, or online over Zoom. I also offer half and one-hour texting sessions.

I am triple vaccinated. I also provide online coaching via Zoom or text message.