Couple post request for videographer to film their wedding night – can you help?

As you can imagine we get thousands of Bark’s each day. However, we recently had a very unusual request – a couple posted a Bark looking for a videographer to film their wedding night.

Obviously, this isn’t a service we normally provide – however, we’re hoping that some of our videographers will be able to help the couple out. They’ve asked to remain anonymous, however they have agreed to let us make the Bark public in order to help them find the right person for the job.

If you think this sounds up your street, here’s the request in full:

My fiancé and I got engaged during Christmas time in 2016, and since then we’ve been planning and planning for our big day. Most of the stuff we’ve sorted now and I couldn’t be happier with how the day is shaping up, but there are also still a couple of things I haven’t sorted. One of the things we need is a bit unique, but we’re hoping someone will be able to help.

Both myself and my fiancé believe that your ‘wedding day’ shouldn’t just be limited to a day, and actually your wedding night is just as important. Obviously during the day, everyone has photographers and videographers etc capturing all of the days moments and memories, but it’s not a norm for someone to have that on their wedding night.

Since we got engaged we’ve both been in agreement that we want a videographer to film our wedding night, but unfortunately we haven’t been able to find anyone willing, or who we’ve felt comfortable enough around. We originally asked our day videographer to do it, but he said he didn’t feel comfortable doing it, and that it wasn’t something he’d done before.

Obviously we know that this is a bit of a weird request, but we just really don’t want to forget any moments from our day, or night, which is why we want everything on tape. Because of the nature of the request, and the fact our wedding is just around the corner in September, we’ve set aside around £2,000 for it, but obviously there is some wiggle room on that.

We’re getting married in the Cotswolds in September, but we’ll talk about it in proper detail once we’ve found the right person. We don’t want the tape to go anywhere at all and it’s just for personal use between me and my fiancé, which is why it’s so important for us to find someone we feel we can trust 100%.

We’ll need you to start at around 1am and work until around 3am. But this might change depending on what time the party finishes etc. We’d like a mixture of still and moving shots, and we also want it all to look professional, so any lighting in the room etc will need to be sorted beforehand.

We’ve been looking for someone to do this for such a long time and to be honest this is our last chance to get one really. So, if you can help or think you can do this please let me know. We know it’s an odd request but it’s something we’re really keen on.

Thanks in advance!

Do you think you can help the couple out? If you answered yes and you’re a videographer, then register your services here.

Here’s what our co-founder, Kai Feller had to say about it:

“We know how important videographers are for married couples across the UK; it’s one of our most popular categories on the site along with wedding photography and house cleaning. However, this is the first time we’ve been alerted to a request of this nature.

“Obviously wedding night videography isn’t a service we explicitly offer on site, but hopefully one of our videographers is willing to help the couple out. Who knows, if we have a lot of applications perhaps we could look at making it an additional service on the site.”

84 thoughts on “Couple post request for videographer to film their wedding night – can you help?”

  1. I’m not a videographer but I would be willing to do it using their phones so they can keep it between themselves. I don’t think the idea is weird at all and when I got married I had a video of the wedding night myself but obviously we had no third party present so it was very basic.
    I’m available and would be really excited about taking up this opportunity.

  2. I’ve registered on here, we’re Enchanted Memories UK (have work on Instagram if you want to have a look). I dont know how to reply to the listing but we’d happily record your wedding night. We have 2 photographers/videographers at your disposal if you wish.

  3. I am more than happy to support the happy couple in keeping all memories of their special day and first night as a married couple.
    I can provide the service they are asking for

  4. I’m a semi-professional videographer, I have worked with various models and professionals in similar environments to this.

    I’m happy to undertake this work, feel free to contact me.

  5. Hi,
    I thought I’d put my name forward if you’re still looking for someone?
    I’m a 19 year old female who has filmed weddings before (available to watch on my website that’s linked) and would like to give this a go as it’s something different.

    Would love to talk more, thanks Tia

  6. Hi,
    I’m actually up for your weird request. It’s not something I’ve done before but I am comfortable with the idea. I’m a professional photographer and videographer. So feel free to send me an email.
    Kind regards,

  7. Hi guys,my name’s Ajay..I’m a film n photographer for weddings and events..been doing it for few years an I always look for something different in couple’s when I shoot. If you would like to know more about what I do,please feel free to check me out, I hope I can help.thanks

  8. Im from belgium and only A amature but most off all very open-minded and set on your privacy .
    So If you want to talk it true just let me know and I know we can work something out

  9. To whom this may concern. I do photography however if you are unable to find a video grapher I would be willing to help

  10. I’d be more than happy to help you on the big day.
    Please feel free to contact me, and regardless, best of luck to you both!

  11. I’d love to help you both on the big day, I’m from Ireland and have a wealth of experience in weddings and security.
    Feel free to contact me, and best of luck to you both

  12. Hi! I am a hobby photographer from Belgium, I was pleasantly surprised when I read your announcement! I am offering my services to you, if you would like to contact me, please do! Hope to hear from you, kind regards, Ingrid from Belgium

  13. I’ll do it. I don’t find it weird if that is what they want. I can record on their phone so it is kept between them.

  14. Hey!

    I’m an experienced Wedding Videographer and shoot in a documentary style. That means I shoot the day as it happens. Check out for examples.

    Special requests are something you get a lot. Never before of this nature but if that’s what a couple wants to make their day and their memories special then so be it.

    Get it touch if you’d like to chat, if not then good luck with your big day!

  15. Unlike some replies here, I’m serious about this. With experiences in videography and photography, mostly in the music industry (poor light environment), weddings and nude modeling, I’m willing to do this. I’ll have to come in from Belgium, so it will be quite an undertaking, but I don’t mind the travel. And I’m sure you’ll get a descent result. I have basic lighting and reflectors (suitable for this shoot) and multiple camera’s. I can work both with stills and moving image.
    Feel free to contact me. I can send you examples of my work on demand.

  16. Heyy, I am film maker, also Use to have my own YouTube channel. If you are still looking give me a shout as I have professional camera nd equipment too. Hope to hear from you soon.
    Kind Regards.

  17. Wedding videographer with more than 10 years of experience. Member of the British Institute of Videography. I have also experience in artistic nude photography and videography with a great portfolio. I would be delighted to capture your special day and or night.

  18. Hello,

    I can definitely make your video. I just shot an entire wedding and have done a whole heap of other projects. Love doing stuff that’s a bit different. I have some portfolio stuff on my website and if you want to see the wedding video let me know as it’s not listed online. Let me know if you’d like to discuss. Either way, all the best for your big day!

  19. I’m a professional video producer, lighting-cameraman and editor. There are many different options and styles available from a very polished cinematic, edited product to something more raw – filmed straight to hard drive and original media supplied, never copied to any computer. Over 10 years experience including working with models and amature talent, not fazed by the content. Single or 2 person crew available, very professional and of course completely private. Also able to be more competitive on pricing than suggested budget:

  20. Hi,

    I’m a professional photographer, and as weird as it may sound, I’ve been asked to do this once before!

    Unfortunately the couple asked me not to use their video for any purpose, but I’m weirdly experienced in the field!

  21. I’m available in September and would have no issue film your “wedding night”. Will provide own film equipment and travel on the day. Contact me if you are interested and to discuss details.

  22. Hey there, I’m sure you are being flooded with requests, I’ve been a videographer for over 5 years, I’ve have done multiple weddings,
    Photographic and video graphic and think this is a great idea you have, I’m more than happy to discuss further with you both, please feel free to reach out, regards, M

  23. I would be more than happy to do this and I understand this is a fairly last minute booking with it being a September wedding!

    Capturing love between two people should not be seen as something strange and I think there would be a way to document this very intimately or discuss a style they’d like to go with. It would be easier to get stills beforehand but this can obviously be discussed.
    I have a degree in Videography and have been a professional photographer for 6 years and with boudoir experience (Not on my public portfolio due to client confidentiality).
    I live in Somerset so able to travel to the Cotswolds no problem. If I have availability I’d love to have a chat 😊

  24. No doubt you will get plenty of replies but I am a serving marine who likes to explore things with the camera, I’m not claiming to be a professional or years of experience but can offer honesty and someone real and free and also local xx

  25. I used a fantastic photographer in Holland (Eindhoven) who provided us this service, and the photos were incredible. It was worth every penny.

  26. Hello,
    We are able to do it.
    We are a young team,of experienced filmmakers and have worked on a variety of projects.we can adapt our style to how you would like it.
    We are based in the Cotswolds and have filmed in and around there.I myself have filmed weddings in the past but under a different company, we can assure you we will do a great job.
    Many thanks,

  27. Professional videographer with a unique talent. Your request? Pffft, we’re in the 21st century, perfectly normal for this kind of thing. I’d be interested in chatting and talking through some ideas.

  28. Hi my name is Stephen I have studied film in college I am a amature photographer I have taken photographs of one wedding that I can show you on request. I can offer a intimate environment for you and your partner. I think the best way to do this would be to use the rooms own lighting to allow for a intimate and natural environment I think I would have the right idea in mind to allow this to have the outcome of a natural intimate video rather than a cold porn feel. I would tailor it to your needs. But also with a garantee of privacy and a feeling that there is only two of you in the room. Because i understand a 3rd person could put both of you in a more nervous role than a natural. Please email if interested.

  29. Hi there

    I’m a 23 year old make videograoher and photographer who would be happy to film your special night for you. I cam provide you with the film on DVD just for you.

    I’ve filmed many wedding and promotional content in the past and have years of experience.

    I can also offer your final piece in 4k quality.

  30. Hello,
    I am not a professional videographer but I can arrange for a professional camera and I am very interested!
    I am 27 years old.
    Gay and trustworthy!
    I can 100% give you my word for all to stay between us! I think if you contacted me we would get along well!

    Hope to hear from you!

  31. Press Play Weddings will happily film your day. Just take the time to watch one of my wedding videos and you won’t be disappointed.

    Link to wedding video:

    Press Play would love to shoot your day, as we believe capturing those memories will make them last forever.

  32. Hi guys! 5 years experience as a videographer and 10 years as a photographer; specifically in erotic industries, relaxed female videographer and editor happy to shoot something like this for you; get in touch 😊

  33. I will be glad to help out I even have video editing software that I can edit the lights and all that stuff to make your day your special day and your night your special night

  34. I’d be happy to help. With a University degree and a masters in filmmaking, and as a trained sexual health practitioner. I’d be happy to help.

  35. Hey,

    Plenty of experience filming adult material in a respectful and professional manner as well as many projects filming subjects out of the norm.

    All the kit and skills required, happy to discuss further.

  36. Hello and congratulations on your forthcoming celebration! With 10 years experience in the wedding industry I am known for being discreet and professional and aim to make my couples feel as comfortable with me as much as being in front of the camera. I would undertake this task with your complete confidence and discretion. Please advise me of your date and location so I can confirm availability.

  37. Hi guys,

    I am based in Dublin, Ireland and have started taking on weddings. I also have some experience in more intimate videography, would love to let you see that work.


  38. Hi.
    Different? For sure..which is what makes it more appealing.
    I am a male photographer and occasional videographer in my mid 40s shooting with some of the best photo/videography bodies and accessories available.
    A peoples person that knows when to shut up and not be noticed.
    Think I would love to be a part of capturing your amazing memories.
    Pls get in touch if I can be of service on your special night.


  39. My wife and I are a conceptual fashion photography/videography duo capturing the most valuable and intimate moments with our models. We would love to be a part of creating a visually artistic timeless moment for this couple.

  40. More than happy to help. Am discreet, live in the Cotswolds, but currently based in London as a professional videographer. Let me know how I can help or if you would like further details of my work.

  41. Photographer and Videographer with previous experiences in filming events parties, commercial videos and night life. I’d be happy to help you out with this project. I think its a great idea and it would be a pleasure to work with you. Let me know if you have any questions 🙂

  42. Hello there I’m speaking for someone else right now , his name is Jordan and he has been doing videographer for a very long while . Jordan produces videos films, music videos & any kind of event that’s taking place. If you are interested I can send you his details over

  43. Hi, we heard about this request via Bark and would love to offer our services – providing the request has not been fulfilled. We’re a young two person husband and wife team and have been shooting weddings for some time now. However, originally we shot in the adult industry, and we have experience in shooting for several clients, both privately for personal collections, and on behalf of various adult video/image sales sites. Our work is very tasteful, and natural. We’re not a fan of shooting p, we prefer to be intimate and loving – think, less playboy and more boudoir to your long term partner.

  44. I’m Brazilian wedding filmaker and I’d like to do this work for you. Can you pay also the translate of Brazil to England!?
    If you need to see my work, please ask and I can send some links. Thank you!

  45. Hello, I would be interested in shooting this, I am a young professional videographer with a lot off passion and heart. I can provide lighting, I also use a tripod and a stabilizing gimbal for slow panning shots. I hope to hear from you.

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